Self-Selecting

In this episode, I dive into something we all experience at some point: unsolicited, judgmental, or passive-aggressive comments, especially when you're doing something that challenges other people’s comfort zones. Whether it's in your fitness journey, personal growth, or any goal you're pursuing, people will have something to say.I talk about the difference between hurtful vs. helpful feedback, how to tell when a comment comes from insecurity or misunderstanding, and how I personally choose to respond, not react. I walk you through the mental strategies that have worked for me, what I’ve learned about not needing to win every conversation, and the importance of protecting your emotional bandwidth, especially in close relationships.This episode is your toolkit for handling comments with clarity and boundaries, without losing your cool, or your momentum.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 04:13] – Introduction: Why unsolicited comments hit harder when you're growing- [04:13 – 08:37] – Hurtful comments often come from insecurity - here’s how to spot them- [08:37 – 13:31] – You deserve a standard of respect, but it’s not always black and white- [13:31 – 20:29] – Real examples of comments I’ve received - and when it’s okay to push back- [20:29 – 22:02] – My favorite mental strategies to handle unsolicited opinions- [22:02 – 25:42] – When they downplay your work? Go three steps further instead of arguing- [25:42 – 29:03] – You don’t have to win the conversation to keep your peace- [29:03 – 33:50] – Keep some goals private - not everyone is safe for full access- [33:50 – 34:44] – Don’t overextend yourself to make others comfortable- [34:44 – 40:19] – Navigating this in relationships: how to re-diffuse the conversation- [40:19 – 45:35] – The longer you tolerate it, the more “normal” it becomes for them- [45:35 – 47:33] – Passive-aggressive comments: read between the lines- [47:33 – 53:12] – Final reflections: protect your energy, protect your progressLinks & Resources:https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

In this episode, I sit down with IFBB Wellness Pro Bri Edwards for a raw and real conversation on what it actually takes to grow into the Wellness division and the emotional, physical, and PED-related tradeoffs that come with it.We talk about how she chose Wellness, how her mindset evolved during long off-seasons, and what it felt like navigating her first PED cycle and turning pro. Bri opens up about the pressure to grow, how strength and size don’t always correlate the way people think, and how PEDs aren’t magic - they’re multipliers.We also dig into some tougher topics: coaches struggling with eating disorders, new competitors getting pushed into PEDs too early, and how social media distorts the entire process. If you’re a female competitor thinking about leveling up, or navigating PEDs, this one’s for you.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:54] – Intro - [03:00 – 09:09] – When Bri decided on the Wellness division & building the look- [09:09 – 13:13] – First national show experience & learning curve- [13:13 – 15:55] – What it takes mentally to commit to a long off-season- [15:55 – 17:30] – Brie’s first PED cycle: mindset, context, and guidance- [17:30 – 21:28] – Turning pro: PED decisions, context, and risk vs reward- [21:28 – 24:00] – PEDs as amplifiers: why the hardest workers benefit the most- [24:00 – 25:06] – Post-cycle changes: weight gain vs retention- [25:06 – 29:40] – High food intake struggles & nutrition as a growth limiter- [29:40 – 34:00] – Strength ≠ growth: breaking common misconceptions- [34:00 – 38:13] – What sacrifices are you truly willing to make for prep?- [38:13 – 45:36] – Why you’re really doing the prep: validation vs fulfillment- [45:36 – 55:45] – How the Wellness look has evolved - [55:45 – 57:19] – Coaches with EDs hurting clients & coaching's low barrier to entry- [57:19 – 1:03:02] – PED decisions as a new competitor & final thoughts from BriLinks & Resources:Follow Bri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wycked.b/Work With Bri: https://www.teamsiegetraining.com/applicationhttps://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15minConsults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

In this episode, I break down some of the most dangerous and common dosing mistakes I see in TRT, peptides, and GH use, especially when clients self-administer without fully understanding concentration, syringe sizes, or math.As someone with a background in nursing and years of experience in this space, I’ve seen even the smartest and most experienced clients make errors in units, decimals, or conversion that result in adverse effects, visual changes, or major setbacks.I also dive into the differences between subcutaneous vs. intramuscular injections, lab work non-negotiables, how to interpret serum levels, and why it’s critical to be humble when it comes to this stuff, because even small mistakes can lead to irreversible outcomes.This is not a dosing tutorial - it’s a wake-up call for anyone using performance-enhancing drugs, HRT, or peptides without truly knowing what they’re doing.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:20] – Why med math matters: real risks with TRT, GH, and peptides- [02:20 – 04:23] – Overconfidence and real client examples of accidental overdosing- [04:23 – 06:46] – Switching concentrations? How simple math mistakes happen- [06:46 – 07:17] – Setting the record straight: this is not a how-to tutorial- [07:17 – 10:45] – Pre-mixed vs. reconstituted drugs and the impact on concentration- [10:45 – 14:14] – The dangers of decimal mistakes: units vs mLs vs mg- [14:14 – 17:37] – Real-life TRT dosing mistakes: drawing 10x more than intended- [17:37 – 19:43] – What 10mg/mL *really* means and avoidingconcentration confusion- [19:43 – 21:02] – Why labs are non-negotiable for accurate TRT monitoring- [21:02 – 25:24] – Adverse effects, visualization, and risks of overdosing- [25:24 – 30:16] – Injection techniques: subQ vs IM, needle trauma, and long-term skin health- [30:16 – 31:07] – Why you need confidence that your injections are worth it- [31:07 – 33:04] – Starting doses, concentration, and why 300mg/mL may be a problem- [33:04 – 34:26] – Why creams and other forms of TRT lack accuracy & consistency- [34:26 – 37:29] – Interpreting labs: peak vs trough serum levels and real risk- [37:29 – 40:17] – Understanding IUs vs. units with GH, peptides, and more- [40:17 – 42:01] – Smart people still make dosing mistakes: how to prevent yours- [42:01 – 43:49] – Final PSA: be clear on syringe, concentration, needle size, and unitsLinks & Resources:https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

In this episode, I break down 10 non-negotiable fat loss rules that will keep you moving forward, even if you're starting from square one. Whether you're totally new to dieting or someone who’s been stuck in a cycle of inconsistency and second-guessing, these principles are here to cut through the noise.We’re talking real strategies, not perfectionism. I share what I've learned coaching women through sustainable fat loss, muscle building, and how to keep progress once the diet ends. These are the conversations I wish someone had with me years ago.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 04:30] - Introduction - [04:30 – 08:30] – Number 1: Consistency Beats Perfection- [08:30 – 11:00] – Number 2: Fat Loss Gives You Clarity- [11:00 – 15:50] – Number 3: Expect Slow Changes and Measure Anyway- [15:50 – 18:54] – Number 4: Build Proof You Can Do Hard Things- [18:54 – 23:55] – Number 5: Crawl, Walk, Run – Dieting is a Skill- [23:55 – 29:02] – Number 6: Using Self-Hate as Fuel Doesn’t Work- [29:02 – 31:55] – Number 7: Pride is Expensive- [31:55 – 34:08] – Number 8: Stop Counting Other People’s Calories- [34:08 – 38:03] – Number 9: You Can’t Manage What You Don’t Measure- [38:03 – 42:54] – Number 10: Tackle Your Biggest BottleneckLinks & Resources:https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

In this episode, I sit down with Melissa Valliere for a deeply personal and brutally honest conversation around PED use, identity, bodybuilding culture, and the emotional cost of competing.We talk about how easy it is to use prep as a distraction, especially when you’re going through something emotionally heavy. Melissa shares her own experience with that and what it took for her to step back, get curious, and reclaim her health and identity.We also go deep on PED use in figure, how the culture has evolved, the virilization risks people don’t talk enough about, and why some coaches are crossing the line in pushing PEDs on athletes. Melissa drops real-world advice for women navigating decisions around enhancement, competing, and how to protect your mental and physical future.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 00:56] – Intro & what today’s episode is really about- [00:56 – 08:50] – Melissa’s history with prep, identity, and emotional detachment- [08:50 – 19:44] – Using prep to avoid emotions & the bandaid effect of competing- [19:44 – 26:19] – The moment Melissa realized she had to dig herself out- [26:19 – 28:34] – Why curiosity is the most powerful mindset for healing- [28:34 – 31:50] – Has the figure division changed over time?- [31:50 – 35:13] – PED culture in figure: Then vs. Now- [35:13 – 40:14] – PED use across divisions: what’s normalized & what’s expected- [40:14 – 42:16] – The under-discussed risks of virilization- [42:16 – 45:49] – Coaches pushing PEDs: red flags & ethical concerns- [45:49 – 52:45] – Making PED decisions: what you should actually consider- [52:45 – 58:36] – Why it's okay to compete for reasons other than winningLinks & Resources:Follow Melissa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissabum/https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink