Happier with Gretchen Rubin

We talk about why proposing a toast can boost our happiness and discuss many do’s and don’ts for making a good toast. We also discuss some funny research about the “diversification bias” that might help you choose better snacks, and the common challenge of plugging in necessary accountability.
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Funny TikTok related to the "Four Tendencies"
Download my free Getting Specific How-To Guide
Check out the new Bingo Book and Don't Break the Chain Habit Tracker
Elizabeth is reading: Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel (Amazon, Bookshop)
Gretchen is reading: Train Dreams by Denis Johnson (Amazon, Bookshop)

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When Queen Elizabeth II encountered some friendly but clueless American tourists, she revealed her prankish sense of humor.
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Why is it so hard to keep an exercise habit, even when we want to? We discuss what the Four Tendencies reveals about finding the approach that works for you—and the single strategy that almost anyone can use to make exercise stick. Spoiler: it's not motivation.
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We talk about the value of self-knowledge and explore some of our favorite online personality quizzes and assessments. We also share listeners’ suggestions for staying warm, and tackle an Upholder’s question about why her Tendency isn’t helping her stop doomscrolling.
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Read about the Four Tendencies personality framework and take the quiz
Check out the Know Yourself Better journal collection
Join me on My Color Pilgrimage on Substack
Elizabeth is reading: You Better Believe I’m Going to Talk About It by Lisa Rinna (Amazon, Bookshop)
Gretchen is reading: Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry (Amazon, Bookshop)

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Is there anything special about human beings? A long list of characteristics—some obvious, some surprising—sets humans apart from other creatures. (Who knew that having a chin was so unusual?)
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