That Husband Podcast

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[S3] EPISODE 32: A RELATIONSHIP VS. A TRANSACTION

In this episode, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane to talk about his new book "There Must Be More" and the realities of marriage, fatherhood, and learning what it really means to love the people you’ve committed your life to.

They get real about the hunger for more, the pressure to provide, the ways men can turn love into performance, and the difficulty of receiving love without feeling like you have to earn it. They unpack the expectations we place on ourselves and our partners, and how easily love can become transactional when we start keeping score.

They also explore ambition, success, desire, and the question of what happens when the life you’re building still doesn’t feel like enough. From marriage and family to purpose and personal fulfilment, the conversation challenges the idea that more will always make us happier and asks what we’re really chasing when we keep wanting more. And perhaps the biggest question: What happens when the things we expect to fulfil us were never designed to?

If you’ve ever struggled to feel satisfied with what you have, found yourself measuring love by what you receive, or wondered why achieving more doesn’t always make you feel like you’ve arrived, then this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 31: WHEN LIFE THROWS ITS WORST BLOWS

In this episode, Blaque sits down with Ntobeko Mjijwa to talk about the realities of marriage, becoming a husband and learning what it really means to love your wife well. They get real about his wife’s depression, losing a child, the pressure of being a husband, learning to apologise, overcoming defensiveness, navigating conflict, and understanding biblical leadership as sacrifice rather than control.

They also unpack the men who helped shape his understanding of marriage, the ways marriage exposes you, and why becoming a better husband is an ongoing process rather than something you figure out on your wedding day. And perhaps the biggest question: What does it really mean to love your wife when life gets hard?

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re truly prepared for marriage, struggled to understand what your wife needs from you, or realised that being a husband is harder than you expected, then this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 30: WHO ARE YOU OUTSIDE OF THE LIMELIGHT?

After a 3 week break That Husband Podcast is BACK! 🎙️

In this episode, Blaque sits down with Pastor Koketso Molaolwe to talk about his new book, The Unlikely Candidate, and the lessons behind his journey from an unlikely beginning to church planting, leadership and influence.

They get real about stewarding success, staying grounded when your profile grows, protecting your marriage and family, overcoming limiting beliefs, authenticity in the age of AI, and remembering who you are beyond your reputation.

And perhaps the biggest question: What did God see in you before anyone else did? If you’ve ever felt like the unlikely candidate or wondered what to do when life starts going bigger than you expected then this conversation is for you.

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[S3] EPISODE 29: WORK OVER YOUR FAMILY?

This episode started as a quick update to let you know why That Husband Podcast is taking a short break, but it became a much deeper conversation about the kind of husband I hope to be. As my wife and I navigate life with newborn twins, prepare to launch a church, and carry the weight of family, ministry, and business, I was reminded that no public platform is worth sacrificing the people waiting for you at home. Sometimes the strongest decision a man can make is to slow down long enough to protect what matters most.

A moment from the Winnie Mandela documentary challenged me in a way I wasn’t expecting. It made me think about legacy, authenticity, and the uncomfortable question every husband should wrestle with: if my wife were asked to describe who I really am, would her words reflect the man you see on this podcast?

My hope is that every husband leaves this episode challenged to pursue a marriage anchored by conviction instead of convenience, and reminded that the most important life you’ll ever build is the one your family experiences when no one else is watching.

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[S3] EPISODE 28: THE HARD WORK OF MARRIAGE

What begins as a light-hearted discussion about what we jokingly call "female crazy" quickly becomes something far deeper. Together, we unpack the moments in marriage when emotions seem to outrun logic, when miscommunication leaves both husband and wife feeling misunderstood, and when the person you love most somehow becomes the person who absorbs your deepest frustrations. This is not a conversation about men versus women. It is about learning to understand one another before we judge one another.

My wife courageously reflects on what it feels like to spiral emotionally, while I share what it feels like to be on the receiving end of that spiral. Together we explore insecurity, purpose, exhaustion, parenthood, anxiety, communication, and the hidden stories we bring into marriage. We realised that so many of our arguments were never really about the argument itself. They were invitations to ask a deeper question: What is actually happening in your heart right now? Sometimes the greatest breakthrough in marriage comes when we stop trying to win the moment and start trying to understand the person.

 

Healthy marriages are not built by two people who never lose their way, they are built by two people who keep choosing to find each other again. There are moments where we will misunderstand each other, wound each other, and fail each other. But there is also grace to slow down, to listen, to apologise, and to reconnect. My hope is that every husband watching feels less alone, every wife feels more understood, and every couple walks away believing that the goal of marriage is not to prove who is right, but to become the kind of people who love each other well, even on our worst days.

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