Single Mother Survival Guide

• 468 - Disneyland dads and the fun parent trap - Why stability trumps spectacle

  As single mums, life often feels like a balancing act. On one hand, you’re the loving, nurturing parent your children need. On the other, you might feel pressure to become the “fun parent” they want. Throw co-parenting into the mix - especially with an ex who takes on the role of the Disneyland Dad, prioritising fun over routine - and that balance can feel impossible to maintain. But here’s the truth: being the fun parent isn’t all it’s made out to be. In this episode, we dive into why competing to be the “fun parent” isn’t the answer, how the role of a Disneyland Dad impacts co-parenting, and why providing stability is the ultimate gift you can give your children. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get our free resource guide for practical tips on maintaining balance and providing stability for your children. Let’s help you focus on what truly matters: building a secure and loving environment for your kids. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: [email protected]. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

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• 467 - Seeking professional help when dealing with a high-conflict ex

  Navigating life as a single mum can feel overwhelming, especially when dealing with the added complexities of a high-conflict relationship. Whether it’s managing co-parenting with a difficult ex or processing the emotional toll of separation, it’s easy to feel stuck. In this episode, we explore how therapy and coaching can empower single mums to reclaim control, build resilience, and create a more peaceful environment for themselves and their children. If you’re curious about whether professional guidance could help you, this episode breaks down the transformative benefits it can offer. Links mentioned in the episode:  Feeling stuck in a high-conflict co-parenting relationship? Click HERE to download our free resource guide to discover how therapy and coaching can help you regain control, build resilience, and create a more peaceful life for you and your children.  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: [email protected]. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

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• 466 - The myth of the perfect single mum

  In a world dominated by social media and its endless stream of "perfect" parenting snapshots, the pressure on single mums to meet impossible standards can be overwhelming. Juggling work, parenting, and emotional well-being often leaves little room for anything else - and that’s okay. This episode breaks down why the idea of the "perfect mum" is a myth and explores how letting go of perfectionism can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Tune in for practical advice on embracing your imperfections and focusing on what truly matters: showing up for your kids and yourself with love and intention. Links mentioned in the episode:  Feeling weighed down by the myth of perfection? Click HERE to download our free resource guide to help you release unrealistic expectations and embrace a more balanced, authentic approach to single motherhood.  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: [email protected]. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

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• 465 - Why blaming your ex is holding you back

  Divorce and separation can leave us grappling with overwhelming emotions - hurt, betrayal, and anger being just a few. In these difficult moments, blame might feel like a natural reaction, providing a sense of clarity or closure. However, staying stuck in a cycle of blame - whether directed at your ex, circumstances, or even yourself - can act as a barrier to your healing. This episode dives deep into why blame keeps you from moving forward, how to release it, and how to replace it with a mindset focused on growth and resilience. Tune in for practical tips on embracing personal responsibility and thriving in your new chapter. Links mentioned in the episode:  Ready to break free from the cycle of blame and move forward with purpose? Click HERE to download our free resource guide for actionable steps to let go of resentment and build a mindset focused on growth and healing.  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: [email protected]. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

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• 464 - Parallel parenting 101

  Co-parenting can feel like an uphill battle, especially when communication with your ex is consistently tense or unproductive. Enter parallel parenting - a strategy designed to protect your peace, prioritise your children, and reduce direct conflict with the other parent. In this episode, we explore the core principles of parallel parenting, how it differs from traditional co-parenting, and practical steps to implement this method successfully. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to co-parent, this episode is for you. Links mentioned in the episode:  Learn more about parallel parenting - what it is, how to implement it, and the benefits. Click HERE to download your guide and take the first step toward a more peaceful co-parenting experience. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: [email protected]. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

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