Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and c...
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their friends' holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22)Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills on Elle! Finding something to do with your hands during the party, and unlocking your inner domme. Reverse Tension; Square Knot Single Column Tie; attaching rope to rope. (11:55)Edging scene while being bound. (18:40)Fisting tips: Vee uses her takeaways from a recent fisting workshop to get wrist-deep with M, two nights in a row. (20:23)Elle: year of the pussy! Double ended dildo strap-on play. Why Elle loves reverse cowgirl. (29:38)Anonymity in a large orgy: at small orgies it feels like there's a spotlight on certain scenes. (40:14)Sexy white elephant gifts: nipple clamps, penis pumps, ejaculating dildo, sexy art, bed straps. (44:11)Woo More Play Here For Great Sex. Natural Sex Products and Tools + Resources + SupportDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: [email protected] Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
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106: How to Date with Confidence as a Couple or a Single: Expert Advice from Amber Grubenmann
In this episode of Girls Gone Deep, Vee and Elle welcome Amber Grubenmann, a dating coach and host of the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. (Fun fact: Vee’s dating coach!) Get ready for practical tools, thought-provoking questions, and memorable metaphors to help you master effective, high-quality, confident, and time-saving dating—so you can get what you want.Chapters: Introduction to Amber Grubenmann (00:00)Vee's Journey with Dating Coaching: Issues with Overthinking and Dating Anxiety (3:15)Building Confidence for Dating: The Most Common Unintentional Intentions That Leads to Dating Anxiety (8:31)Understanding Connection Dynamics: Relationships Bringing Out Different Feelings (12:47)The 10% Guy Concept: Emotional Connected Less Of The Time Yet It Feels So Amazing And The Other 90% You Feel Hurt/Anxious. Does this have a place in non-monogamy? (17:26)Community and Friends Support in Dating: Buffer Independence (24:09)The Importance of Self-Validation in Relationships and Building a Foundation Beyond Dating (28:01)The Five Elements of Thriving Relationships: The Solution to Pickiness and When To End A Connection (31:42)Mindset Shifts For Letting Go Of A Relationship: Courage (38.18)What Does A 2-Date Relationship Or The 3 Month Or 6 Month Connection Have In Common? The Seed Planting Metaphor For Relationship Growth (42:30)When You Are Heading In The Wrong Direction With Your ConnectionBalancing Fun with Going Deep: Is Small Talk Important? (51:48)Date Ideas Depends on You: Lower Stimulation Dates Vs Activity (57:24)Optimizing Dating Profiles: Common Mistakes And How To Start Amazing Conversations. Hear Elle’sand Vee’s! (01:02:19)Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways (01:16:03)Find Amber:Podcast: Women’s Dating and Confidence PodcastWebsite: AmberGrubenmann.comFree Resource: Download Copy-and-Paste Texts for When He’s Pulling Away or Acting Flaky (on her homepage)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: [email protected] Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
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105: New Year’s Eve 2025: Gang Bangs, Impact Play, BDSM Scenes and Setting Sexy Intentions
In this episode, the girls catch up after New Year's Eve: Elle's was intimate with a handful of friends checking things off their fuckit lists, and Vee's was more community-based at a big party in New York City. Part audio smut, part deep chats, the girls give all the details from the orgies to the reflections afterwards. Elle’s New Years Eve gang bang! (1:39)Being used vs being worshipped when being fucked. (5:25)Tuning out the orgy: how to zone in. (11:50)Elle’s evolving desire from pre- to post-pregnancy. (14:25)Stay tuned- GGD community coming in 2025! (21:45)Volunteering at sex parties, and how to approach someone you’re interested in. (22:50)Impact play to leave marks: using new implements (lollipop stick, dragon tail whip, evil stick, long-tail flogger). (26:44)Why impact play? The benefits of massage and erotic touch, vibrational spanking, and cathartic impact play that leads to “crygasms”. (32:41)Power Play Scene: 3 dommes. (37:29)Domming takeaways. (42:05)Sexy Scenes from Elle’s New Years Eve. Double stacking and dirty talk. (43:46)Group sex participation: adding to the scene even if you’re not having sex. (45:55)2025 intentions: “the year of the pussy” and scissoring, dating, shibari and impact play and increased pain tolerance. (47:44)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: [email protected] Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
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104: Compersion: How to Develop It, and Is It Necessary for a Successful ENM Relationship? feat. Dr. Marie Thouin
In this conversation, Dr. Marie Thouin PhD and author of What Is Compersion?, discusses the concept of compersion, which is the joy one feels for others' happiness, particularly in the context of non-monogamous relationships. The discussion explores the spectrum of emotions from jealousy to compersion, the importance of self-worth and agency, and the factors that can foster or hinder the experience of compersion. ChaptersIntroduction to Compersion and The Origins of Her Book What Is Compersion? (00:00)Defining Compersion: A Dive into the 3 parts. (5:02)The Spectrum of Emotions: Jealousy to Compersion. (8:22)Navigating Compersion: The Belief that Compersion Should be the Ultimate Goal in ENM: Toxic Positivity vs. Authenticity. (9:24)Is Compersion Necessary for a Healthy Non-Monogamous Relationship? (12:21) The 6 Pillars to Cultivating Compersion: Is Compersion like a Muscle that Anyone Can Train? (15:15)The 1st Pillar: Choosing Non-Monogamy From a Place of Values and Integrity. (15:15)If A Partner Is Doing Polyamory For Their Partner And Didn’t Necessarily Choose It, Can They Achieve Compersion? (17: 28) The 2nd Pillar: Building Security Within One Self: Financial, Emotional, and Spiritual Autonomy. (20:45)Building Inner Security in Self. (22:43)Are Some People More Compersive than Others? (27:27)The 3rd Pillar: Security in the Relationship. (32:30)If You Are Practicing Non-Hierarchical Polyamory or Solo Polyamory, How You Can Create Security? (32:22)The 4th Pillar: Positive Metamour Relationships: your partner’s partner (Very Important). (39:13)What If Your Partner Does Not Want You to Meet Their Metamors? (46:36)What If the Metamour Does Not Want to Meet You? (49:04)Growth Edges: Embracing Good Pain. (51:13)The 5th Pillar:Perception of Benefits from your partner’s Other Relationships. (54:36)The 6th Pillar:Community Belonging: The Role of Support in Non-Monogamy. (57:46)Cuckolding and Erotic Compersion: Is the Feeling Self-Centered or Other-Centered? (01:04:50)Final Thoughts: Don’t Pressure Yourself to Feel Compersion. (01:08:50)____________________Instagram @drmariethouin Website: https://www.mariethouin.com for free 30 minute session, webinars, Your Compersion WorksheetHer Book : What Is Compersion? (Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: [email protected] Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
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103: "In Her Sub Era": Impact Play, Being Called a "Good Girl", Primal Play and Sloppy Blow Jobs
In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up, and Vee recounts her sexcapades diving back into the BDSM scene! From being tied up and flogged on a second date to power play in Mexico City on vacation, she gives all the dirty details of her recent scenes. Then the girls discuss Elle's experience with Flintts Mints to cure her dry mouth, and tapping into your inner dominant or submissive side through different modes, including primal play. Get ready for some smut with a side of depth!Vee seeks out Vacation Sex in Mexico City. (0:37)Power Play scene and being a "good girl". (4:59)Flintts Mints: Elle discusses which strengths are best for every situation. (20:13)Bondage and Impact play scene, including spanking, flogging, and sensory deprivation. (23:58)Primal Play: Vee and J go to a workshop to unlock their base instincts. (33:58)Finding your D/S Persona: trying different modes to unlock your inner Dominant or Submissive. (40:25)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: [email protected] Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
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