Dating at 49 isn’t about playing games — it’s about knowing who you are, what you want, and not being afraid to say it out loud. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Rachel Birch, host of the award-winning podcast Love Before 100.Freshly divorced and unapologetically back in the dating scene, Rachel opens up about what she’s looking for, what turns her on, and the mindset of a sophisticated, strong woman who’s not settling for less. We dive into attraction, desire, confidence, and the little things that make a big difference when dating a woman who truly knows herself.If you’ve ever wanted a window into the mind of an empowered, grown-up woman navigating modern dating — this conversation is it.>>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here:https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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Ep. 544 The Smart Penis Ring & The Future of Men’s Sexual Health
When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness.Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performance — it’s a vital indicator of your overall well-being. We dig into the critical need for data-driven solutions in medicine, how technology is changing the game for men’s health, and why paying attention to your erections could literally save your life.He also opens up about keeping intimacy alive with his wife of decades — proving that long-term relationships don’t have to mean long-term boredom in the bedroom.If you’ve ever wondered what your erections reveal about your health (and your love life), this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.>>>Join Kristen for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th! >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED! Get them here:https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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Ep. 543 Building Connection and Chemistry Through Communication
Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive community dedicated to helping people build social awareness, abilities, and confidence. While Social Foundations focuses on individuals navigating life on the autism spectrum, Suzanne’s insights are valuable for anyone who wants to strengthen their communication skills and form deeper connections, leading to chemistry and romance. We dive into the essentials of effective communication in dating and relationships: how to notice the areas where you might be falling short, what habits could be holding you back, and practical steps you can take to improve. Whether you’ve struggled to express yourself, misread signals, or just want to become more confident in connecting with others, this conversation will help you level up your ability to bond, attract, and sustain meaningful relationships.>>>Join Kristen along with the founder of Limitless Brave and surprise guest for an in-person workshop in Los Angeles September 27th and 28th. >>>SEATS ARE LIMITED!https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day1https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/day2>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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Ep. 542 The Pursuit Playbook and Decoding Her Signals
How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether? In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit. We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference between persistence and pressure. Tanya brings her eye for human behavior from years in casting to reveal what women are really communicating, often without saying a word. Whether you struggle to make the first move or aren’t sure when to step back, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to pursue women the right way.>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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Ep. 540 Online Dating Mistakes Every Man Makes (and How to Fix Them)
This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear. While Erin’s show focuses on dating later in life, the insights she shares apply to any man looking to attract and connect with women. Erin is no-holds-barred, authentic, and tells it exactly like it is- no fluff, no sugarcoating. We cover the biggest online dating mistakes guys of every age make, how to actually get her to say yes to a date, and what instantly makes a woman give you a chance (or swipe left) on an app. Packed with insider perspectives straight from a woman’s mind, this episode is your playbook for standing out, making REAL connections, and turning matches into real-life dates.
About How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
What do a female comic & banter coach and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Kristen Carney & Marni Kinrys take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.
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