Dad Starting Over

• "She Slept With Me… So I Guess We’re Fine Now?"

  A guy books an emergency coaching call. Says his marriage is hanging by a thread. He's sleeping in the guest room. She won’t talk to him. Full panic mode.Then when we finally meet? “Oh… never mind. We had sex last night. I think we’re good now.”Let me tell you something, fellas — if a single act of pity sex is enough to make you cancel your plan to fix your marriage… then the marriage was never getting fixed in the first place.In this video, we’re talking about:Why post-conflict sex feels like a miracle cure (but isn’t)The illusion of progress vs. real connectionHow men get addicted to “sexual relief” instead of doing the workAnd why you should never cancel your damn coaching sessionJoin the Brotherhood: https://helpformen.com/joinRead the book that started it all: https://deadbedroomfix.com Get coaching: https://helpformen.com/coaching

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• Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Her (Even Though It’s Over)

  You ever catch yourself stuck in a mental loop? Replaying the breakup, the betrayal, the one thing she said that cut deep?That’s rumination — and it’s not helping you heal.In this video, I explain what rumination really is, why your brain gets stuck there, and how to break out of the loop before it drives you insane. We’ll look at the neuroscience, the psychology, and — most importantly — real ways to stop obsessing and start moving forward.This is for the guys lying awake at night asking “What did I do wrong?”This is for the guys who want to get unstuck.Let’s break the cycle.🌐The HFM Brotherhood (private group for men only): https://helpformen.com/join

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• "My Husband Cheated with 100 Sex Workers… While I Begged for Intimacy"

  This letter hit hard.A woman writes in to share her story: 20 years of marriage. Zero sex. She thought he had a medical issue. Turns out, he was sleeping with nearly 100 sex workers behind her back. And now… he wants to reconcile.In this video, I break down what’s really going on here—from the psychology behind sex addiction and shame, to the heartbreaking reality of codependency and emotional devastation.This story isn’t just about one woman’s pain. It’s a wake-up call for both men and women trapped in toxic dynamics.✅ Want to submit your story for a future video?Go to https://deardso.com🌐The HFM Brotherhood (private group for men only): https://helpformen.com/join

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• Retroactive Jealousy: Why Her Past Haunts You (And How to Stop Obsessing)

  Men ask me all the time: “Why can’t I stop thinking about her past?” You know she had a life before you… but that doesn’t stop your brain from obsessing over every ex, every hookup, every “what if.”This is retroactive jealousy. And it’s more common — and more damaging — than most guys realize.In this episode, I’ll explain the science behind it, how it messes with your head, and what you can do to finally get some peace. This isn’t about shaming you. It’s about helping you understand your own mind — so you can stop sabotaging something good.🔹 Join the Brotherhood (private support group for men):https://helpformen.com/join

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• Why Therapists Focus on You (Not Your Avoidant Wife)

  Why does it feel like the therapist is always on your case, even when your wife is the one shutting down emotionally?In this video, I explain why anxious men—like many of you—end up being the focus in therapy sessions... and it’s not because the therapist is against you. It's because you're actually the one most likely to change and grow.We’ll talk science, psychology, and real-life patterns I’ve seen in hundreds of men who come to Help For Men. I’ll walk you through:Why anxious men are more likely to do the workWhy avoidant women tend to resist therapyWhat the data says about who actually becomes secureHow your own healing can change the relationship—or your entire lifeIf you're tired of dragging your wife to therapy while getting all the blame, this one's for you.✅ Join the Brotherhood today: https://helpformen.com/join✅ Read The Dead Bedroom Fix: https://deadbedroomfix.com

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