Stepmum Space

• S7, Ep 7: Trying for the Fairytale: When Nothing You Do Is Enough

  Send us a textIn this episode of Stepmum Space, Katie sits down with Tess — a woman living the complexities of stepfamily life from both sides. She’s a stepmum to three children, and her own child also has a stepmum, giving her a rare and deeply layered perspective.Tess opens up about the emotional toll of trying to create the perfect blended family — the fairytale — while feeling unappreciated, rejected, and emotionally drained. From being the stricter household to hearing the constant echo of “My Mum Says…”, Tess shares what it’s like to give everything and still feel like it’s never enough.This episode explores:The heartbreak of loving your partner but feeling rejected by his childrenThe emotional weight of being the stricter houseThe pain of trying hard for your stepkids without recognitionHow to cope when your home feels dominated by talk of the biological mumTess’s advice for staying grounded — including her mantra: “Find the funny” which reminds us that even in the hardest moments, humour can be a lifeline.If you’re in the thick of it right now, this conversation is here to remind you: you’re not alone. You’re doing more than you know, and your efforts matter.If Stepmum Space has ever helped you feel seen, heard, or understood, please consider rating or reviewing the podcast wherever you listen. Your support helps others discover the show and reminds them they’re not alone.We’d love to hear from you. If you’d like to share your own experience, reach out via email [email protected] episodes drop weekly. Subscribe now so you never miss a moment of support, insight, and solidarity.Keywords:Stepmum podcast, Blended family struggles, Stepfamily dynamics, Stepmum emotional support, Biological mum tension, Feeling unappreciated as a stepmum,Stepmum rejection, Stricter household parenting, Stepmum heartbreak, Coping with stepchildren, “My Mum Says” stepfamily, Stepmum vs bio mum, Loving your partner, rejected by his kids, Stepfamily fairytale myth, Stepmum advice UK, Stepmum space podcast, Step-parenting challenges, Stepmum mental health, Stepmum validation, Stepmum community support,Support the show

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• S7: Ep 6, When love comes with kids, and an Ex who ignores you!

  Send us a textIn this heartfelt episode of Stepmum Space, I’m joined by Rosie—a woman who had her solo life beautifully sorted. The career, the home, the financial freedom… everything in place. But when love arrived, so did a whole new reality—one that included children she hadn’t planned for.Rosie opens up about the emotional, practical, and relational shifts that come with stepping into a blended family. We explore what it means to redefine your identity, recalibrate your finances, and navigate the complexities of becoming a stepmum when that was never part of your original plan.We also talk about one of the hardest parts of stepmum life: when the ex-partner refuses to acknowledge you, won’t accept your presence, or actively ignores your role. Rosie shares how that dynamic impacted her confidence, her relationship, and her ability to feel safe and respected in her own home.This episode is especially powerful for anyone who’s transitioned from independent living into stepfamily life—and is trying to find their footing in a role that’s often misunderstood, unsupported, and emotionally loaded.What We Cover:The emotional impact of suddenly having children in your lifeHow to protect your identity and independence in a blended familySetting boundaries that support your wellbeing (even when others push back)Navigating finances and lifestyle changes when love comes with kidsWhat to do when the ex refuses to acknowledge or accept youThe importance of aligning with your partner on your role as a stepmum 3 Key Takeaways:Keep your own identity—don’t lose the parts of you that existed before stepkids.Keep doing what you love—your passions and routines still matter.Define your role—and make sure you and your partner are on the same page.This role can be beautiful, but it’s also complex. Without boundaries, it can consume you. And while not everyone will understand your limits—especially when you're being ignored or excluded—protecting your emotional and physical resources is essential.💌 Need Support?If this episode resonates and you’d like support with boundaries, identity, or any other part of stepmum life, I’d love to hear from you. 📧 Email me at [email protected] 🌐 Visit www.stepmumspace.com for coaching, resources, and community.Huge thanks to Rosie for her honesty and courage. If you have a story you’d like to share on the podcast, please get in touch. This show exists because of women like you who are brave enough to speak up.Don’t forget to follow Stepmum Space on your podcast app so you never miss an episode. I’ll see you next week.Keywords: stepmum boundaries, ignored by the ex, stepfamily dynamics, blended family support, stepmum identity, emotional wellbeing for stepmums, partner alignment in blended families, stepmum podcast UK, stepmum coaching, stepmum space podcast, childless stepmum experience, ex-partner conflict in blended families, stepkids mum, boundariesSupport the show

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• S7, Ep 5: Parental Alienation, Court Battles & Loving Kids You Can’t Always See

  Send us a textIn this episode, we hear from Katy—a stepmum whose journey began when she met a father of five through work. What followed was a life-changing experience filled with love, loyalty, and heartbreak.Katy opens up about the emotional toll of parental alienation, the reality of family court proceedings, and the pain of being separated from stepchildren she’s grown to love. Her story is raw, honest, and deeply relatable for anyone navigating the complexities of stepfamily life.We explore:What it’s like to support a partner through custody battles and alienationThe emotional impact of not seeing all your stepchildrenHow Katy held space for her husband while protecting her own children’s wellbeingThe tension between wanting a united family and feeling like the sacrifices aren’t sharedWhy stepmums often feel stuck between love, loyalty, and boundariesWhether you’re dealing with high-conflict co-parenting, feeling unseen in your role as a stepmum, or simply trying to make sense of the emotional load—you’ll find something here that speaks to you.If you’re a stepmum searching for support, advice, or just a reminder that you’re not alone—this episode is for you.If you're looking to book coaching head to www.stepmumspace.com or send an email to [email protected]’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. It helps other stepmums find these conversations. And if you have a story to share, I’d love to hear from you.🔍 Keywords: stepmum support, parental alienation, family court, custody battles, stepfamily dynamics, high-conflict co-parenting, stepmum advice, emotional support for stepmums, blended family challenges, stepparent boundaries, not seeing stepchildren, loyalty binds, stepmum podcastSupport the show

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• S7, Ep4: False Allegations and Fragile Bonds

  Send us a textIn this episode, I’m joined by Nicholle—a beautiful soul whose story reflects a heartbreaking reality many stepmums face. Nicholle opens up about the false allegations made against her, the emotional toll they took, and the ripple effect on her relationship with her stepchildren.We talk about:The moment everything changedNavigating the complex mix of resentment and love toward her stepkidsHow the allegations impacted trust, connection, and family dynamicsWhat resilience looks like in the face of injusticeNicholle’s courage and honesty will resonate deeply with anyone who’s felt misunderstood, misrepresented, or caught in the crossfire of blended family tensions. Her story is a powerful reminder that you’re not alone—and that healing is possible.💛 Thank you, Nicholle, for sharing your truth with such grace.If you’ve got a story to share, I’d love to hear from you. Connect with me on Instagram @stepmumspace or visit stepmumspace.com.Support the show

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• S7, Ep3: There were pictures of his late wife EVERYWHERE!

  Send us a textIn this episode, Katie sits down with writer Sheena Wilkinson to talk about what it’s really like to marry a widower and become a stepmum — after choosing not to have children herself.Sheena shares her experience of moving into her husband’s former marital home, navigating the emotional weight of a space filled with memories, and adjusting to life with two men after years of living happily alone.They dive into the messy, human side of stepfamily life — from shouting matches with her stepson to the quiet sting of not being fully accepted by parts of his extended family.  It’s a conversation about navigating inherited spaces, complex loyalties, and the quiet work of making room for yourself without displacing anyone else. Sheena is candid, funny, and refreshingly honest — and this chat is full of wisdom, warmth, and the real talk we love at Stepmum Space.You can find more of Sheena’s work at www.sheenawilkinson.com and on Instagram @sheenawilkinson and substack @sheenawilkinson🎄 Feeling overwhelmed by the thought of Christmas as a stepmum? Join me for Your Calm Christmas — a 3-hour live workshop on Thursday 3rd October designed to help you feel calmer, clearer, and more in control this festive season.We’ll create your personalised Calm Christmas Plan, explore therapeutic strategies for tricky moments, and connect with other stepmums who truly get it. This isn’t a passive webinar — it’s a supportive, interactive space to make sure you don’t get lost in the festive chaos.Bookings close on September 30th, so don’t wait —click here to grab your spot.Support the show

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