Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast

• The Recovery Mindset: How to Stop Needing Porn with Jake Kastleman, Host of the No More Desire Podcast

  🔹 Want to break free from porn? Join the waitlist for Unhooked Academy now: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/In this episode of Unhooked, Jeremy sits down with Jake Kastleman, Coach and Founder of No More Desire. They dive deep into the difference between mere sobriety and a true recovery lifestyle. Jake introduces his four pillars of healing—emotional, neurological, biological, and relational—and discusses how overcoming perfectionism and the high achiever mindset can lead to a life free from the desire for porn. The conversation also covers the importance of emotional regulation, breaking free from instant gratification, and the power of vulnerability in recovery. If you're on a journey towards recovery and seeking support, community, and coaching, learn more about Unhooked Academy at unhookedacademy.com.🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/introConnect with Jeremy:🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz📩 Email: [email protected]’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Connect with Jake Kastleman🎙️ Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/6YnCSiRheCD2wkhIc4UXBxhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-more-desire-porn-addiction-recovery/id1658847468🌍 Website: https://www.nomoredesire.com/podcastTimestamps:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:24 The Concept of True Recovery04:15 Jake's Four Pillars of Healing06:59 The Role of Technology and Noble Pleasures17:32 Jake's Personal Journey and Early Addictions25:42 Identifying the Relapse Mindset26:49 Sobriety vs. Recovery29:52 Embracing Painful Emotions34:36 Mindfulness and Pain Management37:09 Understanding and Addressing Shame42:24 The Power of Vulnerability46:57 Connecting with Supportive Communities50:35 Conclusion 

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• The Psychology of Change: Fear, Desire & Breaking Porn Addiction | Jeremy Lipkowitz Interviewed by Jake Kastleman on the No More Desire Podcast

  🔹 Want to break free from porn? Join the waitlist for Unhooked Academy now: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/In this episode, I share my unique journey from studying genetics at Duke University to becoming a Buddhist monk and eventually leading the Unhooked Academy to help men struggling with pornography and sex addiction. We discussed the profound impact of mindfulness and meditation on my life, the connection between porn addiction and happiness, and the importance of addressing underlying emotional needs. I elaborated on concepts like the realm of the Hungry Ghosts and the role of shame in addiction. With a focus on creating a shame-free, non-judgmental space, we emphasize the power of community, accountability, and compassionate self-awareness in achieving recovery.🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/introConnect with Jeremy:🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz📩 Email: [email protected]’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Connect with Jake Kastleman🎙️ Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/6YnCSiRheCD2wkhIc4UXBxhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-more-desire-porn-addiction-recovery/id1658847468🌍 Website: https://www.nomoredesire.com/podcastTimestamps:00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:38 Jeremy's Academic Journey and Realization01:31 Transition to Meditation and Teaching02:35 Focusing on Porn Addiction Recovery03:00 Leaving Academia for Mindfulness11:02 Understanding Craving and Desire15:12 Silent Meditation Retreats21:09 The Unhooked Academy and Recovery Approach26:26 The Role of Shame in Addiction34:31 Understanding Emotional Avoidance35:30 The Concept of Equanimity37:01 Skillful vs. Unskillful Actions38:03 Personal Recovery Story45:46 The Importance of Social Connection46:23 The Rat Park Experiment52:52 The Realm of the Hungry Ghosts59:32 The Role of Shame in Addiction01:01:53 Final Thoughts

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• 7 Positive Changes that Men Experience When They Quit Watching Porn (Rebroadcast)

  🔹 Want to break free from porn? Join the waitlist for Unhooked Academy now: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Spots are limited, so act fast to secure yours.Most men have no idea what life without porn actually feels like.In this episode, Jeremy shares the 7 biggest positive changes men experience when they finally quit watching porn — from sharper focus and deeper emotional connection, to better sleep, stronger confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose.If you’ve been wondering what freedom really looks like, this episode will show you what’s possible on the other side of addiction.👉 Join Unhooked Academy group coaching program — link in bio.Connect with Jeremy:🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz📩 Email: [email protected]:00:00 – Introduction02:55 – 1️⃣ Improved Physical Strength & Vitality04:50 – 2️⃣ Boost in Self-Esteem & Confidence06:05 – 3️⃣ Better Focus & Productivity08:00 – 4️⃣ Deeper Emotional Connection with Your Partner09:15 – 5️⃣ Increased Sexual Satisfaction & Real Attraction10:55 – 6️⃣ Improved Sleep & Overall Health12:00 – 7️⃣ Reconnecting with Purpose & Meaning14:15 – Final Thoughts 15:45 – Closing 

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• Copy This Exercise, It'll 10X your Motivation to Quit Porn For Good

  What happens if you don’t change?Ready to reboot your life?Quit porn. Reclaim your energy. Live with integrity.Join Unhooked Academy today and begin your transformation.Spots are limited, so act fast to secure yours.👉 Join the Academy now: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/In this episode of Unhooked, we explore the Default Future Exercise to help you dramatically boost your motivation to quit porn for good. Learn why visualizing your default future—where your life heads if you don't make positive changes—is a powerful tool for gaining clarity, direction, and long-term freedom from harmful habits. Hear a poignant story from a member of the Unhooked Academy and discover common insights from others who have undertaken this exercise. Tune in to find out how this five-minute practice can transform your recovery journey.🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/introConnect with Jeremy:🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz📩 Email: [email protected]’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Default Future Exercise01:13 Understanding the Default Future04:15 The Power of Fear and Desire in Motivation05:26 Real-Life Examples and Insights11:03 Common Reflections and Final Thoughts13:36 Conclusion and Community Invitation

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• 17 Hooked Habits Keeping You Addicted (and How to Break Them)

  Your habits are shaping your life and your recovery.Ready to reboot your life?Quit porn. Reclaim your energy. Live with integrity.Join Unhooked Academy today and begin your transformation.Spots are limited, so act fast to secure yours.👉 Join the Academy now: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/In this powerful episode, I break down the 17 “hooked habits” that keep men stuck in addiction and shares how to replace them with “unhooked habits” that lead to real freedom.Whether it’s using porn or screens to escape stress, hiding relapses, or relying on motivation without a system — these everyday patterns are what determine your long-term success.Learn how to build unshakable habits, take full ownership of your healing, and create a life that aligns with your highest self.🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/introConnect with Jeremy:🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz📩 Email: [email protected]’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Unhooked Habits00:13 Understanding the Impact of Habits01:53 Identifying Hooked Habits01:58 Hooked Habit #1: Escaping Stress and Loneliness03:00 Hooked Habit #2: Phone Dependency04:03 Hooked Habit #3: Keeping Relapses a Secret04:36 Hooked Habit #4: Avoiding Emotions05:28 Hooked Habit #5: Procrastination05:57 Hooked Habit #6: Viewing Slipups as Failures06:44 Hooked Habit #7: Relying on Motivation07:48 Hooked Habit #8: Following Triggering Accounts08:42 Hooked Habit #9: Not Asking for Help09:26 Hooked Habit #10: Lack of Accountability11:17 Hooked Habit #11: Justifying Slips12:19 Hooked Habit #12: Avoiding Difficult Conversations13:18 Hooked Habit #13: Letting One Bad Day Spiral14:11 Hooked Habit #14: Blaming External Factors14:46 Hooked Habit #15: Focusing Only on Streaks16:29 Hooked Habit #16: Viewing Recovery as Deprivation17:35 Hooked Habit #17: Perfectionism18:42 Introduction to Unhooked Habits18:58 Unhooked Habit #1: Facing Emotions Directly19:29 Unhooked Habit #2: Keeping Phone Outside Bedroom20:11 Unhooked Habit #3: Sharing Slips Openly20:37 Unhooked Habit #4: Allowing Discomfort21:02 Unhooked Habit #5: Acting Now21:34 Unhooked Habit #6: Treating Slipups as Feedback22:08 Unhooked Habit #7: Building Systems and Routines23:10 Unhooked Habit #8: Unfollowing Triggers23:43 Unhooked Habit #9: Asking for Help24:21 Unhooked Habit #10: Real Accountability25:03 Unhooked Habit #11: No Excuses25:41 Unhooked Habit #12: Honest Conversations26:15 Unhooked Habit #13: Bouncing Back Fast27:21 Unhooked Habit #14: Extreme Ownership27:50 Unhooked Habit #15: Measuring Overall Growth28:12 Unhooked Habit #16: Seeing Recovery as Expansion28:49 Unhooked Habit #17: Focusing on Progress29:11 Conclusion and Final Thoughts30:21 Closing Remarks

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