Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most important elements of moving towards freedom in your relationship and that is…a reset from sex.It’s something that you may have heard many times on the podcast in interviews with alumni of Doing It Together but it’s the first time I’ve addressed it directly.If you are tired of the mental energy sex is taking up in your life right now, I highly encourage you to listen to this conversation.Sign up for Janna's brand new workshop on Jan. 15. Your Desire Blueprint: 3 Steps to a Sex Life You Actually Want (Even if That Means None)Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

Today on the podcast I recorded a short and sweet solo episode for you but really it’s a love-letter to my former self. Anxiety (just a different term for “fear”) is telling you something and if you are feeling it around sex, there is something to learn. And I promise you, it’s not that you are broken and that nothing will ever work. I used to believe that too but that thought will only keep you stuck.Listen and trust yourself and please, please, please get some support for this. It’s not going to change on it’s own.Sign up for Janna's brand new workshop on Jan. 15. Your Desire Blueprint: 3 Steps to a Sex Life You Actually Want (Even if That Means None)Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

Since we’re headed into a time of the year where there may be some extra space as a couple, I thought it would be a good idea to talk about expectations around sex and special occasions. I know this happens more often with birthdays and vacations but it’s possible that in the lull between Christmas and New Years some pressure could creep in.In this short episode, we discuss why this happens, the harm it can cause and what to do instead. Plus we talk about what gifts husbands should never get their wives 🙂.Sign up for Janna's brand new workshop on Jan. 15. Your Desire Blueprint: 3 Steps to a Sex Life You Actually Want (Even if That Means None)Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about.But what if something else was happening? What if our culture has only taught men and women about men’s bodies and pleasure? What if women’s genitals and orgasms felt impossibly difficult because we are all trying to approach them like men’s? This is what we discussed on the podcast this week- sharing openly our current challenges with my partner learning my body as well as the common feeling amongst women that we don’t work properly or that we’re broken.And to make it practical, we also included some basic concepts to understand when approaching the clitoris.We didn’t hold anything back in this 30 minute episode and I hope you can find a quiet, private moment to join the conversation.Sign up for Janna's brand new workshop on Jan. 15. Your Desire Blueprint: 3 Steps to a Sex Life You Actually Want (Even if That Means None)Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

Janna and her husband discuss the ins and outs of talking about sex as a couple- why so many people struggle with it, their personal challenges with communication, and what they're currently experimenting with to try to improve.Sign up for Janna's brand new workshop on Jan. 15. Your Desire Blueprint: 3 Steps to a Sex Life You Actually Want (Even if That Means None)Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, and join the waitlist for the Feb./Mar. 2026 round.Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.