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Cory Hageman
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  • E. 116 How PEDs Are Changing Women’s Bodybuilding (& What It Really Takes to Win) With Renee Harshey
    In this episode, I sit down with IFBB Pro and coach Renee Harshey to talk about her journey from Bikini to Wellness — and back again. Renee shares what it was like being part of the very first Wellness Pro show, how the division evolved, and why she made the bold decision to step away at the peak of her success.We dive deep into the realities of PED use in women’s bodybuilding, the blurred line between “enhancement” and health, and how social media has changed expectations across divisions. Renee and I also discuss how the industry’s standards have shifted — from conditioning and muscle density to the pressure of staying competitive — and what it takes to succeed long-term as an athlete and coach.If you’re an athlete navigating division transitions, debating enhancements, or figuring out how to balance ambition with health, this episode gives you an honest, experienced perspective from both sides of the stage.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:01] – Intro and Renee’s competition background - [02:01 – 05:28] – How Wellness began: the first U.S. shows and early division evolution- [05:28 – 08:13] – Competing against international athletes and the shift in Wellness standards- [09:18 – 12:24] – Why Renee stepped away from Wellness and took three years off- [12:24 – 15:08] – Returning to the stage: transitioning from Wellness back to Bikini- [15:08 – 20:00] – The conversation around PEDs, health, and knowing personal limits- [20:00 – 23:53] – Competing again: feedback from judges, physique adjustments, and next steps- [27:05 – 31:05] – Coaching insights: balancing athlete goals, show selection, and new Olympia qualifications- [33:02 – 35:59] – The growing concern over PED escalation in Bikini and Wellness divisions- [38:20 – 41:24] – How coaches should approach athlete enhancement with responsibility- [42:09 – 45:03] – Unsafe compounds, underregulated drugs, and female-specific risks- [45:25 – 49:12] – The most common PEDs in female bodybuilding and setting boundaries with clients- [51:06 – 54:14] – The truth about PEDs as “shortcuts” - [54:14 – 56:41] – Renee’s next show, what’s changing with her physique goals, and closing remarksLinks & resources:Follow Renee on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/renee_ifbbpro/Work With Renee: https://link.apisystem.tech/widget/survey/t8OwYuxGoXo2IsdQuJ6m?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacUV9oYLzSPg6DxfkfZ-i3lKwIodmhVQ4xxgmcp4MgsjzpjQ8XglIcl7kLuWA_aem_8d9sgUL2bai0GpP-Z0_qYwhttps://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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  • E. 115 30 Mistakes Every First-Time Competitor Makes (And How to Avoid Them)
    In this episode, I’m walking through the 30 most common mistakes first-time competitors make — from picking the wrong division to failing to prepare for show day details like tanning, posing, and timing.As a coach and athlete, I’ve seen it all — people underestimating how long prep takes, expecting linear fat loss, switching coaches mid-prep, and overlooking the mindset side of the sport. I cover not just what these mistakes are, but why they happen and how to avoid them, so you can set yourself up for a successful season and a smooth show day.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:15] – Introduction: Why this episode matters for first-time competitors- [02:15 – 03:45] – Mistake 1: Not having a “why” behind your decision to compete- [03:45 – 08:15] – Mistake 2: Picking the wrong division and underestimating muscle size at higher levels- [08:15 – 09:19] – Mistake 3: Underestimating the commitment - [09:19 – 10:25] – Mistake 4: Getting extra jobs to fund prep instead of planning ahead financially- [10:25 – 11:07] – Mistake 5: Choosing a coach only because they’re local- [11:07 – 13:21] – Mistake 6: Starting prep during a busy or stressful season- [13:21 – 17:11] – Mistake 7: Not communicating the commitment with your partner- [17:11 – 18:30] – Mistake 8: Not giving yourself enough time to get lean- [18:30 – 20:56] – Mistake 9: Expecting to lose fat linearly- [20:56 – 25:29] – Mistake 10: Being overly dependent on your coach- [25:29 – 27:21] – Mistake 11: Expecting to win your first show- [27:21 – 28:44] – Mistake 12: Trying to avoid hunger and fatigue - [28:44 – 35:15] – Mistake 13: Taking advice from too many people- [35:15 – 39:03] – Mistake 14: Switching coaches close to show day- [39:03 – 39:46] – Mistake 15: Neglecting posing practice- [39:46 – 41:52] – Mistake 16: Comparing your physique to others on social media- [41:52 – 43:09] – Mistake 17: Obsessing over peak week too early- [43:09 – 44:49] – Mistake 18: Normalizing extreme food focus- [44:49 – 46:45] – Mistake 19: Making last-minute changes without telling your coach- [46:45 – 47:47] – Mistake 20: Not reading tan prep instructions- [47:47 – 49:02] – Mistake 21: Doing show-day hair/makeup without practice- [49:02 – 50:00] – Mistake 22: Assuming the show weekend will run on schedule- [50:00 – 51:31] – Mistake 23: Failing to protect your tan- [51:31 – 53:12] – Mistake 24: Letting hair/makeup timing delay your call time- [53:12 – 55:23] – Mistake 25: Using inconsistent lighting for check-ins- [55:23 – 58:00] – Mistake 26: Focusing on all the wrong things show weekend- [58:00 – 59:18] – Mistake 27: Skipping finals out of disappointment- [59:18 – 01:01:49] – Mistake 28: Posting negatively on social media post-show- [01:01:49 – 01:05:00] – Mistake 29: Ghosting your coach after your show- [01:05:00 – 01:06:00] – Mistake 30: Post-show rebound Links & Resources:https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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  • E. 114 Why Your Shoulders Aren't Growing (7 Biggest Mistakes)
    In this episode of the Self Selecting Podcast, I dive into the 7 most common mistakes people make when trying to build 3D delts. For years, upper body training—especially shoulders—has been an area where so many athletes overcomplicate things, cut corners, or waste time on ineffective movements.I break down exactly why your shoulders aren’t growing the way you want, covering everything from training volume, exercise selection, and getting close enough to failure, to trap recruitment, ipsilateral support, and the balance between delt and arm training.Whether you’re chasing that bikini pro look, the fit model aesthetic, or simply want toned, sculpted shoulders, this episode gives you actionable strategies to level up your training.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:16] – Why upper body training is overlooked & intro to 3D delts- [02:16 – 04:53] – The look I built & common traps in female shoulder training- [04:53 – 10:13] – Mistake #1: Underestimating how long it takes to build delts- [10:13 – 16:41] – Mistake #2: Underestimating the training volume needed- [16:41 – 19:39] – Mistake #3: Overcomplicating exercise selection- [19:39 – 26:49] – Mistake #4: Not training close enough to failure & scapular stability- [26:49 – 33:21] – Mistake #5: Worrying too much about traps & stability solutions- [33:21 – 35:51] – Mistake #6: Externally rotating to compensate (why it kills delt growth)- [35:51 – 39:46] – Mistake #7: Building bi’s & tri’s at the same rate as delts- [39:46 – 40:36] – Final thoughts & why clarity in your goals is keyLinks & Resources:https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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  • E. 113 The Journey to IFBB Pro: The Sacrifices No One Talks About With Tate Donley
    In this episode, I sat down with Tate Donley to dive deep into the real costs of competing, the role of PEDs, and what it actually takes to progress in bodybuilding. Tate shared her journey through glute growth, second-guessing herself, and navigating the blurred lines between natural progress and enhanced strategies. We also got into the new Olympia qualification system, the rise of fit model as an alternative division, and why chasing the physiques of top pros isn’t realistic for most athletes. Finally, Tate gave powerful advice for competitors who are questioning their path.This one is packed with transparency, tough truths, and inspiration for anyone considering the next step in their competitive journey.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:54] – Intro and setting the stage for Tate’s journey in bodybuilding- [09:00 – 11:18] – The cost of PEDs and the reality of competing frequently- [11:18 – 14:15] – Contrasting prep in North America with Tate’s most recent prep experience- [14:15 – 16:57] – Working hard but feeling like no progress is happening- [16:57 – 19:17] – Glute growth progress and learning patience in bodybuilding- [19:17 – 22:30] – Second-guessing, PED temptation, and the misconception of direct A to B results- [22:30 – 31:49] – PED expectations vs. reality and pressures in the sport- [31:49 – 35:20] – Gamifying shows, Olympia qualification, and considering fit model over bikini- [35:20 – 42:36] – Bikini pros transitioning to fit model and the reality of physique standards- [42:36 – 46:15] – The “it” factor: why most can’t replicate top pro physiques- [46:15 – 01:00:00] – Waist control improvements from pro card to first pro show- [01:00:00 – 01:03:25] – Tate’s closing advice for athletes on patience, trust, and realistic goalsLinks & Resources:Follow Tate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tater_tater/Work With Tate: https://www.agapestrengthandnutrition.com/contacthttps://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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  • E. 112 Is Your Doctor Making These 10 Mistakes?
    In this episode of the Self-Reflecting Podcast, I dive deep into the 10 biggest hormone and HRT mistakes I see being made by doctors, coaches, and clinics — especially in women’s health and bodybuilding. From wild TRT dosing to misusing estrogen modulators and Anavar, I break down the misconceptions, the risks, and what you should really be looking out for when it comes to hormone replacement therapy, perimenopause support, and contest prep protocols.I share real client stories, red flags I’ve seen in the industry, and practical advice to help you protect your health, avoid unnecessary risks, and make smarter, more informed decisions about your hormones, coaching, and care.If you’ve ever wondered whether your doctor, coach, or clinic might be mismanaging your hormones — this episode is for you.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 04:19] – Why I recorded this episode - [04:19 – 08:48] – Mistake 1: Prescribing wild TRT doses for women and the dangers of too much testosterone- [08:48 – 13:08] – Mistake 2: Blanket-prescribing estrogen modulators without checking estradiol levels- [13:19 – 16:28] – Mistake 3: Prescribing Anavar with no clear endpoint, perimenopause misuse & cumulative risks- [16:45 – 21:42] – Mistake 4: Combining drugs with opposite effects (MK-677 + GLP-1) & the business model behind it- [21:42 – 23:04] – Mistake 5: Using estrogen modulators alongside estradiol in HRT – working against yourself- [23:16 – 26:46] – Mistake 6: Not establishing an upper threshold for safe testosterone levels (and why labs matter)- [26:59 – 30:42] – Mistake 7: Starting TRT without proper follow-up or scheduled labs- [30:42 – 33:04] – Mistake 8: Using hormonal birth control as a blanket fix for irregular cycles & PMS- [33:21 – 35:28] – Mistake 9: Marketing menstrual cycle cessation as a “perk” to upsell HBC- [35:44 – 39:03] – Mistake 10: Overlooking lab timing for estradiol and progesterone relative to your cycle- [39:03 – 39:18] – Final thoughts: why most of these mistakes aren’t malicious but come from ignorance + empowering you to ask better questionsLinks & Resources:https://coryfit.com/Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15minConsults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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