What if the first thing God asked a man to do wasn’t to lead, protect, or achieve—but to create? In this episode, we explore the overlooked masculine calling of creativity: shaping life, bringing order from chaos, creating safety, setting vision, and reflecting the generative heart of God. Whether you’ve doubted your influence or felt outside traditional masculinity—especially for men navigating SSA—this message will remind you of the creative strength God placed in you from the beginning. For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Vision Trumps Fantasy
Fantasy escapes reality. Vision transforms it. Vision gives direction, clarifies choices, changes what you tolerate, and activates courage.In this episode, you will learn to craft a clear and compelling vision capable of lasting transformation.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Make Space for What's Next
If I received that promotion, I wouldn't be talking with you today. God used that disappointment to make space for something bigger. Now, I am a Certified High Performance Coach empowering men to live beyond their same-sex attractions and into their purpose. And I love it. What does God have next for you that requires space to hear?
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Participate in Masculinity
A powerful reminder that masculinity isn’t earned — it’s shared. In this episode, we explore what it means to participate in masculinity, belong among men, and reclaim the identity God has already woven into you.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Redirect Your Sexual Energy for Greater Purpose
I decided I didn’t want to experience sexual pleasure alone. I want my gift of sexuality to be used for connection, creation, and service. In this episode, I'll share three shifts that made the biggest impact for me: 1. Believe that it is not necessary. 2. See sexual energy as a force for service. 3. Get curious about the deeper desire.
Own Your Identity empowers men experiencing same-sex attraction to live a life of purpose and possibility. Each episode contains actionable tools to keep listeners moving forward into the life they truly desire, through the power of Christ and for the glory of God.