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    The Sleep Doctor to World’s Top Athletes Explains Why You Can’t Sleep

    2026/08/06 | 46 mins.
    Struggling with sleep anxiety, insomnia, or wondering if you’ll ever be able to follow the perfect sleep routine? This conversation is for you.

    In this episode, Dr. Chris Winter, one of the country's most sought-after sleep neurologists and author of The Sleep Solution: Why Your Sleep Is Broken and How To Fix It, is joining Tamsen Fadal to talk about everything from sleep deprivation and sleep apnea to fragmented sleep, naps, sleep supplements and more. He’s outlining the most practical, actionable tips you can use tonight so that you can wake up tomorrow with more energy and less fatigue.

    You’ll learn:

    - If sleep trackers are worth your money

    - What the science says about mouth taping, tart cherry juice, magnesium, and other health trends

    - What your sleep says about your overall health

    - How to incorporate naps without compromising sleep

    - The science-backed supplements Dr. Chris Winter recommends

    - The mindset shift to help you overcome sleep anxiety

    - The single most important thing you can do for your sleep starting tonight

    - Why retirement is one of the worst things that can happen to your sleep

    - Sleep apnea risks that almost no one is talking to women about

    If you feel like you’ve never been able to get your sleep “right”, you need to hear this one.

    If you liked this conversation, check this out: The Sleep Doctor: The 4 Hormones Wrecking Your Sleep & What to Do About It

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    Medical Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.

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  • The Tamsen Show

    The 5 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist (I Missed Every One)

    2026/08/03 | 19 mins.
    Narcissistic relationships, narcissistic behavior, emotional manipulation and relationship red flags can be incredibly difficult to recognize, especially when you're the one living them. In this solo episode, Tamsen Fadal shares the relationship lessons she learned the hard way after years of interviewing leading psychologists and reflecting on her own experiences.

    She breaks down the subtle signs of narcissistic behavior, why so many smart, successful women get caught in these patterns, how gaslighting and blame-shifting slowly erode your confidence, and the practical tools she now uses to recognize emotionally healthy relationships.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    - The relationship red flags Tamsen wishes she'd recognized sooner

    - Why narcissistic behavior is often so difficult to spot

    - How emotional manipulation makes you question yourself

    - The difference between genuine apologies and blame-shifting

    - Practical ways to rebuild self-trust and set healthier boundaries

    If you've ever wondered, How did I not see it? This episode will help you understand why and how to trust yourself again.

    If you liked this conversation, check this out: What I Wish I Knew at 35: 7 Hard Truths That Changed My Life

    If you want a say on our upcoming guests, fill out ⁠this form

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    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone

    Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠How To Menopause⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Resources⁠⁠⁠⁠ from Tamsen

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    Medical Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.
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    The Hidden Reason You Keep Choosing Emotionally Unavailable People

    2026/07/30 | 47 mins.
    You may have never heard the term mother hunger, but you may know what it feels like.

    It can show up as apologizing when you did nothing wrong, saying sorry to keep the peace, taking care of everyone else, choosing people who cannot fully show up, or feeling guilty for having needs.

    In this episode, Tamsen sits down with therapist and bestselling author Kelly McDaniel to explore how the mother-daughter bond can shape the way we love, eat, grieve, and move through relationships.

    Tamsen also shares her own experience of losing her mother at 20, becoming a caregiver while she was still a teenager, and realizing years later how that loss continued to shape her life.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    - What mother hunger is and how it can exist even when your mother was physically present.

    - Why you may keep apologizing, overgiving, or choosing emotionally unavailable people.

    - How grief, food, attachment, and relationship patterns can be connected.

    - Why caring for an aging mother can bring up guilt, anger, and resentment.

    - How to begin giving yourself the care, safety, and guidance you may have missed.

    If you have ever wondered why you keep saying sorry, why you feel responsible for everyone, or why the same relationship patterns keep repeating, this conversation may help you understand what is underneath.

    If you liked this conversation, check this out: What No One Tells You About Grief After Losing Your Mother

    If you want a say on our upcoming guests, fill out ⁠this form

    Stay connected with Tamsen:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone

    Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠How To Menopause⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Resources⁠⁠⁠⁠ from Tamsen

    Watch all the episodes on ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Check out Kelly's website

    Get Kelly's book, Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance

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    Medical Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.

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  • The Tamsen Show

    7 Life Changing Lessons on Friendships and Toxic Relationships

    2026/07/27 | 24 mins.
    There are some lessons you only learn by living them. At 55, Tamsen has spent decades navigating career highs, heartbreak, toxic relationships, friendship shifts, and the unexpected challenges of midlife.

    In this episode, she shares the advice she wishes someone had given her at 35: from overcoming negative self-talk and building self-confidence to learning to trust yourself, choose healthier relationships, and stop standing in your own way.

    In just 20 minutes, Tamsen shares seven lessons every woman should hear, whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond. From relationship red flags and people pleasing to healthy aging, perimenopause, and trusting yourself, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you make better decisions today and avoid learning these lessons the hard way.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    - How to stop negative self-talk and build lasting self-confidence

    - The signs you’ve outgrown a friendship

    - How to recognize relationship red flags and choose the right partner

    - Why trusting yourself is one of the most important skills you’ll ever build

    - The hidden cost of apologizing for your feelings

    - How to stop taking everything personally

    - Why your body in midlife reflects the habits you build in your 30s

    - What every woman should know about healthy aging

    By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clearer roadmap for navigating your next chapter with more confidence, stronger boundaries, healthier relationships, and the wisdom Tamsen spent decades learning the hard way.

    If you liked this conversation, check this out: 5 Relationship Red Flags Even Smart Women Ignore

    If you want a say on our upcoming guests, fill out ⁠this form

    Stay connected with Tamsen:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone

    Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠How To Menopause⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Resources⁠⁠⁠⁠ from Tamsen

    Watch all the episodes on ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Follow Tamsen on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The Tamsen Show on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Follow Tamsen on ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Medical Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.
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  • The Tamsen Show

    The Menopause Gut: How to Beat Bloating and Belly Fat

    2026/07/23 | 47 mins.
    If you've been wondering why perimenopause and menopause suddenly leave you feeling bloated, struggling with belly fat, or questioning everything you thought you knew about gut health and protein, this episode is for you.

    Tamsen sits down with nutrition expert and bestselling author Cynthia Thurlow to break down what's really happening in your body and the simple changes that can make a big difference.

    In this episode, you'll learn:
    - Why gut health becomes so important during perimenopause and menopause
    - What's really behind bloating, belly fat, and food sensitivities in midlife
    - How much protein and fiber you actually need
    - Whether GLP-1s, supplements, and gut testing are worth it
    - The simple daily habits that can improve digestion, energy, and overall health

    Whether you're just starting perimenopause or you've been in menopause for years, this conversation will help you better understand your body and feel more confident about what to do next.

    If you liked this conversation, check this out: 5 Tools To FINALLY Lose The Belly Fat in Perimenopause

    For everything mentioned in this episode, click this link

    If you want a say on our upcoming guests, fill out ⁠this form

    Stay connected with Tamsen:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone

    Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠How To Menopause⁠⁠⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Resources⁠⁠⁠⁠ from Tamsen

    Watch all the episodes on ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Follow Tamsen on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The Tamsen Show on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Follow Tamsen on ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Follow Cynthia on Instagram

    Visit Cynthia's website

    Get Cynthia's book, The Menopause Gut: Balance Your Microbiome to Reclaim Your Health in Midlife and Beyond

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    Medical Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show.
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About The Tamsen Show
If you’ve ever thought, what’s next for me? Then this is for you. If you’re ready for a roadmap, this is your starting point. Join Emmy-winning Journalist, filmmaker and New York Times best selling author Tamsen Fadal as she searches for real answers that will make a real difference. Twice a week. Top doctors, leading voices, and women rewriting their own stories. From hormones and health to reinvention and relationships, and everything else in between. This is your space to take charge of your health, reclaim your life and step into a version of yourself that feels like the best is yet to come. Because this isn’t the beginning of the end. It’s the beginning of everything - and we’re even not close to being done. New episodes every Monday and Thursday. Follow @thetamsenshow for updates and behind-the-scenes.
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