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The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby

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The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
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  • The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby

    TikTok's "Steak Girl" : Engaged w/ a baby ft Kaydee Church

    2026/08/19 | 1h 41 mins.
    Kaydee Church, better known online as “the steak girl,” and her fiancé Tyson join us to talk about unexpectedly getting pregnant at 20, becoming parents before marriage, and navigating their new life in the public eye. They open up about their daughter’s scary trip to the NICU, losing $12,000 in a TikTok scam, dealing with judgment online, and how viral fame has changed their lives.

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    Follow Matt & Abby:
    Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/
    Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/
    TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb
    YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbby

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    Chapters:
    00:53 - Carnivore diet
    04:02 - Starting a family young
    05:38 - Meet cute
    07:10 - Living with family
    08:12 - Going viral
    16:35 - Finding out we were pregnant
    25:42 - My first pregnancy
    36:18 - Getting engaged
    38:20 - Planning our wedding
    46:00 - Online backlash
    48:00 - Finding out the gender of my baby
    49:00 - Postpartum
    48:53 - Breastfeeding
    01:00:35 - Making content together
    01:04:30 - Brant Rivera Collab
    01:08:13 - Audience questions
    01:20:17 - Who's More Likely
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    Getting cheated on & co-parenting 7 kids w/ 4 fathers ft. Kail Lowry

    2026/08/12 | 1h 25 mins.
    Kail Lowry is back! We catch up on everything that’s changed since her last visit—from raising seven kids and watching her oldest reach the age she was when she became a mom, to her plans for law school, the pressure of supporting a huge family, and what life looks like with her new boyfriend, Isaac. Plus, Isaac joins us to talk relationships, money, marriage, and what it’s really like stepping into Kail’s very public world.

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    Follow Matt & Abby:
    Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/
    Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/
    TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb
    YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbby

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    Chapters:
    02:02 - Catch up
    02:42 - Therapy
    04:29 - Breaking off my engagement
    08:21 - Cheating
    11:38 - Turning pain into profit
    13:46 - Cost of custody
    22:15 - Having more kids
    25:31 - Moving to NC
    26:25 - Legal reform
    28:08 - Law school
    32:09 - Being the breadwinner
    36:58 - Cosmetic surgery
    39:30 - My Team
    44:39 - Losing my father
    48:00 - How I'm raising my kids differently
    51:15 - Tour
    51:54 - Dating with 7 kids
    1:09:35 - Audience questions
    1:18:00 - Agree or Disagree
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    It's baby time!

    2026/08/05 | 1h 18 mins.
    We’re officially on baby watch. 👶

    At 37 weeks pregnant, we’re sharing our final pregnancy update before baby #3 arrives - from fake labor, nesting, and VBAC prep to the emotional reality of saying goodbye to our family of four. We also talk about why Abby feels “trauma bonded” to her OB, the surprising ways pregnancy has changed her, and what we’re most nervous (and excited) about as we prepare to meet our little guy.

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    Follow Matt & Abby:
    Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/
    Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/
    TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb
    YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbby

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    Chapters:

    00:45 - Baby watch!

    08:01 - Nesting

    10:01 - Preparing our boys for baby

    12:11 - Prodromal labor

    16:05 - Pumping

    19:31 - entering a new season

    23:51 - Final ultrasound

    28:52 - membrane sweep

    32:57 - Baby moon date night

    36:36 - Introducing our baby to our dog

    41:57 - Contractions

    43:29 - VBAC

    46:30 - Labor

    50:32 - Hypno-birthing

    1:01:54 - Audience submitted questions
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    Waiting ‘till marriage & raising 2 kids in a tiny home w/ Carson & Brielle Matranga

    2026/07/29 | 1h 47 mins.
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    Carson and Brielle Matranga may be known for raising their family in a tiny home, but behind the scenes their story is far more unexpected.

    In this episode, they open up about moving in together as teenagers, growing up with addiction, breaking generational cycles, and navigating anxiety and parenthood. They also share what it's really like raising a family in 516 sq feet, and why they wouldn't change it for anything.

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    Follow The Unplanned Podcast:
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    Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts:
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    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504

    Follow Matt & Abby:
    Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/
    Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/
    TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb
    YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbby

    Mascara is sold out! Thank you guys so much! Sign up here for updates on restock: https://www.biswell-beauty.com/

    Chapters:

    03:31 - Going viral
    9:45 - Dance background
    12:37 - Growing up in Louisiana
    20:45 - Our meet cute
    25:27 - Moving in together at 15
    38:17 - Growing up around drug addiction
    44:18 - Waiting for marriage
    46:30 - Anxiety after becoming a mom
    49:44 - Building our own tiny home
    54:11 - Living in a tiny home with 2 kids
    58:28 - Transition from 1-2 kids
    01:05:12 - Boundaries with family
    01:13:24 - Questions from the audience
    01:22:07 - Agree to Disagree
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    End of pregnancy Q&A

    2026/07/22 | 1h 18 mins.
    We’re officially in the final stretch before baby #3! In this end-of-pregnancy Q&A, we’re answering your questions about third trimester life --> from shaving while nine months pregnant to nesting, preschool emotions, and how we’re preparing for the transition from two kids to three.

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    Follow The Unplanned Podcast:
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    Listen to the pod on Spotify/ Apple Podcasts:
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    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-unplanned-podcast/id1669604504

    Follow Matt & Abby:
    Abby's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/abbyelizabethoward/
    Matt's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/_matt_howard_/
    TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_and_abby
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mattandabb
    YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@MattandAbby

    09:00 - Launching my own makeup company
    23:09 - Hiring a doula
    26:27 - Maternity leave
    29:24 - Transition from 2 to 3
    35:55 - Mom car
    38:46 - Nesting
    45:26 - Neighbors calling the cops on us
    48:09 - Audience questions
    50:49 - Living in Arizona
    52:21 - Where have you lived the longest
    55:55 - Dad bod
    56:51 - Would you move back to Missouri
    58:40 - Weekly date nights
    01:01:59 - Preparing for baby #3
    01:03:18 - Potty training
    01:07:19 - Matt's trip to Turkey
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About The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
“Unplanned” dives into genuine conversations surrounding relationships & family. The show is hosted by high school sweethearts Matt and Abby Howard, who live in Phoenix, AZ with their two boys.
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