In this episode, Kim and Carla dive into the often-overlooked reality of supporting the human behind the dog. They explore the emotional weight carried by owners of dogs with challenging behaviours — including guilt, embarrassment, fear, and isolation — and why these feelings can be just as important to address as the behaviour itself.
The conversation looks at how trust, empathy, and open communication form the foundation of effective dog training, whether through agility, behaviour modification, or everyday management strategies. Kim and Carla discuss how personal circumstances, relationship dynamics, and confidence levels between owners can influence training outcomes, and why validating emotions while setting realistic expectations is key.
They also unpack the harm caused by outdated concepts like “alpha” and “pack leader”, the pressure of social media comparisons, and the importance of normalising common (but often misunderstood) dog behaviours. Throughout the episode, they highlight the power of checking in, celebrating small wins, and creating safe spaces for owners to voice fears they may feel ashamed to admit.
This episode is a reminder that good dog training is as much about people as it is about dogs — and that compassion, science, and support go hand in hand.