The Niche Is You

In this episode we’ll talk about:
Why what we call good communication is less about technique and more about safety
How most communication breakdowns aren't skill problems — they're safety problems
Why being wrong out loud in front of someone is one of the deepest forms of intimacy
How safety in communication changes what people are willing to say and how quickly things resolve
Why the best communicators aren't the most articulate — they're the most safe to be around
What shifts in your relationships when you stop performing correctness and start practicing honesty
And more…


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Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step
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In this episode we’ll talk about:
Why the decisions that carry the most fear are usually the most aligned
How your future self has already resolved what your current self is still debating
Why the fear isn't confusion — it's the weight of knowing what's next and not feeling ready for it
The difference between fear that warns you and fear that confirms you
Why most people stay stuck not because they don't know what to do but because they know exactly what to do and it terrifies them
What shifts when you start making decisions from the person you're becoming instead of the person you've been
And more…


CONNECT WITH ME…
→ Instagram — @mattgottesman
→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com
→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

RESOURCES…
→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE
→ Masterclass — CLICK HERE

WORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:

→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play

→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:
Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step
Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu
Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

In this episode we’ll talk about:
Why the waiting season in love isn't just about your preparation — it's about theirs too
How God is simultaneously preparing two people for each other without either of them knowing the full picture
Why your faith during the wait is connected to something happening on the other side that you can't see yet
How trusting the process changes your relationship with the waiting itself
Why the preparation happening in you right now is making you ready for the kind of love most people only pray about
What it means to hold faith for something that's being built in two places at once
And more…


CONNECT WITH ME…
→ Instagram — @mattgottesman
→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com
→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

RESOURCES…
→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE
→ Masterclass — CLICK HERE

WORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:

→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play

→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:
Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step
Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu
Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

In this episode we’ll talk about:
Why prayers are invitations into becoming not shortcuts to receiving
How activation is where the real work begins — not where it ends
Why bold prayers come with bold preparation attached
How God gives you the blessing and the becoming at the same time
Why resistance after prayer isn't a sign you're wrong — it's a sign you're growing into what you asked for
What it means to receive what you prayed for and then continue growing with it
And more…


CONNECT WITH ME…
→ Instagram — @mattgottesman
→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com
→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

RESOURCES…
→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE
→ Masterclass — CLICK HERE

WORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:

→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play

→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:
Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step
Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu
Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

In this episode we’ll talk about:
Why the urgency to respond immediately is almost never as urgent as it feels
How protecting your peace in the moment produces better outcomes long-term
Why the pause between stimulus and response is the most powerful space you'll ever develop
How our wiring pushes us toward reaction when wisdom is asking us to wait
Why the most respected people in any room are the ones who don't respond immediately
What changes when you start valuing your peace more than your need to be heard
And more…


CONNECT WITH ME…
→ Instagram — @mattgottesman
→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com
→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.com

RESOURCES…
→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE
→ Masterclass — CLICK HERE

WORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:

→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play

→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income

OTHER RELATED EPISODES:
Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest Step
Apple: https://apple.co/3MB62Iu
Spotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN