When the Goal is Gone: Rebuilding Discipline and Finding Yourself Again
For years, I only knew how to be disciplined if there was a finish line in sight — a game, a pageant, a vacation. But when the those seasons of my life ended, so did my routines. And somewhere after those things were over, I lost myself. Not intentionally, but simply because I didn't have anything to work towards anymore. I neglected my health, my joy, my self care — all because I didn’t have a “reason” to take care of me.In this episode, I’m opening up about what it’s like to lose your identity in the absence of a goal, the slow unraveling of self-discipline, and the dangerous trap of only showing up for yourself when there’s something to prove. Together, we’ll talk about rebuilding from the inside out — learning how to care for yourself consistently, not for a deadline, but for a lifetime. FOLLOW US: @girlsirlpod @mariahclayton_ Don't forget to leave a 5 star rating!
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Stop Blaming God for Your Bad Decisions | Recognizing the Consequences of Choices Made Outside of God’s Will
Happy Monday girlies! Ever make a decision and then wonder, “Why would God let this happen?” In this episode, we’re having a real talk about what happens when you blame God for the choices you made. We explore the hard truth about spiritual accountability, what it means to abuse God's grace, and why free will doesn’t erase the need for wisdom. God can redeem anything—but it starts with you being honest about where you went wrong. Let’s talk about free will, growth, and the power of choosing better next time.FOLLOW US: @girlsirlpod@mariahclayton_Don't forget to leave a 5 star rating!
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How to Trust God in the In-Between | Holding On When Your Dreams Feel Distant
Have you ever felt stuck between where you are and where you know you're meant to be? In this episode of Girls in Real Life, we’re talking about the tension of the in-between—the place where your dreams feel close but not quite reality. I’m sharing my personal story of navigating the highs of living glimpses of my dreams, and the lows of returning to my reality afterward.We’ll unpack:➤ Why the in-between seasons feel so painful➤ What Joseph’s story teaches us about the in-between ➤ The reality of balancing your aspirations with your current responsibilities➤ 5 ways to stay hopeful when your dreams feel distantIf you’re feeling discouraged, impatient, or ready to give up—this is for you. The promise still stands, even when the timeline doesn’t make sense.FOLLOW US: @girlsirlpod @mariahclayton_ 🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell to be notified when new episodes drop every Monday!
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When Life Changes Overnight: How We Navigated an Unexpected Pregnancy Together
When life takes an unexpected turn, how do you respond? In today’s episode, I’m sitting down with my husband, Justin, to share the full story of when we found out we were pregnant. You’ve heard my side before, but this time you’ll hear an honest discussion between us about how he felt, the fears he carried, and how he navigated the uncertainty of our future.We’re talking about the raw emotions that come with big life changes—the joy, the shock, and even the silent struggles we don’t always share out loud. Justin opens up about what it was like watching me change during pregnancy, balancing his emotions while helping me carry mine, and stepping into fatherhood sooner than expected.Whether you’re in a relationship, navigating your own unexpected season, or curious about how couples grow through challenges, we hope this conversation encourages you to create space for honesty, grace, and faith in your own life.FOLLOW US: @girlsirlpod @mariahclayton_ Don't forget to leave a 5 star review!
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Cheers to 5 Years//This Podcast Changed My Life
Five years ago, I sat behind a mic with a heart full of hope and a voice still learning what it wanted to say. I didn’t know who would listen. I didn’t know where this journey would lead. But here we are five years later and somehow, you’ve stayed.In this very special anniversary episode, I’m taking you behind the mic to share the full story: how Girls in Real Life began, the ways we’ve grown together, and the lessons God has taught me along the way. Thank you for being part of this story. The best is still ahead. 💗Follow Us: @girlsirlpod@mariahclayton_Don't forget to leave a 5 star rating!
Women have been conditioned by society to be, act, and think a certain way. Here at GIRLS IRL, we encourage women to challenge societal norms and embrace their femininity so they can live a fearless and filter-free life. Join your host, Mariah Clayton, every Monday as she educates, inspires, and motivates you through light hearted conversations each week.
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