The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome
#676: The Cancers of Confidence: Complaining, Comparing & Criticism
Confidence doesn't crumble overnight — it erodes slowly, through habits that seem harmless. In this episode, we're investigating the three cancers of confidence: complaining, comparing, and criticizing. These habits quietly drain your joy, limit your growth, and keep you stuck in self-doubt. You'll learn how to spot them in your daily life, stop them before they spread, and replace them with patterns that rebuild belief and peace. Confidence isn't a personality — it's a practice. And if you want to protect your confidence, you have to treat it like your health. Complaining, comparing, and criticizing are like toxins that build up quietly. Start detoxing them today — one thought, one conversation, one choice at a time. Because the more peace you protect, the stronger your confidence becomes. 🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence ➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD: 🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE: www.trishblackwell.com/reframe 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www.collegeofconfidence.com 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $27 at https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/journal-bundle-2025/?utm_source=podcast
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#675: Narrative Intelligence (NQ)
If you've ever spiraled in self-doubt, replayed a conversation on loop, or thought "I know better but I can't stop thinking this way," then this episode is your mirror moment. In today's conversation, we're unpacking Narrative Intelligence — your ability to recognize, rewrite, and reframe the stories you tell yourself. You'll learn how to recognize when your NQ (Narrative Quotient) is low, what that looks like in real life, and the exact steps to strengthen it. You'll walk away knowing: 5 clear signs your Narrative Intelligence is low How to measure and raise your NQ Simple rewrites to shift from self-criticism to self-coaching Why confidence grows at the same rate your NQ does Your thoughts create your story — and your story determines your confidence. Let's train your mind to narrate in a way that moves your life forward. 🎯 Resources Mentioned Get The NQ Mastery Course → [www.trishblackwell.com/nq] Get Mind Games for Confidence → [www.trishblackwell.com/mindgames] 🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence ➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD: 🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE: www.trishblackwell.com/reframe 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www.collegeofconfidence.com 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $17 at https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/journal-bundle-2025/?utm_source=podcast
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#674: The 4 Categories of Confidence Everyone Needs to Know About (And Be Working On)
Confidence isn't just one thing—it's made up of four essential areas that impact every part of your life. In this episode, we break down the 4 categories of confidence everyone needs to know about: how you think about yourself, how you present yourself, how you show up for yourself, and how you interact with others. You'll discover actionable ways to strengthen each category so you can feel more capable, courageous, and confident—no matter the situation. Whether you want to step into new opportunities, improve your relationships, or simply feel more self-assured in your day-to-day life, this episode gives you a framework to identify where you shine and where you can grow. How you think about yourself How you present yourself How you show up for yourself How you interact with others 🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence ➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD: 🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE: www.trishblackwell.com/reframe 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www.collegeofconfidence.com 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $17 at https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/journal-bundle-2025/?utm_source=podcast
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#673: Being New or Bad at Something
Ever held back because you didn't want to look bad or feel like the beginner in the room? In this episode, I share my own story of jumping into a hockey pick-up game where I was far from the best on the ice—and why that experience taught me more about confidence than any win ever could. We'll unpack why being "bad" is actually the gateway to growth, how to reframe the awkwardness of starting something new, and why the willingness to be seen as a beginner is one of the boldest moves you can make. Whether you're starting a new habit, stepping into a fresh season of life, or simply tired of waiting until you're perfect to take action, this episode will give you the mindset shifts you need to show up anyway. ➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD: 🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE: www.trishblackwell.com/reframe 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www.collegeofconfidence.com 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $17 at https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/journal-bundle-2025/?utm_source=podcast
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#672: Wanting More and Mastering Contentment (At the Same Time)
How do you stay deeply grateful for what you have while also chasing big, impossible goals? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, Trish explores how to hold both contentment and ambition in balance. You'll learn how gratitude keeps you grounded, why an abundance mindset eliminates comparison and jealousy, and how to use other people's success as inspiration instead of intimidation. Expect practical tools, journaling prompts, and encouragement to help you pursue excellence, think bigger, and still rest in the truth that what you already have is enough. You'll hear about: Why gratitude is the key to contentment. How to want more without losing joy in the present. The difference between scarcity and abundance thinking. Ways to stay in your lane and use others' success as possibility fuel. Simple practices to master both ambition and gratitude every day. ➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD: 🙋🏼♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE: www.trishblackwell.com/reframe 📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!) www.collegeofconfidence.com 🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]: www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant 📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE" for just $17 at https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/journal-bundle-2025/?utm_source=podcast
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The Confidence Podcast is the podcast for women who struggle with perfectionism, self-doubt, and a self-critical voice. If you know you have potential and purpose, but you still secretly feel like you're behind, not enough, or even an impostor, then this podcast is for you. In each episode, world-renown Confidence Coach Trish Blackwell will teach you how to live confidently and courageously as the woman God created you to be. This podcast is your weekly resource to train your thoughts, take them captive, and use them to help you live with joy, abundance, peace, power, and, of course, confidence. Get FREE instant access to the Confidence Masterclass to learn exactly how to have more confidence with the 3-part "Confidence Formula" at www.trishblackwell.com/freeclass.
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