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To join That Husband's Corner, our mailing list, and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space   [S1] EPISODE 37: WHAT ARE GOING TO CHOOSE? Honouring absent fathers is a profound act of maturity and intentionality, requiring deep reflection and a commitment to healing. In today's episode, Blaque sits down with Seta to explore what it looks like to honor their fathers despite their absence. Seta shares how his uncle stepped in as a father figure, modeling strength and manhood in a way that provided him with a solid foundation. Together, Blaque and Seta delve into the scars left by absent fathers and the long journey toward wholeness, discussing how therapy, faith, and deliberate effort have played vital roles in their healing. Seta also opens up about the incredible support of his wife, who has stood by him in his hardest moments, offering unwavering love and encouragement through his struggles. The conversation shifts to marriage, where Seta emphasises the importance of men stepping up as husbands and fathers. From the value of regular date nights to navigating financial challenges, he shares how tough conversations with his wife shaped him into a better partner. One such moment involved confronting the insecurities that led him to overspend on his bakkie—a humbling experience that taught him the value of vulnerability and growth. Through these honest reflections, Seta offers practical advice for men looking to strengthen their relationships and become better for their families. Finally, the episode dives into fatherhood, as Seta reflects on the kind of dad he wants to be for his children. Drawing lessons from his own upbringing, he speaks about breaking generational cycles and building a legacy of love and presence. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of marriage, reflecting on your role as a father, or striving to grow as a man, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and hope for the journey ahead.

We apologise for the missing audio on this original upload. Please note it has been fixed. To join That Husband's Corner, our mailing list and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 36: UNDER SCRUTINY   In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Priviledge to reflect on his first 11 months of marriage. We discuss the reality of early marriage, the disconnect between expectations and the challenges that arise, and the growth that comes with working through those struggles. Privilege shares how his idealised views on marriage have been reshaped by experience, leading him to greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of love. The conversation delves into the messy but rewarding process of navigating conflicts and learning how to show up fully in a relationship, all while figuring out how to love better. We then explore the evolving roles of husbands in today’s world, discussing the need for clear communication and flexibility in how responsibilities are shared. We tackle the generational shift in marriage dynamics, where today's husbands are more involved in household tasks and childcare, but also face new challenges without traditional role models. The conversation highlights the importance of sacrificial love versus compromising love and how marriage requires both partners to adjust their expectations and align on a shared vision. We emphasize that true leadership in marriage is about guiding your wife toward Christ, not demanding submission. With a focus on growth, mutual respect, and faith, the episode provides valuable insights into how husbands can embrace their roles as leaders, partners, and spiritual heads of their households. We encourage men to approach marriage with realistic expectations, understanding that the difficult moments can strengthen their bond and lead to deeper love. It’s a reminder that being a husband is a God-given mandate, and through love, patience, and continuous growth, husbands can build a strong foundation for their marriages.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community and support us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space EP 1 - EPISODE 35: TELL IT ALL In this special episode of That Husband Podcast, the script is flipped, and Blaque is on the hot seat as his wife Lilly wants to get clarification on things his said in the Podcast about their marriage.They bring a candid and heartfelt vibe to the show. THP dedicated listeners/ viewers have been eagerly awaiting an episode featuring "that wife’s perspective," and today, they get a glimpse into the couple’s marriage dynamics. Together, Blaque and Lilly dig deep into some of the most pivotal moments in their relationship, specifically focusing on how they approach conflict, work/ dreams, support, and remarriage. They explore what marriage has looked like for them while laughing and reflecting on their unique pairing as a couple. As they dive into several past episodes, Lilly recounts a powerful story about husbands feeling unseen—a struggle many men and women can relate to as well but might not openly discuss. Blaque talks about how, for men, “respect” can sometimes be a stand-in for wanting acknowledgment, sharing how he, too, has felt invisible at times. This leads the couple into a vulnerable conversation about the importance of being intentional with words and actions, even in the middle of disagreements, and the hidden nuances that drive their individual approaches to marriage. In a light-hearted yet introspective exchange, The Nubons unpack their personal growth over ten years of marriage, showing listeners/viewers that learning to navigate each other's maturity is an ongoing journey. They laugh, tease, and connect, illustrating that the healthiest relationships require a mix of humor, understanding, and willingness to adapt. By the end, they reveal the secret ingredient behind their resilience: meeting each other halfway, even when it’s hard. This episode is a testament to the value of partnership, and it’s an engaging, relatable listen/watch for anyone looking to strengthen their own relationship. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Get in touch with us - [email protected] FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ 

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join That Husband's Corner or our community, please visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space   [S1] EPISODE 34: WHY MARRIAGE IS THE BEST OPTION FOR MEN? In this episode, we speak about what it really takes to be a happy husband—a journey shaped by sacrifice, legacy, and the quiet, unspoken wisdom passed down through generations. Growing up with parents who have been married for over 30 years, Khaya Thusi reflects on how in his father’s retirement & newfound openness he has inspired him to work harder, not only to provide for his own children but to leave a lasting legacy. Marriage, he says, isn’t just about one grand heroic gesture but about the daily commitment to live for one’s family, surrendering ego and opening up for God to work on his heart as a man. Marriage is designed to refine us, placing healthy boundaries around our lives and shifting our focus from self-centered goals to building something greater with our spouses.   These boundaries—grounded in faith, tradition, and law—challenge us to become men who live up to the responsibility of fatherhood and partnership. In moments when the journey feels tough, it’s those boundaries that keep us grounded, helping us grow through the struggles and reminding us of the beauty and stability that committed love brings. Real love, after all, is about finding strength in the restrictions and realising that growth requires both sacrifice and intentionality. Finally, with two decades of marriage combined, Blaque & Khaya share hard-earned insights on what it takes to grow as a husband, father, and man. We share lessons learned about the value of vulnerability, communication, and dreaming as a team. We’ve faced challenges together with our wives, made mistakes, but emerged stronger. This episode unpacks these lessons—everything from intimacy and patience to the joy of seeing love deepen over the years. It’s an honest, inspiring look at how marriage not only changes but refines, bringing out a calibre of love and leadership that only comes through years of committed growth.