135. Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith: How to Rebuild a Relationship after Porn Addiction
In this episode of Unhooked, I am joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, a couple with extensive experience in helping couples heal from sexual addiction and betrayal. The Raabsmiths share their personal journey, practical advice for both individuals and couples, and how trauma manifests in relationships. We discuss the importance of honesty, the long-term commitment to recovery, and the roles of personal and relational healing. They'll also discuss their framework for rebuilding intimacy and trust, and provide actionable steps for overcoming compulsive behaviors and deepening relationships.🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/introConnect with Jeremy:🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz📩 Email:
[email protected]’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles00:56 Meet the Hosts and Guests02:36 Deep Dive into Relational Healing04:27 Starting the Conversation on Addiction07:38 Personal Stories of Addiction and Recovery19:48 The Importance of Honesty in Recovery29:31 Understanding the Addict's Perspective30:00 Healing from Betrayal Trauma30:40 The Impact of Trauma Triggers31:35 Relearning to Trust Your Gut33:33 The Role of Community and Support35:27 Navigating Different Upbringings and Expectations41:46 The Importance of Empathy and Understanding47:08 Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with The Raabsmiths📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theraabsmithteam/🌍 Website: https://raabsmithteam.com/https://raabsmithteam.com/free🚀 If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear this!