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‘Tis the season to give and receive! In this episode, I’m unwrapping the 2024 Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide to help you bring more pleasure to your loved ones—and yourself—this year. From wellness essentials to stocking stuffers and, of course, must-have sex toys, there’s something for everyone on your list (yes, even your grandparents!). I’ll share my top picks, tips for introducing a partner to toys, and why the gift of pleasure is truly the gift that keeps on giving.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
When and how to gift a sex toy.
Tips for introducing toys into your relationship.
Emily’s favorite pleasure-filled gifts for the holidays.
Show Notes:
Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide: 2024 Edition
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23:16
The Key To Happiness w/ Dr. Amen
What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his book Your Brain is Always Listening.
We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. Come along on a fascinating deep dive into how shifting your mindset can transform your brain, your relationships, and your pleasure.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to silence negative thoughts with easy daily habits to rewire your brain
Why a healthy brain means better sex, from focus to pleasure
How to break toxic cycles and build stronger, happier relationships
Show Notes:
More Dr. Daniel Amen: Website | Instagram | Amen University | Your Brain is Always Listening
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42:49
Talk Your Way to Better Sex
Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.
Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot more free.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to confidently speak up about your needs in the bedroom
Why communication is the ultimate lubricant for better sex
The secret to navigating relationship dilemmas—whether it’s mismatched libidos, feelings for a friend, or trying non-monogamy for the first time.
Show Notes:
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51:44
Out of Your Head and Into Bed w/ Nikki Glaser
On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date.
Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How taking charge of your orgasms can boost your connection with partners and why having a vibrator isn’t “cheating"
Explore the journey of accepting yourself fully—flaws, quirks, and all—and learn why self-confidence is the ultimate turn-on.
Get real about setting boundaries in relationships, from balancing power dynamics to knowing when to wait before taking things to the next level.
Show Notes:
More Nikki Glaser: Website | Facebook | Twitter (X) | Instagram | The Nikki Glaser Podcast
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50:16
Hotline Calls: Better Oral & Honeymoon Sex
On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying receiving oral sex, ways to spice up your honeymoon sex without actual penetration, and what to do if you aren’t getting as wet as you used to during sex. Plus, new methods for giving oral sex to prevent discomfort and how to decide if it’s worth staying in your relationship after seven years (and three children).
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Oral sex tips to prevent discomfort
How to make your wedding night intimate without penetration
How to build confidence with communication
Show Notes:
Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website
Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com
Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.
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