What to Do When Your Kid Tunes You Out — 3 Simple Strategies
When your kid tunes you out - The Realities of Parenthood: Insights from a Parenting Coach and a Working MumDoes it feel like your child only hears you when they want to? You ask them to put on their shoes, tidy their toys, or come to the table — and they tune you out as if you’re invisible. In this episode, working mum Miranda puts Camilla in the hot seat to ask the tough questions parents everywhere are struggling with.Camilla explains why kids don’t always listen, why punishment doesn’t actually teach better behaviour, and she shares three simple strategies you can start using right away to get more cooperation without shouting, threats, or guilt. She also tackles that painful moment every parent dreads: “I don’t want you to go to work, mummy.”00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:05 Meet Miranda: The Struggles of a Working Mom01:37 Why Parenting is So Hard03:22 Camilla's Journey to Becoming a Parenting Coach06:52 Common Parenting Challenges10:00 Why Punishment Doesn't Work16:26 Practical Tips for Calmer Home Life - so kids listen and cooperate20:22 Handling Separation Anxiety - “I don’t want you to go to work”22:05 Conclusion and Special AnnouncementWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/ 4. Enjoy Camilla's weekly newsletter dropping every Wednesday into your inbox https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletter subscribe here
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Back-to-School Made Easy: 4 Tips Every Parent Needs
As the new school term begins, parents often feel a mix of relief and worry. Parenting coach Camilla McGill shares four essential strategies to help your child adjust smoothly, both emotionally and practically.Prepare your child for drop-off with confidence.Streamline stressful morning routines.Create meaningful connection before school.Handle big after-school emotions and behaviour changes.Grab your FREE guide - ‘The 10 best ways to help your child settle into school’Camilla also answers a listener’s question on motivating a slow-moving child in the mornings, sharing relatable stories and practical advice to help you start the school year with calm, confidence, and connection.Grab your free guide 10 00:00 Introduction: Back to School Emotions00:45 Meet Your Parenting Coach: Camilla McGill01:44 Tip 1: Emotional Preparation for Drop Off03:58 Tip 2: Simplifying the Morning Routine06:22 Tip 3: Building Morning Connections08:21 Tip 4: Managing Big Feelings and Behavior Changes11:01 Recap and Listener Question12:41 Conclusion and Podcast PromotionWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/ 4. Enjoy Camilla's weekly newsletter dropping every Wednesday into your inbox https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletter subscribe here
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"How dare you speak to me like that?" - Try this instead ; 5 Powerful Scripts to Respond With Calm Authority
Find yourself yelling phrases like, 'That's enough!' or 'Why are you being so difficult?' Parenting coach Camilla McGill reveals five impactful responses to use when dealing with challenging child behaviors such as meltdowns, talking back, and outright refusals. Through a blend of personal stories and expert advice, Camilla emphasizes the importance of empathy, clear boundaries, and emotional stability. The episode also features a listener Q&A on handling bedtime resistance "I'm not going to bed, you can't make me!". Tune in for actionable tips and scripts that can transform your parenting approach.Want to book a free consultation with Camilla? https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT00:00 Introduction: Handling Parenting Challenges00:36 Meet Your Parenting Coach: Camilla McGill01:46 The Power of Scripts: Five Key Phrases04:46 Script 1: Handling Meltdowns in Public07:38 Script 2: Power Struggles Over Clothes10:06 Script 3: Dealing with Back Chat and Name Calling12:10 Script 4: Managing Flat Out Refusals14:00 Script 5: The Internal Reset for Parents15:12 Q&A: Bedtime Power Struggles16:35 Conclusion: Connect, Don't DictateWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/ 4. Enjoy Camilla's weekly newsletter dropping every Wednesday into your inbox https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletter subscribe here
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Kids on Summer Holidays; Dealing with Meltdowns and Sibling Squabbles (Without Losing It)
Summer holidays are meant to be joyful—but the reality? Sibling squabbles, stressful visits to family, kids resistant to going to summer camp, and end-of-day meltdowns.We're trying to juggle it all and it can get too much for everyone.In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill explains why kids often struggle emotionally during the summer and how you can support them calmly and confidently.✅ Understand why lack of structure causes big emotions✅ Recognise signs of sensory overload—especially at summer camps✅ Practical strategies to reduce meltdowns and sibling conflict✅ Scripts to use when your child is rude in public✅ BONUS: A listener asks what to do when their child calls them “idiot” in front of relatives🎁 Download your free guide: myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenTimestamps:00:00 – Why summer often feels overwhelming for parents and kids01:30 – When routines vanish, confusion and conflict rise03:10 – Sensory overload: camps, noise, wet swimsuits & more05:45 – Summer camp stress: unfamiliar adults, pressure to fit in07:40 – What’s underneath the behaviour: control, disconnection, jealousy11:00 – Reset expectations and build in daily anchors13:50 – Catch early signs before the meltdown hits16:20 – What to say in public when your child is struggling18:30 – Be the coach, not the referee in sibling fights20:20 – Listener question: “My child called me ‘idiot’ in front of relatives”23:30 – Recap: structure, empathy, calmness = your summer toolkit24:45 – Get support & free guide: myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/ 4. Enjoy Camilla's weekly newsletter dropping every Wednesday into your inbox https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletter subscribe here
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How to help your child bounce back from disappointment
Disappointment is part of life — but that doesn’t make it any easier to watch a child struggle when they’re left out, overlooked, or let down.In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares 5 powerful steps to help children process disappointment and build emotional resilience — without rushing them to feel better or stepping in to fix it.Camilla explains how parents can: ✅ Respond with calm empathy when their child says, “It’s not fair — I never get picked” ✅ Stay connected when their child cries after not receiving a sticker, prize, or reward they were hoping for ✅ Help a child reflect on the effort they put in — even when the outcome didn’t go their way ✅ Avoid offering a treat or saying “never mind” when a child is visibly upset about missing out ✅ Support children when they feel left out of a birthday party, game, or class awardWhether it’s a child feeling crushed after not being chosen for Star of the Week or excluded by a friend, this episode offers warm, practical support to help parents guide their child through the moment — and out the other side, stronger.Also covered in this episode: – How to respond when a child says something emotional like “Nobody likes me,” even if it’s not entirely accurate – Why jumping in with treats, solutions, or silver linings can backfire – How to gently ask questions that help children process the moment rather than lash out or withdraw🎧 Question of the Week: What do we do and say when our child isn’t invited to the party — and then says, “Nobody likes me”?💬 Want personalised support from Camilla? Book a free discovery call to talk about your unique parenting situation and find out how she can help: When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/ 4. Enjoy Camilla's weekly newsletter dropping every Wednesday into your inbox https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletter subscribe here
Raising Kids with Love and BoundariesHosted by Camilla, a seasoned parenting coach with over two decades of experience, "Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries" is your go-to podcast for navigating the challenges and joys of raising children aged 2-12.Drawing from her own journey raising four children and extensive work with parents, Camilla offers practical advice and compassionate guidance. Each episode is crafted to provide actionable insights in a warm, non-judgmental tone, to learn practical, evidence-based tools and tips to raise amazing kids. Episodes address topics like morning routines, sibling conflicts, toddler tantrums, school refusal, and more.Tune in for supportive conversations, expert interviews, and tips to nurture confident, resilient children.Subscribe now for valuable parenting advice!
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