10 Hidden Reasons Communication Crashes Between High-Conflict Co-Parents
If you've ever felt like you're speaking a different language than your co-parent — you're not alone. In this episode, Sam and Leah break down 10 hidden reasons why communication between high-conflict co-parents is so challenging, even when it’s supposed to be about the kids.From deep-seated mistrust and emotional triggers to power struggles and legal landmines, we’re unpacking the real reasons it feels impossible to just have a simple conversation. You’ll learn how these communication crashes happen, why they’re more common than you think, and what you can start doing differently to protect your peace and your children’s well-being.Whether you're in the thick of a high-conflict custody battle or just trying to navigate tense transitions, this episode is packed with insight, validation, and practical takeaways.✨ Tune in and take your power back — one boundary at a time.
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Caring for Your Kids When the Other Parent Doesn’t
One of the hardest parts of co-parenting after divorce? Knowing your child isn’t being cared for the way you would. Maybe they come home without their medication, with their hair unbrushed, wearing the same clothes they left in—or worse.In this episode, we share 5 powerful strategies to help you navigate the emotional toll of having a co-parent who consistently drops the ball. You’ll learn how to stay grounded, support your kids without shaming the other parent, document what matters, and shift the focus to what’s in your control—without burning yourself out.This is for every mom who’s ever felt helpless, angry, or defeated after sending their child to a house that doesn’t feel safe or nurturing. You’re not alone—and there are things you can do.
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Top 10 Questions Every Divorced Woman Asks Herself
What do you do with the wedding dress, the photos, and the last name you no longer feel connected to? In this episode, we’re answering 10 of the most common (and emotional) questions women ask during and after divorce.From practical choices—like what to do with the ring—to deeper, more vulnerable thoughts around failure, loneliness, and identity, we’re talking about it all. If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I the only one thinking this?”—this episode will remind you you’re not.Whether you’re freshly separated, still healing, or figuring out who you are in this next chapter, this one’s for you.✨ Mentioned in this episode: – Real questions from real women – Tips for navigating emotional decisions after divorce – A reminder that you're not broken—you’re becomingSubscribe, leave a review, and share this with another woman who needs to know she’s not alone.
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You Can’t Be a Good Dad if You Were an Abusive Partner
In this powerful episode, Leah and Sam dive into a tough but necessary conversation: Can someone truly be a good father if they were abusive to their partner? Spoiler alert—we don’t think so. We’re breaking down the harmful myth that someone can be a bad spouse but still a great parent, especially when it comes to emotional, verbal, or physical abuse. You’ll hear how abuse impacts children even when it’s not directed at them, why co-parenting with an abuser is anything but “neutral,” and how moms can protect their kids without the guilt. If you’ve ever been made to feel dramatic, bitter, or crazy for standing your ground—you’re not alone. Tune in for real talk, validation, and a whole lot of truth.
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What Teens Really Want When You Tell Them You’re Getting Divorced (Real Talk from Real Teens: 5 Truths You Can’t Ignore)
💬 "They made me feel like I had to choose between them." 💬 "They tried to replace mom/dad too quickly." 💬 "They didn’t even know my schedule."In this eye-opening episode, we’re sharing real insights straight from teens who’ve lived through their parents’ divorce — and what they wish you knew.Whether you’re just starting the separation process or knee-deep in co-parenting struggles, these 5 powerful truths will help you show up for your teen with more awareness, empathy, and clarity.You’ll learn:Why logistical consistency matters more than you thinkThe emotional damage caused by introducing new partners too soonHow gossiping in the neighborhood or online puts your teen in the spotlightThe subtle ways parents pressure teens to “pick a side”And why healthy communication between co-parents is still essential — even if it’s only through an appThis is the episode every divorcing or divorced parent needs to hear. Because when teens speak, it’s our job to listen.
Welcome to our podcast, a heartfelt and insightful series hosted by two certified divorce coaches who have personally experienced the complexities of divorce. Our podcast is a blend of personal insights and professional expertise, focusing on topics like rebuilding self-esteem, mastering the art of co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, and fostering resilience in both yourself and your kids. Our goal is to offer you a sanctuary of healing, tools, and practical advice. Join us in transforming your divorce experience into a journey of personal growth and empowerment.
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