Self-Selecting

How do you know when it's actually time to increase weight?

In this episode, I break down the exact framework I use to determine when to add load, when to stay at the same weight, and when to focus on improving execution instead. We discuss progressive overload, reps in reserve (RIR), training intensity, hypertrophy, rep speed, exercise technique, glute growth, muscle building, recovery, and nutrition.

Whether you're a beginner learning how to train hard or an advanced lifter struggling to break through a plateau, understanding how to properly progress your training can dramatically improve your results.

This episode will help you stop guessing, train closer to failure, build more muscle, and make smarter decisions inside the gym.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 05:00] – Why Most Lifters Get Stuck With Progressive Overload
- [05:00 – 11:20] – Following A Structured Program & Avoiding Training Mistakes
- [11:20 – 20:36] – Training To Failure, RIR & Using Rep Speed Correctly
- [20:36 – 25:40] – How To Know When It's Time To Increase Weight

- [25:40 – 30:09] – Why Most People Undershoot Intensity & Load Selection
- [30:09 – 34:08] – Skill Development, Confidence & Progressive Overload
- [34:08 – 37:53] – When Increasing Weight Is The Wrong Decision
- [37:53 – 41:54] – The Progressive Overload Decision-Making Framework
- [41:54 – 43:43] – Using Tempo To Drive Muscle Growth Without Adding Weight
- [43:43 – 45:06] – The Stability Factor Most Lifters Overlook
- [45:06 – 47:48] – Recovery, Sleep & The Variables Affecting Performance
- [47:48 – 52:32] – Why You Must Eat Enough To Build Muscle

Links & Resources:

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In this episode, I sit down with Chanel Collette to discuss her journey through infertility, IVF, women's health, bodybuilding, and pregnancy. We explore the realities of trying to conceive after a long competitive career, misconceptions surrounding bodybuilding and fertility, the emotional and physical challenges of IVF, advocating for your health, and what it means to navigate pregnancy while building a business.

Chanel shares her experience with hypothyroidism, elevated prolactin, a pituitary adenoma diagnosis, fertility treatments, IVF setbacks, and ultimately achieving a successful pregnancy. We also discuss the importance of finding the right healthcare providers, understanding fertility testing, and balancing health, career, and motherhood.

Whether you're pursuing bodybuilding, navigating fertility challenges, considering IVF, or simply interested in women's health and family planning, this episode provides an honest look into the realities of the journey.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 02:26] - Chanel's Pregnancy Update, IVF Success & Entering Motherhood
- [02:26 – 05:36] - What IVF Is, Fertility Basics & Family Planning After 35
- [05:36 – 10:47] - Does Bodybuilding Cause Infertility? Competing, PEDs & Reproductive Health
- [10:47 – 16:15] - Fear, Fertility Awareness & The Emotional Reality of IVF
- [16:15 – 19:04] - IVF Challenges, Medication Management & Advocating For Yourself
- [19:04 – 24:04] - Hypothyroidism, Elevated Prolactin & Discovering A Pituitary Adenoma
- [24:04 – 30:05] - Fertility Treatment, Surgery, IUI, IVF & Creating A Viable Embryo
- [30:05 – 35:40] - IVF Results, Pituitary Tumors, Peptides & Women's Health Risks
- [35:40 – 40:03] - Cabergoline, Dopamine Changes, Anxiety & Managing Prolactin
- [40:03 – 44:40] - Pregnancy After IVF, Managing Risk & Remaining Hopeful
- [44:40 – 48:11] - Finding The Right Medical Team & Self-Advocacy In Healthcare
- [48:11 – 55:25] - IVF Transfer Process, Embryo Testing & Early Pregnancy Changes
- [55:25 – 01:00:06] - Coaching, Business Ownership & Preparing For Motherhood
- [01:00:06 – 01:05:14] - Birth Plans, Future Goals, Strong State Coaching & Final Reflections

Links & Resources:

Follow Chanel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chanelcollette/?hl=en

Work With Chanel: https://linktr.ee/chanelcollette?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=7f29d77a-e2e6-439e-b614-34395a58cf0f

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Does your partner need to live the same fitness lifestyle as you for your relationship to work?

In this episode, I break down one of the most common questions I hear from clients pursuing fat loss, physique development, bodybuilding, and long-term health goals: what happens when your partner doesn't share your passion for fitness?

I discuss the relationship dynamics that can either support or sabotage your progress, including communication, boundaries, insecurity, food choices, time commitments, coaching relationships, and differing lifestyle priorities. I also explain why fitness rarely creates relationship problems—it often magnifies existing ones.

Whether you're navigating a fat loss phase, contest prep, body transformation, or simply trying to improve your health, this episode will help you better understand what healthy support looks like and how to have productive conversations around your goals.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 02:59] – Do Partners Need To Share The Same Fitness Lifestyle?
- [02:59 – 05:46] – What Actually Matters More Than Shared Fitness Goals
- [05:46 – 08:49] – When Partners Become Too Involved In Your Fitness Journey
- [08:49 – 10:51] – When One Person's Goals Start Controlling The Relationship
- [10:51 – 14:13] – Fitness, Competition Prep & Leaning Too Heavily On Your Partner
- [14:13 – 17:50] – Food Choices, Dieting & Relationship Friction
- [17:50 – 24:27] – Time Commitments, Lifestyle Differences & Shared Expectations
- [24:27 – 26:54] – When Your Partner Doesn't Understand Your Fitness Goals
- [26:54 – 31:26] – The Biggest Relationship Threat: Insecurity
- [31:26 – 36:40] – Understanding The Different Levels Of Support
- [36:40 – 41:59] – Unsupportive Behaviors, Sabotage & Relationship Red Flags
- [41:59 – 43:44] – What To Do Next & How To Improve Communication

Links & Resources:

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Have you ever had a week where everything fell apart—missed workouts, skipped meal prep, poor food choices, or inconsistent habits—only to tell yourself you'll "be perfect" next week?

In this episode, I break down why most people fail to get back on track after a bad week. We discuss the difference between outcome-based goals and behavior-based goals, why motivation isn't the solution, and how to identify the real reasons your nutrition, training, and fat loss habits break down.

I explain how to set goals that actually improve adherence, how to assess your behavior objectively without emotion, and why long-term fat loss success comes from improving systems, planning, self-awareness, and decision-making—not trying harder.

If you're struggling with consistency, fat loss plateaus, goal setting, emotional eating, alcohol intake, meal prep, or staying accountable to your fitness goals, this episode will help you build a more sustainable approach.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 03:24] – Why Trying To Be "Perfect" After A Bad Week Usually Fails
- [03:25 – 08:55] – Motivation Isn't The Problem: Finding The Real Cause Of Going Off Track
- [08:56 – 11:10] – Why Understanding The Root Cause Changes Everything
- [11:11 – 16:11] – What Actually Makes A Good Fat Loss Goal?
- [16:12 – 21:33] – Meal Prep, Cardio & Planning For Real Life
- [21:34 – 24:24] – Setting Goals For Who You Are, Not Who You Wish You Were
- [24:25 – 29:19] – What You Actually Need To Have A Successful Week
- [29:20 – 31:49] – How To Assess Your Behavior Without Emotion
- [31:50 – 39:10] – Alcohol, Boundaries & The Hidden Behaviors Sabotaging Progress
- [39:11 – 41:10] – Why Most People Miss Their Step Goals
- [41:11 – 44:18] – Why Setting Goals Doesn't Automatically Change Behavior
- [44:19 – 48:15] – Building Standards That Make Fat Loss Consistent

Links & Resources:

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In this episode, I sit down with IFBB Bikini Pro Tianna Weymouth to discuss her first Olympia experience, competing at the Arnold, navigating mental and physical health challenges, switching coaches, and the lessons she's learned as a professional athlete.

We dive into the realities of bodybuilding beyond social media, including stage conditioning, blood pressure concerns, electrolyte balance, systemic fatigue, recovery, training execution, coach-athlete relationships, PED use, and the importance of advocating for yourself throughout your fitness journey.

Tianna shares her experience dealing with anxiety, depersonalization, burnout, and learning how to prioritize health without losing sight of long-term goals. We also discuss individualized coaching, boundaries, training intensity, recovery, and why sustainable success in bodybuilding requires much more than simply working harder.

Whether you're a competitor, coach, or someone pursuing physique goals, this conversation offers valuable insights into performance, health, mindset, and long-term development.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 - 04:24] - Tianna's First Olympia Experience & Expectations
- [04:24 - 11:27] - Olympia Feedback, Conditioning & Bringing the Right Package
- [11:27 - 16:30] - Arnold Invitations, Competitive Mindset & Long-Term Development
- [16:30 - 22:58] - Switching Coaches, Boundaries & Prioritizing Health
- [22:58 - 34:18] - Anxiety, Blood Pressure, Recovery & Rebuilding From Burnout
- [34:18 - 39:16] - Outgrowing Coaches, Communication & Athlete Buy-In
- [39:16 - 44:16] - Sodium, Potassium, Hydration & Performance Variables
- [44:16 - 51:43] - Systemic Fatigue, Cardio Mistakes & Recovery Management
- [51:43 - 58:34] - Training Intensity, Execution & Individualized Programming
- [58:34 - 01:01:41] - Rest Days, Recovery & Learning to Slow Down
- [01:01:41 - 01:08:27] - Self-Awareness, Personal Growth & Showing Up For Yourself
- [01:08:27 - 01:22:58] - Coaching Red Flags, Boundaries & Personalized Coaching
- [01:22:58 - 01:29:11] - PEDs, Expectations & The Reality of Muscle Growth
- [01:29:11 - 01:39:38] - Why You Can't Build Significant Muscle During Prep & Long-Term Physique Development

Links & Resources:

Follow Tianna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tianna.weymouth_ifbbpro/

Work With Tianna: https://pilyne.setmore.com/

Purchase The Complete Fat Loss Guide: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-fat-loss-guide/

Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/

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