But What Do I Know?™

Can romance really be easy?

This week on the podcast, bestselling romance author Danielle Allen joins host Chidinma to discuss Big Girl Blitz, the final book in the Curve series. Together, they explore what makes a romance story feel believable, why healthy love can be just as convincing as complicated or toxic love, and how Danielle creates the unforgettable characters - Aaliyah, Nina and Jaz - that bookstagram has come to love.

Hopefully, the conversation doesn’t spoil the book for you (if it does, please forgive) but this episode also explores themes of grief, confidence and emotional healing.. OH and some good SMUT so please listen with your headphones and be prepared to blush a few times (lol).

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Connect with Danielle Allen:

Support Big Girl Blitz: https://www.authordanielleallen.com/

IG: @authordanielleallen

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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Some of the most important life lessons in your late twenties are often learned when life doesn't go according to plan.

In this solo episode of But What Do I Know? host Chidinma A reflects on the 9 biggest lessons she learned at 29. A year that included home ownership that didn't go as planned, a layoff, and unexpected disappointments.

From letting go of certain expectations and making peace with job uncertainty to redefining success and learning to trust herself more deeply, this conversation is a reflection on growing through unexpected change and finding meaning in seasons that ask for more (A LOT more).

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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For the first episode of this new season, host Chidinma A is joined by Dr. Cassandre Dunbar for a conversation that feels like an embrace.

With everything happening globally, from ongoing conflicts to economic uncertainty, it can feel like there’s always something to process, even whether you are directly or indirectly impacted.

In this conversation, they explore what it means to exist in a constant state of awareness, and how the ongoing exposure to heavy news and stress can begin to show up in the body. From increased cortisol levels to dysregulated stress responses and long-term health impacts, Dr. Cassandre breaks down how this may be processed in the body.

Together, they reflect on what it means to carry so much, often without realizing it, and how to begin checking in with the body more intentionally.

The conversation closes with a thoughtful look at how to stay informed and empathetic, while also protecting mental and physical well-being.

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Connect with Dr. Cassandre Dunbar:

Check out Dr Cassandre’s content: @ bewellsis_podcast

Watch episodes of the ‘Be Well Sis’ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@bewellsis

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello

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It has really been a while...Welcome BACK and grab your headphones because But What Do I Know?™ is now your weekly fix for honest conversations, lived experiences, and growth in real time.

Through reflective conversations with guests and personal solo episodes, Host, Chidinma A will explore themes of relationships, wellness, money and ambition - especially in relation to this very podcast, as well as becoming with honesty, curiosity, and care.

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IG: @bwdikpodcast

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Episode Credits:

Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike

Audio Editor: Ryan Clarke

Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know?

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Okay It's REALLY feeling like us season (word to Issa Rae) because after reaching our 100,000 download milestone, it was just announced that the podcast is a Silver Award Winner for shows within the Education category of the 2023 Signal Podcast Awards!

For The Clue In Segment, Chid discusses the importance of language used to discuss the resurgence of the Israel - Palestine Conflict as well as an upcoming event for creators, talent, entrepreneurs and small businesses in the City of Toronto.

It''s a Vibe Check Episode and so the Podcaster and Host of the "A Shot Of Melanin" Podcast, Michelle Dennis joins Chid to talk about the movie adaptation of The Perfect Find. From Age gaps to relationships with employees, the two are getting into it all. Enjoy listening!

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Connect with Michelle:

Insta: ⁠@ashotofmelanin⁠

Podcast: ⁠Listen On Spotify⁠

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Episode Credits:

Intro/Outro Song:

Remsen- BWDIK Podcast Theme Song

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Transition Songs:

Take Care - Julian Avila

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