In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most unexpectedly heated topics in co-parenting: clothes. Sam’s TikTok video on this went viral and the comment section? Whew—let’s just say people had feelings.We’re unpacking the strong opinions around whether or not parents should send clothes back and forth between homes, reading some of the wildest (and most relatable) comments, and sharing our own thoughts and experiences.At the end of the day, it’s not really about the socks or the sweatshirt—it’s about control, communication, and what’s truly best for the kids. So let’s talk about it.
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The 3 Silent Mistakes Parents Make With Their Custody Orders
Think your custody order has your back? Think again.In this episode, we’re giving you a sneak peek into one of our most important trainings inside The Next Chapter—and trust us, this one’s a game-changer.Most parents are silently sabotaging themselves with their custody orders without even realizing it. We're breaking down the 3 most common (and costly) mistakes that can wreck your chances in court, give your ex unnecessary leverage, and leave you feeling powerless.You’ll learn:Why being “nice” and flexible can backfireWhat has to be documented (even if it feels petty)How to spot the loopholes in your order before they blow upNo one tells you this—not your lawyer, not the judge, and definitely not your co-parent.🎯 If you know your order has some gray areas, or you’ve been second-guessing how to enforce it, this episode is for you.📣 Want the full training and support? Join us inside The Next Chapter and we’ll walk you through it, piece by piece. https://www.samandleah.com/services
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Protect Yourself: Smart Documentation in High-Conflict Divorce
If you’re navigating a high-conflict divorce or co-parenting dynamic, documentation isn’t just helpful—it’s critical. In this powerful episode, we’re joined by Bridget Bennett, Legal Strategist, Custody Specialist, and founder of Breaking Badass Coaching. With over 20 years in the legal field, Bridget is a Certified High Conflict Custody & Divorce Coach, a professional paralegal, and a fierce advocate for families affected by abuse and coercive control. She shares the most common (and costly) documentation mistakes she sees clients make—and how to avoid them. Whether you're working with an attorney or going pro se, this episode is packed with tips to help you protect yourself, advocate for your children, and show up stronger in family court.Connect with Bridget: https://www.breakingbadasscoaching.com/
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Is Mediation Right for You? Let’s Debunk the B.S.
You’ve probably heard about divorce mediation—but do you really know what it is (and isn’t)? In this episode, we’re breaking down the biggest myths about mediation, especially the ones that keep so many moms from even considering it.We’re talking about whether it only works if you get along, if it means compromising everything, and whether you still need a lawyer. If you're navigating divorce or co-parenting with a difficult ex, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and a better understanding of whether mediation could work for you.Let’s get real about what mediation actually looks like—and how it might just make this chapter a little less overwhelming.
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Survival Mode: Divorce, Hustling, and Finding Our Way
In this raw and honest episode, we’re sharing the unfiltered truth about money and survival after divorce. Sam opens up about the sacrifices she made to stay afloat—bartering services, cutting corners, and doing whatever it took to get by. Leah shares her vulnerable story of rushing into a relationship for financial support, only to realize that the cost of stability came with a second divorce.If you’ve ever felt like you had to hustle hard just to make ends meet after divorce, this one’s for you. We’re talking about the messy middle—the choices we make, the lessons we learn, and the reminder that these seasons are temporary. You’re not alone, and you will get through this.
Welcome to our podcast, a heartfelt and insightful series hosted by two certified divorce coaches who have personally experienced the complexities of divorce. Our podcast is a blend of personal insights and professional expertise, focusing on topics like rebuilding self-esteem, mastering the art of co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, and fostering resilience in both yourself and your kids. Our goal is to offer you a sanctuary of healing, tools, and practical advice. Join us in transforming your divorce experience into a journey of personal growth and empowerment.
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