That Husband Podcast

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[S3] EPISODE 34: THE GRIEF MEN AREN'T PREPARED FOR

In this week's episode Blaque sits down with Anele for an honest and necessary conversation about divorce, identity, healing, and the journey of finding your way again. Drawing from his book, Thrive, Anele Matshisi opens up about the phases men go through after divorce moments many are never prepared for and few feel safe enough to talk about.

Together, they unpack the weight of separation, the questions it raises around purpose and identity, and the quiet struggles men often carry behind closed doors. This conversation goes beyond simply surviving heartbreak. Anele reflects on what it takes to confront pain honestly, rebuild your life with intention, and heal in a way that does not leave you repeating the same patterns. From loss and loneliness to self-worth, responsibility, and rediscovering purpose, this episode makes space for the real work of becoming whole again.

They also explore why men need healthier conversations around divorce, support through life’s hardest transitions, and the courage to seek healing instead of hiding behind strength. If you’ve experienced divorce, felt disconnected from who you are, or are trying to rebuild after a season that changed everything, this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 33: SHOWING UP IS NOT ENOUGH

In this live episode of Beans and Bonds, Blaque sits down with Muzi Mthabela for an honest conversation about marriage, leadership, family, and the intentional work of building a home that lasts.

Filmed in March 2025, they unpack what it means for a marriage to be grounded by vision, grown through hard work, and kept alive through the joy of truly enjoying one another. Muzi reflects on the example of the men who shaped him, the importance of leading with love, and why marriage is something we build brick by brick not simply walk into.

They get real about the trauma we bring into relationships, the unspoken expectations that quietly create pressure, and the need to communicate before resentment takes over. From forgiveness and healing to fatherhood and faith, this conversation challenges husbands and future husbands to take responsibility for the kind of family they are building.

They also explore the role of men in restoring the Black family, the power of having a clear vision for your home, and what it looks like to lead your family with intention, humility, and godliness. If you’ve ever felt the weight of marriage, struggled to communicate what you need, or wondered how to build a family that is rooted in more than appearances, this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 32: A RELATIONSHIP VS. A TRANSACTION

In this episode, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane to talk about his new book "There Must Be More" and the realities of marriage, fatherhood, and learning what it really means to love the people you’ve committed your life to.

They get real about the hunger for more, the pressure to provide, the ways men can turn love into performance, and the difficulty of receiving love without feeling like you have to earn it. They unpack the expectations we place on ourselves and our partners, and how easily love can become transactional when we start keeping score.

They also explore ambition, success, desire, and the question of what happens when the life you’re building still doesn’t feel like enough. From marriage and family to purpose and personal fulfilment, the conversation challenges the idea that more will always make us happier and asks what we’re really chasing when we keep wanting more. And perhaps the biggest question: What happens when the things we expect to fulfil us were never designed to?

If you’ve ever struggled to feel satisfied with what you have, found yourself measuring love by what you receive, or wondered why achieving more doesn’t always make you feel like you’ve arrived, then this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 31: WHEN LIFE THROWS ITS WORST BLOWS

In this episode, Blaque sits down with Ntobeko Mjijwa to talk about the realities of marriage, becoming a husband and learning what it really means to love your wife well. They get real about his wife’s depression, losing a child, the pressure of being a husband, learning to apologise, overcoming defensiveness, navigating conflict, and understanding biblical leadership as sacrifice rather than control.

They also unpack the men who helped shape his understanding of marriage, the ways marriage exposes you, and why becoming a better husband is an ongoing process rather than something you figure out on your wedding day. And perhaps the biggest question: What does it really mean to love your wife when life gets hard?

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re truly prepared for marriage, struggled to understand what your wife needs from you, or realised that being a husband is harder than you expected, then this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 30: WHO ARE YOU OUTSIDE OF THE LIMELIGHT?

After a 3 week break That Husband Podcast is BACK! 🎙️

In this episode, Blaque sits down with Pastor Koketso Molaolwe to talk about his new book, The Unlikely Candidate, and the lessons behind his journey from an unlikely beginning to church planting, leadership and influence.

They get real about stewarding success, staying grounded when your profile grows, protecting your marriage and family, overcoming limiting beliefs, authenticity in the age of AI, and remembering who you are beyond your reputation.

And perhaps the biggest question: What did God see in you before anyone else did? If you’ve ever felt like the unlikely candidate or wondered what to do when life starts going bigger than you expected then this conversation is for you.

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