The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama

Just found out you're pregnant and wondering "now what?" Trish is breaking down the first trimester essentials - the stuff nobody tells you until you're six weeks in and suddenly flattened by exhaustion. From what's really happening in your baby's development to the food rules, spotting fears, and when (or if) to tell people your news, this episode is the guide Trish wishes every mama had the moment she saw two pink lines.
In this episode:
Why folate (not folic acid) matters for your prenatal vitamin - and how the MTHFR gene variant plays a role
The truth about first trimester fatigue and how to actually cope with it
What to do if you experience spotting (and why it's more common than you think)
How prenatal care is shifting toward telehealth in 2026
Morning sickness vs. hyperemesis gravidarum - when to ask for help
What genetic screening (NIPT) can tell you, and when it's offered
Navigating the noise around pregnancy vaccines
Food safety musts: what to skip and what's actually fine
When to share your pregnancy news - and why it's nobody's call but yours
Trish's own experience with nine pregnancies, six live births, and three losses

Mentioned in this episode:
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Helpful Timestamps:
00:00 First Trimester Tips
02:10 Prenatal Folate Basics
02:53 Fatigue
03:48 Spotting and When to Call
04:23 Appointments and Telehealth
05:45 Morning Sickness Help
06:25 Genetic Screening NIPT
06:59 Vaccines and Food Safety
08:07 Sharing Pregnancy News

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Did you know 80% of your immune system lives in your gut - and your baby gets theirs from you? Whether you had a vaginal birth or a C-section, breastfed or formula fed, this episode is going to change the way you think about your baby's health from day one.
Trish sits down with Cheryl Hoy, CEO and founder of Tiny Health, the first at-home microbiome testing company for moms and babies. Cheryl's journey started with her own breech C-section birth and a mission to understand what that meant for her daughter's long-term health. What she found led her to build a company backed by scientists from Mayo Clinic, Johns Hopkins, and UCSF - and to become one of the loudest voices reminding moms that their birth mode isn't the end of the story. Trish and Cheryl dig into the science of the vaginal, gut, and skin microbiomes, why laboring (even before a C-section) still matters, and how the first 1,000 days of life set the stage for your child's immune system for years to come. This one is equal parts science lesson and permission slip - you are not powerless, no matter how your baby arrived earthside.
What You'll Learn Inside This Episode:
Why babies born vaginally have a different gut microbiome than babies born via C-section - and how that connects to the "atopic march" (eczema → food allergies → asthma → hay fever)
Why laboring - even if it ends in a C-section - still seeds your baby's microbiome with beneficial bacteria
How vaginal exams during labor can introduce antibiotic-resistant hospital bacteria to your baby
Why dads contribute up to 20% of a baby's microbiome in the first year (and even more with a C-section birth )
What actually happens when you order a Tiny Health test, and how simple the process really is
Why "failure to progress" might have less to do with your body and more to do with how supported you felt in the room
How feeding mode (breast vs. formula) is the #1 most impactful lever for course-correcting gut health after a C-section
Why the first 1,000 days - conception through age 2-3 - is the critical window for immune training, and what you can actually do about it

More from Tiny Health:
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Follow on Instagram: @tiny.health
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Mentioned in this episode:
The VBAC Lab - Trish's course for vaginal birth after C-section

Helpful Timestamps:
00:00 Meet Cheryl from Tiny Health
07:04 What Is The Microbiome
12:46 Course Correcting In Early Life
19:07 Results, Support, And Dad’s Role
20:26 Microbiome Roles at Birth
23:07 Fighting for Breech Birth
33:30 Tiny Health Mission and Testing
36:09 Research Results and Future Care
37:26 Where to Find Tiny Health

Join The Calm Labor Birth Bundle - everything you need from bump to baby! Use code POD50 for $50 off!
Over 15k mamas have used our classes to prepare for a birth that they love 🤍
⭐ Download immediately ⭐App available ⭐Life-time access⭐
Connect w/ Trish:
On Instagram
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For more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

You're 10 centimeters, and your nurse says "okay, let's push" - and without any discussion, you're guided into whatever position is easiest for everyone else in the room. Except it doesn't have to go that way. Trish is breaking down pushing positions, what the research actually says about each one, and exactly how to get the birth room to work with you - even if you have an epidural.
Trish pulls back the curtain on one of the most overlooked parts of birth prep: how you push. She traces the surprising (and slightly wild) history of why flat-on-your-back became the hospital default, walks through what the Cochrane Review actually found about upright versus lying-down pushing, and breaks down six different pushing positions - who each one is best for, what the research shows, and how to advocate for the one that's right for you. Whether you're planning unmedicated or you know an epidural is part of your plan, this episode makes sure you walk into your birth room already knowing your options.
What You'll Learn:
The real history behind the "default" position - and why it has nothing to do with what's best for you
What the Cochrane Review found when comparing upright vs. lying-down pushing - fewer interventions, fewer abnormal fetal heart patterns, and a shorter pushing stage
The tearing nuance nobody explains - upright positions may carry a higher chance of minor tearing, but a lower chance of episiotomy
Six pushing positions, including who each one is best for: Lithotomy (on your back), Semi-recumbent, Side lying (Sims position), Hands and knees, Squatting and supported squatting, & Leaning forward on a raised bed
Which positions work with an epidural - yes, you still have options
Exactly what to say to your nurse or provider if they default to what's easiest for them, not what's best for you
How to put your pushing preferences in your birth map before you ever walk into the hospital

Resources Mentioned
Labor Like a Pro Guide - Trish's illustrated labor positions guide, showing every pushing position and exactly when to use it.
The Calm Birth Bundle - the full kit and caboodle, including the labor positions guide: labornursemama.com/calm

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Helpful Timestamps:
00:00 Pushing Positions
03:11 What Research Shows
05:23 Lithotomy and Semi Recumbent
06:39 Side Lying for Control
07:46 Hands and Knees Benefits
09:25 Squatting for More Space
11:01 Leaning Forward Upright
11:58 Epidural Friendly Choices
13:21 How to Advocate Early

Join The Calm Labor Birth Bundle - everything you need from bump to baby! Use code POD50 for $50 off!
Over 15k mamas have used our classes to prepare for a birth that they love 🤍
⭐ Download immediately ⭐App available ⭐Life-time access⭐
Connect w/ Trish:
On Instagram
On YouTube
For more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

What would it feel like to go into labor fully prepared for your VBAC - and then have your baby flip breech in the middle of it? That's exactly what happened to Kathryn May, a VBAC Lab student and stay-at-home mom of two from Charlotte, NC.
After a traumatic first birth that ended in an unplanned C-section, Kathryn was determined to do things differently the second time around. She switched to a VBAC-supportive practice, brought her husband fully into the process, and walked into labor informed and ready. Things were progressing beautifully - until a routine check revealed something no one expected: baby James had flipped breech.
Kathryn's story isn't about getting the birth she planned. It's about what happens when you're prepared enough to handle it when the plan changes anyway - and still walk away feeling like you were part of every decision, confident, and empowered.
In this episode:
Why Kathryn's first C-section left her feeling like things were "happening to her" instead of with her
How to spot red flags with a provider who isn't truly VBAC-supportive (and why body language matters as much as their words)
Getting her husband trained as an active advocate, not just a bystander
The moment her midwife said, "I don't feel a head" - and what came next
How Kathryn made her unplanned C-section feel informed and participatory instead of traumatic
Why "you can refuse anything, but should you?" became her guiding question in the moment that mattered most

If Kathryn's story hit home for you - especially if your own birth didn't go the way you planned - be gentle with yourself. Whatever happened, you showed up, and that matters.
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Connect with Kathryn:
Follow her on Instagram @drkathrynmay
More from this episode:
Join The VBAC Lab or explore The Calm Labor Birth Bundle
Helpful Timestamps:
00:00 VBAC Lab Student Birth Story
01:56 First Birth C-Section
05:26 Switching to Supportive Team
10:45 Labor Begins at Home
15:32 Baby is Breech
18:09 Redemptive C-Section Plan
20:16 Baby James Arrives
26:36 Advice for VBAC Moms
28:26 Why Education Matters

Join The Calm Labor Birth Bundle - everything you need from bump to baby! Use code POD50 for $50 off!
Over 15k mamas have used our classes to prepare for a birth that they love 🤍
⭐ Download immediately ⭐App available ⭐Life-time access⭐
Connect w/ Trish:
On Instagram
On YouTube
For more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Birth vibes are everywhere right now - and Jen Hamilton's book earned every bit of its #1 spot. But vibes alone won't get you through a decision in the delivery room. This week, Trish breaks down what Jen gets so right, and why you need both the vibes and the map.
Jen Hamilton's Birth Vibes has taken over birth prep conversations everywhere, and moms keep asking Trish the same question: is it vibes over plans now? Trish's answer - Jen's right, but it's not the whole picture. In this episode, Trish unpacks what "birth vibes" actually means (mindset, values, and grounded adaptability - not just "good energy and hope for the best"), and why that emotional preparation matters so much.
As a 16-year L&D nurse, Trish has watched moms walk in with beautiful energy and zero information, and freeze the moment a real decision hits. Her take: vibes get you into the right headspace, but you still need to know your options - because if you don't know your options, you don't have any. That's why Trish calls it a birth map, not a birth plan - a living, "why-behind-it" version of your preferences that holds both your values and your knowledge.
What You'll Learn Inside This Episode:
What Jen Hamilton's "birth vibes" concept really means - and why it's not just "hope for the best"
Why mindset and grounded confidence genuinely change birth outcomes
The difference between a birth plan (a checklist) and a birth map (values + knowledge + flexibility)
Why "if you don't know your options, you don't have any"
How to bring vibes and information together so you can advocate for yourself in the moment
What Trish's Birth Mastery Workshop adds to your birth prep after reading Birth Vibes

More from this episode:
Birth Plan Mastery Workshop
Read Birth Vibes by Jen Hamilton
Helpful Timestamps:
00:00 Birth Vibes
01:26 What Jen Really Means
03:04 Why Vibes Need Knowledge
04:26 Birth Map, Not a Checklist
06:47 Birth Mastery Workshop
08:26 Personal Note to Jen

Join The Calm Labor Birth Bundle - everything you need from bump to baby! Use code POD50 for $50 off!
Over 15k mamas have used our classes to prepare for a birth that they love 🤍
⭐ Download immediately ⭐App available ⭐Life-time access⭐
Connect w/ Trish:
On Instagram
On YouTube
For more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services