Dear Future Husband

What if men are not as hard to read as women think?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind “guarding their heart,” and how women can avoid overanalyzing mixed signals in dating.

Bethke shares a male perspective on the questions so many women are asking: 
How can you tell if a man is interested? 
Why do some men seem emotionally guarded? 
What qualities should actually matter when you’re looking for a husband? 
And are some standards helping you discern wisely, while others may be keeping you stuck?
If you’ve ever wondered, “Is he interested, or am I reading this wrong?” this episode is for you.

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Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be.

Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize the difference between a Christian guy and a truly godly man, and why faith talk is not the same as fruit. Ashley shares wisdom from her new book, The Sowing Season, helping women see this season not as a punishment or a pause, but as a time to sow, grow, heal, and prepare with purpose.

If you’ve ever felt like the last single friend, wondered if you’re being too picky, or been tempted to settle for an almost-godly guy, this conversation will encourage you to stop wasting your waiting and start trusting what God is growing in you.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly?

In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face.

Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, and 40s—for a raw, thoughtful, and faith-filled conversation about dating, relationships, pursuit, communication, expectations, and what women are truly experiencing in today’s relationship culture.

From what makes a woman feel pursued to what men misunderstand about singleness, standards, emotional maturity, and readiness for marriage, these women share their real reflections with honesty, grace, and vulnerability.
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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in?
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way.
They talk about the questions many women are carrying quietly:
Why does dating feel so complicated? 
What should women do with disappointment? 
How do you stay hopeful when waiting feels longer than expected?
And what does it look like to trust God with your future while still being honest about your desires?
This conversation is thoughtful, funny, vulnerable, and deeply encouraging for any woman navigating singleness, dating, or the tension between contentment and longing.
Whether you’re single, dating, waiting, healing, or simply trying to understand this season better, this episode will remind you that you’re not behind, you’re not forgotten, and your story is still being written.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.

“What if the future you’re praying for is waiting on the decisions you keep avoiding?”
For the third time on Dear Future Husband, we sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud alongside Christian Bevere to talk about his new book, Your Desired Future — and talk honestly about the patterns, beliefs, and boundaries (or lack thereof) that quietly shape the direction of your life.
We unpack how your habits, mindset, and emotional health determine your future. So, if you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or tired of repeating the same cycles, this episode will challenge and encourage you!
Dr. Cloud gives practical advice on:
why people stay stuck
how to stop sabotaging your future
the connection between faith and responsibility
and how healthy relationships start long before marriage
and MORE
Your future isn’t found by accident — it’s built by the decisions you make today.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.