The Jamie & Donna Winship Podcast

People ask us about parenting and marriage all the time.
But the real question underneath every human relationship is the same:
What actually causes people to flourish?
Jamie and Donna Winship share a simple but powerful framework for parents, grandparents, and anyone who wants to live (and raise others) in true identity:
Be Realistic — Believe what God really said. Not the limited version of “realistic” the world uses, but the unseen reality of what God has spoken about your identity, the future, and the people around you.
Be Relational — Life is built on connection. God has never been alone. Isolation and siloed living create fear and conflict. Healthy, intentional relationships are not optional in the Kingdom.
Take Risks — Faith is spelled risk. Don’t raise children who are self-protecting and risk-averse. Jesus said the one who tries to save his own life will lose it. Humans are designed for transcendence.
The greatest gift you can give your kids and grandkids is not control.
It’s teaching them how to hear the voice of the Shepherd more clearly than the voice of the enemy — so their identity comes from God alone, not from people, performance, or possessions.
Because one day they will be alone in the world.
And the question is: whose voice will be loudest in their head?
This is Kingdom life.
Realistic. Relational. Risky.
And full of joy.

Identity Exchange is a training agency that helps individuals and teams discover new levels of creativity and resiliency within the framework of true identity.
Live fearlessly in your true identity. 
For resources, courses, coaching, and training. Visit https://www.identityexchange.com 
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What if the most joyful person in the room is still carrying a deep wound?
During a recent Catalyst Training, Jamie and Donna Winship and their coaches demonstrated the Identity Exchange process with an international participant who seemed to have it all together. She was exuberant, grateful, and full of life. Yet when they asked a simple question—“Where are you experiencing conflict right now?”—a longstanding family dispute over inherited land surfaced. That present tension led them back through a trail of memories to a shocking core wound from when she was only two years old.
In a war-torn region, her mother set her down and fled as guerrilla fighters approached. The rebels picked her up. Her father arrived, was nearly killed… and then one of the “enemies” looked into the little girl’s eyes and spared both their lives because of her.
When the coach asked, “Where was Jesus in that moment?” everything shifted. The woman realized the one holding her—the one who saw her when she was abandoned—was how Jesus was present. In that revelation she received her true identity: not powerless, unseen, or alone… but Reconciler. Ambassador.
And then the transformation became complete. She took that truth forward into her current family conflict and walked out of the session with clarity, courage, and a plan to bring peace.
This is what the Identity Exchange process looks like in real time: present struggle → core memory → encountering Jesus → receiving true identity → walking it out in the present.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in conflict, invisible, or like you’re the only one still struggling while everyone else looks fine, this story is for you.

Identity Exchange is a training agency that helps individuals and teams discover new levels of creativity and resiliency within the framework of true identity.
Live fearlessly in your true identity. 
For resources, courses, coaching, and training. Visit https://www.identityexchange.com 
ORDER Jamie Winship’s Book, Living Fearless: Exchanging the Lies of the World for the Liberating Truth of God | Preorder Jamie's New Book: The War of Worldviews → https://amzn.to/3WE29E3
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n the middle of the Iraq War, while living in Baghdad, Jamie and Donna Winship found themselves teaching English to Iraqi professionals — including a high-ranking military Colonel who had fought against American forces.
What started as deep hostility and death threats turned into an extraordinary friendship through one simple, obedient act of love prompted by God. Hear how Jamie’s response of “God loves you… and I love you too” opened the door to reconciliation, vulnerability, shared prayer, and ultimately a miracle for a couple who believed they were cursed.
This powerful testimony reveals:
How to respond to hostility with listening prayer instead of retaliation
The life-changing question: “God, what do you want me to know?”
What it really means to love your enemies as the Prince of Peace
How human connection and restoration can happen even between “enemies” during war
Jamie and Donna share raw, hope-filled stories from their years in conflict zones and how the same principles apply to our everyday conflicts — in families, workplaces, communities, and beyond.
If you’re facing relational tension, fear, or feeling stuck in “enemy” thinking, this episode will challenge and encourage you to step into the Kingdom way of restoration.
The prayer that changed everything: “God, what do you want me to know? What do you want me to do?”

Identity Exchange is a training agency that helps individuals and teams discover new levels of creativity and resiliency within the framework of true identity.
Live fearlessly in your true identity. 
For resources, courses, coaching, and training. Visit https://www.identityexchange.com 
ORDER Jamie Winship’s Book, Living Fearless: Exchanging the Lies of the World for the Liberating Truth of God | Preorder Jamie's New Book: The War of Worldviews → https://amzn.to/3WE29E3
Follow Jamie Winship on social media:
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After returning from 10 years in Indonesia, Jamie and Donna Winship moved to a small town in North Carolina and began looking for ways to love their unchurched neighbors. What started as a simple visit to a Jordanian restaurant turned into a powerful encounter with Jesus.
When the restaurant owner suffered a heart attack and his wife received devastating news about her sister’s death, she cried out in despair: “The demons of death are chasing me and my husband… we are next.”
In this moving testimony, Donna shares how she responded with listening prayer — and how God met this Muslim woman with a breathtaking vision of Jesus, followed by a confirming dream that led both her and her husband to follow Christ.
This story is a beautiful example of:
• Overcoming fear through true identity in Jesus
• The power of listening prayer
• Cross-cultural friendship and discipleship
• The fruit of genuine encounters with God
If you’ve ever wondered how to share your faith with people from different backgrounds, this testimony will encourage and equip you.

Identity Exchange is a training agency that helps individuals and teams discover new levels of creativity and resiliency within the framework of true identity.
Live fearlessly in your true identity. 
For resources, courses, coaching, and training. Visit https://www.identityexchange.com 
ORDER Jamie Winship’s Book, Living Fearless: Exchanging the Lies of the World for the Liberating Truth of God | Preorder Jamie's New Book: The War of Worldviews → https://amzn.to/3WE29E3
Follow Jamie Winship on social media:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/thejamiewinship
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejamiewinship
Follow Donna Winship on social media:
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Discover the liberating truth of your redeemed innocence in Christ. In this powerful teaching from Jamie Winship on the Identity Exchange channel, we dive deep into Colossians 1 to uncover how God has always seen you as qualified, rescued from darkness, and relocated into the kingdom where the love of His Son rules.
Jesus is the exact representation of the invisible God—the initiator and perfecter of our faith. Your origin was never in sin or shame; it has always been in Him. The sacrifice was made before the foundations of the earth. All charges against you are canceled. You are fully reconciled and restored to your original design.
Jamie unpacks how we often live in the lie of separation, guilt, and fear, while the reality is that God’s delight is to be human—and He has redeemed your innocence from the very beginning. This is the good news: You can live fearlessly, face-to-face with God, with no guilt, suspicion, or accusation.

Identity Exchange is a training agency that helps individuals and teams discover new levels of creativity and resiliency within the framework of true identity.
Live fearlessly in your true identity. 
For resources, courses, coaching, and training. Visit https://www.identityexchange.com 
ORDER Jamie Winship’s Book, Living Fearless: Exchanging the Lies of the World for the Liberating Truth of God | Preorder Jamie's New Book: The War of Worldviews → https://amzn.to/3WE29E3
Follow Jamie Winship on social media:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/thejamiewinship
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejamiewinship
Follow Donna Winship on social media:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/thedonnawinship
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedonnawinship