Self-Selecting

In this episode, I dive deep into a topic that’s extremely personal for me — body dysmorphia. From the outside, it might look like discipline, ambition, or just wanting to “improve.” But for so many of us, the obsession with how we look becomes the filter through which we judge everything — our self-worth, our success, even our relationships.

I talk through how this disorder shows up subtly and loudly — from mirror checking and scale obsession to tying your identity to your body. I break down how perfectionism, social media, and childhood messaging play into the way we talk to ourselves today. I also offer tangible tools I’ve used (and continue to use) to stop the spiral and shift the conversation. This episode is raw, real, and a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like your value lives in how you look.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 03:00] – Intro & personal struggle with body dysmorphia
- [03:01 – 06:29] – Defining body dysmorphia & how it differs from insecurity
- [06:30 – 10:20] – What it feels like to live with body dysmorphia
- [10:21 – 13:32] – Obsession, punishment, and when discipline becomes destructive
- [13:33 – 17:49] – Romanticizing the grind & the mental health toll
- [17:50 – 22:35] – When self-esteem only exists in restriction
- [22:36 – 27:44] – Social media, comparison loops & trauma reinforcement
- [27:45 – 31:00] – Who’s feeding the belief? Taking accountability for inner talk
- [31:01 – 32:49] – The “physique = worth” trap & normalizing vanity with balance
- [32:50 – 36:28] – Using competing as a socially acceptable excuse to obsess
- [36:29 – 38:33] – Recognizing the spiral & how to start reining it in
- [38:34 – 44:00] – Why removing the scale isn’t always the answer + setting boundaries
- [44:01 – 47:30] – Best angles, Photoshop, and the influencer illusion

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In this episode, I break down the most common programming and training mistakes I see in lower body sessions—especially when it comes to chasing symmetry and strength. Whether you're a competitor or just serious about your physique, this episode dives into warm-up protocols, pelvic stability, the myth of bilateral-only training, and how to properly structure your sets for progressive overload.

I talk through real-world training applications like split squats, RDLs, and unilateral leg work, and I also explain how to assess failure, rest periods, and the importance of filming your lifts to improve your form. If you’ve ever questioned whether your training is actually driving adaptation or just checking boxes, this one’s for you.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 00:56] – Why effective lower body training starts with structure
- [00:56 – 05:57] – What you’re probably missing in your warm-up sets
- [05:58 – 07:59] – Pelvic stability & its impact on performance
- [08:00 – 14:23] – The role of unilateral work for hip and core control
- [14:24 – 16:29] – Training symmetry: Bilateral movements alone won’t cut it
- [16:30 – 22:42] – Common asymmetries + going back to pelvic balance
- [22:43 – 28:14] – Warm-up volume vs. working sets
- [28:15 – 31:59] – How many warm-up sets before your first working set?
- [32:00 – 34:32] – Progressive overload ≠ just more weight or reps
- [34:33 – 35:34] – Judging failure: How close is close enough?
- [35:35 – 40:27] – Rest periods, unilateral fatigue, and why you should film sets
- [40:28 – 47:13] – Split squat mechanics, B-stance RDL placement, and finishing with isolations

Links & Resources:

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In this episode, I sat down with Torey Braly to talk through her evolution as a competitor — from first show nerves to becoming a pro athlete navigating the big leagues. We broke down her shifting mindset, PED decision-making, building phase strategies, and what it's really like to show up to a competition… while on your period.

Torey also shares the growing pains of off-season weight gain, how she's learning to balance expectations with reality, and why obsessive tendencies can sabotage progress. Whether you're an athlete in the trenches or a coach trying to understand client psychology, this one hits home.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 03:34] – Torey’s first show mindset + early PED awareness
- [03:35 – 06:29] – First prep + what she didn’t know going in
- [06:30 – 09:10] – Turning pro and PED use in the pro league
- [09:11 – 13:27] – Competing while on your cycle + stage-day challenges
- [13:28 – 16:39] – Honest feedback + knowing where you stack up
- [16:40 – 20:44] – Needed improvements and physique assessment
- [20:45 – 25:25] – Muscle-building strategy + leveraging structure
- [25:26 – 32:02] – Off-season weight gain, body image, and mindset
- [32:03 – 36:16] – PED pressure, regret, and informed choice
- [36:17 – 44:42] – Navigating the new points system + Retatrutide
- [44:43 – 50:16] – Posing evolution + obsession with the small stuff
- [50:17 – 58:10] – Radical ownership, emotional addiction & athlete maturity

Links & Resources:

Follow Torey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/torey_ifbbpro/?hl=en

Pose With Torey: https://calendly.com/fitfornorzn/30min-client-posing?month=2026-01

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In this episode, I break down the real reasons why Anavar isn’t the magic fix for female libido that some think it is. I share what I’ve learned from years of client conversations, consults, and real-world scenarios where deeper issues were being overlooked.

We dive into the multifaceted nature of female sexual dysfunction—from nervous system dominance and blood flow to psychological barriers like body image, unresolved resentment, and relationship dynamics. I also highlight the downstream risks of long-term Anavar use, such as virilization, hormone suppression, and cardiovascular strain.

This episode is an important one—especially if you or someone you know is considering using PEDs like Anavar for sexual performance or libido.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 03:46] – Intro: Why women are turning to Anavar for libido—and why it’s not the solution
- [03:47 – 05:43] – Understanding the umbrella of female sexual dysfunction
- [05:44 – 08:47] – Nervous system dominance and stress as libido killers
- [08:48 – 10:19] – Perfusion, organ function, and overlooked health contributors
- [10:20 – 13:38] – Emotional context, resentment, and unresolved relationship issues
- [13:39 – 14:14] – Body confidence and intimacy resistance
- [14:15 – 16:14] – Your environment, mindset, and feeling unsafe in your own body
- [16:15 – 18:19] – Why Anavar won’t fix intimacy issues (and can cause new ones)
- [18:20 – 24:14] – Side effects: Masculinization, hormone suppression, liver impact
- [24:15 – 27:19] – Using Anavar for libido = long-term commitment + irreversible changes
- [27:20 – 30:17] – Safer alternatives and making informed choices

Links & Resources

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In this episode, I break down what makes a great coaching relationship — and what quietly ruins it. I cover the client behaviors that build trust and progress, as well as the habits that frustrate coaches and lead to misalignment. From check-in consistency and applying feedback, to honoring your contract and treating your coach like a search engine — this is a behind-the-scenes look at what truly makes someone coachable.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 – 07:57] – Why discovery calls matter + early signs of misalignment
- [07:58 – 11:13] – Why coaches appreciate on-time check-ins
- [11:14 – 12:36] – Expectations around coach response times
- [12:37 – 16:00] – Clients who apply training feedback vs. those who don’t
- [16:00 – 21:05] – Asking other coaches for input = broken trust
- [21:05 – 27:25] – Honoring your coaching contract (and reputation)
- [27:25 – 33:16] – Treating your coach like a search engine
- [33:16 – 42:34] – Coaches failing to provide training feedback
- [38:26 – 39:56] – Accountability, ego, and boyfriends interfering in coaching

Links & Resources:

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