I know we all want to think everyone else is the problem, but they are not. I know this is going to trigger some people. That is not to say that you are the reason for the treatment you got — NO!
But if you saw their red flags and didn’t run, that’s your problem. If you had low expectations because of what you’ve been through, not your fault… but it kind of is.
Today, we are going to start the first step toward healing, and that is figuring out what needs to change so this doesn’t happen to you again.
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The Father Wound: The Root of Ultimate Abandonment
2025/12/16 | 28 mins.
Whether your dad was a constant presence or a total mystery, that first relationship shaped how you see yourself today. He was your first blueprint for what love, protection, and worth should look like—and if that blueprint was broken, it’s likely affecting how you show up in your relationships right now.
In this episode, we’re digging into:
How "father wounds" impact your adult attachment style.
The reality of being "physically present but emotionally absent."
How to stop waiting for him to change and finally start living for yourself.
You deserve to be free from the weight of his choices. Let’s talk about how to start healing.
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We all carry wounds with us some we know about, some we’ve buried. And when we don’t heal them, they show up in our lives in ways we don’t expect. They pull in the wrong people, lower our self-worth, and make us settle because we assume we can’t have what we really want.
These wounds often start in childhood, but they can also form later through heartbreak, hard seasons, or major life changes.
In this episode, we talk about how these wounds shape you, how they keep you stuck, and what it really takes to heal so they stop running your life.
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Stop Carrying What Isn’t Yours: How to Stop Being the Fixer
2025/11/11 | 32 mins.
Reinvention periods in your life are all about self-reflection, growth, and evolution. And one of the clearest signs that it’s time for change is when you finally realize you’ve been the fixer. You’re the one everyone turns to for comfort, solutions, and support. It’s a role you’ve played so well your entire life.
You tell yourself you’re just being a good person, but the truth is, you’ve become the ultimate enabler. And it’s not really about helping others it’s about easing your own anxiety and the discomfort that comes from not feeling safe.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into why being the fixer isn’t actually helping, and how to start breaking that pattern so you can shift the focus back to your own growth, peace, and healing.
For more information visit: www.StephanieLynLifeCoaching.com
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In this episode (and video, if you’re watching on YouTube), I break down 5 common behaviors that make you look insecure, even if you think you’re confident. These are the subtle signs that reveal self-doubt and uncertainty things you might not even realize you’re doing.
I’ll show you what to watch for and, more importantly, how to make simple shifts so you radiate confidence instead of insecure.
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Welcome! Here we are talking about real confidence, high self-worth, and being fully in control of your life.
Funny how just when you think you’re doing okay, another hurdle shows up. This time you’ll need to go deeper to really overcome what you’re going through.
Whether it is being single for too long, perimenopause, another difficult breakup, losing yourself in yet another relationship, or simply not feeling as confident as you know you could, you are in the right place.
We dive into all the big topics: confidence, self-worth, boundaries, mental health, self-parenting, and goal setting. We cover the ups and downs of midlife, figuring out your next chapter, and finally moving out of that stuck phase that seems never-ending.
This is for the woman who thought she was doing all the right things, gave so much to everyone else, and now feels lost, drained, or disconnected from who she really is.
Here you will start getting your spark back.
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