Rich Queer Aunties

• Building Relational Skills to Defy Empire

  In this episode of Rich Queer Aunties, we dive deep into why relational skills are essential for our collective liberation. We explore the tensions between individualism, collectivism, and interdependence, unpacking how capitalism, white supremacy, and patriarchy have shaped the way we relate to one another.Christabel and Kachi reflect on their personal journeys with repair, conflict resolution, and deepening relational skills, not just in friendships and romantic relationships, but also in movement spaces. Why do so many relationships fall apart over unspoken expectations? How do we build the resilience to stay, repair, and grow while also discerning when to walk away?We also talk about the role of community in healing from relational trauma, how prioritizing deep relationships is a direct act of resistance against empire, and why building strong relational skills is crucial for any liberatory movement. Plus, Christabel shares how her 12 years in nursing leadership have shaped her understanding of conflict navigation, emotional intelligence, and showing up for others, even when it’s hard.This is an episode about unlearning, relearning, and doing the slow, necessary work of repair, for ourselves, our communities, and our collective futures.Ọganihu Collective – A community for creatives of diasporic origin building sustainable, interdependent businesses. If you’re a creator looking for ongoing support, join us.Comment/rate/review the podcast – This helps a lot for visibility for a podcast hosted by two Black, Queer Women.Follow Christabeland Kachi on Instagram for more offerings and a good time! Tune in and let’s get into it.

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• If Your Spirituality Is Isolating You, It’s Not Working: A Critique of How We Practice Indigenous Spirituality

  Spirituality should bring us closer to ourselves, to each other, and to the land. But too often, we see people leaving oppressive religious structures only to recreate the same hierarchies, dogma, and isolation in their spiritual journeys. In this episode, we ask: Are we truly decolonizing our spirituality, or are we just replicating the same patterns with different language? We explore: ✨ How indigenous wisdom offers pathways to healing beyond Western individualism ✨ The ways colonial trauma shapes modern spiritual practices ✨ Why relational accountability must be central to any spiritual path ✨ How to practice spirituality in a way that fosters community, connection, and liberation Healing, unlearning, and reclaiming indigenous knowledge should not make us lonelier. It should deepen our relationships and bring us home to interdependence. Ready to build community while doing this work? 🔹 Come join us at The Gathering (Oakland, Feb 15th) – A space to unlearn and reimagine intimacy outside of patriarchal structures. Tickets available now (4 tickets left)! 🔹 Ọganihu Collective – A community for creatives of diasporic origin building sustainable, interdependent businesses. If you’re a creator looking for ongoing support, join us. 🔹 Comment/rate/review the podcast – This helps a lot for visibility for a podcast hosted by two Black, Queer Women. Follow Christabel and Kachi on Instagram for more offerings and a good time!  Love,  Christabel & Kachi; The Rich Queer Aunties

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• Healing Beyond the Master’s Tools: Therapy, Queerness, and Rediscovering Indigenous Wisdom

  Healing Beyond the Master’s Tools: Therapy, Queerness, and Rediscovering Indigenous Wisdom In this deeply reflective episode, Christabel and Kachi dive into the layered complexities of healing as queer African immigrant women navigating Western therapeutic tools, cultural inheritance, and the longing for ancestral wisdom.  They explore questions like:  • Are the tools we’re using to heal truly liberating us?  • What happens when therapy and mindfulness no longer feel like enough?  • How do we reclaim indigenous healing practices that were disrupted by colonialism?  Through raw storytelling and vulnerable reflection, they unpack the ways queerness became a lens for healing, the heartbreak of systemic betrayal, and the deep longing to return to something ancient, something rooted.  This conversation is not just about personal healing, it’s about collective liberation, about challenging systems that ask us to stay small, silent, and stagnant.  If you’ve ever felt stuck on your healing journey, if you’ve questioned whether the tools available to you are truly serving your growth, this episode is for you.  Tune in, reflect, and let’s query deeper, together.  Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream your favorite shows. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share, it helps so much! 💖 ✨ Connect with us: Follow on Instagram: ⁠@christabelmintahgalloway⁠ Join the conversation on Substack: ⁠Rich Queer Aunties⁠ Support the community on Patreon: ⁠Oganihu Collective Till next time, Christabel & Kachi.

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• 2024 Reflections: What we're leaving behind & what we're carrying forward

  In this heartfelt end-of-year episode, Christabel and Kachi sit down to reflect on 2024, its challenges, triumphs, and transformative lessons. From navigating healing journeys and embracing authenticity to setting bold intentions for the year ahead, this conversation dives deep into vulnerability, creativity, and the power of showing up fully in our lives. Join us as we share personal stories, honor growth, and explore what it means to let go of fear, lean into courage, and build a life rooted in authenticity and ease. ✨ What you'll hear in this episode: Insights from Kachi's healing journey post-injury Christabel's reflections on self-trust and slow growth Honest discussions on letting go of societal expectations Bold intentions for creativity, community, and connection in the year ahead Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream your favorite shows. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share, it helps so much! 💖 ✨ Connect with us: Follow on Instagram: @christabelmintahgalloway Join the conversation on Substack: Rich Queer Aunties Support the community on Patreon: Oganihu Collective Let’s step boldly into the new year, together.

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• Choosing Between an Anti-Black Country and a Homophobic One: Building a Youth Empowerment Center in Ghana

  In this deeply personal episode of Rich Queer Aunties, we confront a difficult and often unspoken question: What do you choose when both anti-Blackness and homophobia are constant realities? As queer African women navigating these harsh truths, we share our stories of living between worlds - Christabel a nurse, and writer who immigrated to the U.S. from Ghana, and Kachi, a healer and Nigerian artist.  As two queer women, we’re in Ghana right now, facing the challenges head-on to build a youth empowerment and retreat center that offers safety, skill-building, and community for marginalized people. But it’s not just about us. This is for the youth who dream of a future where they don’t have to flee their homeland for opportunities. We’re here to create spaces for healing, skill-building, and intergenerational wisdom-sharing, even in the face of homophobic laws and cultural stigma. Join us as we discuss: The emotional journey of building in a place that is both home and hostile Leveraging the privileges we have - like American passports and financial security - to uplift others Why we believe mutual aid and community funding are the keys to liberation The healing power of reconnecting to the land and culture while building safe spaces for others But we can’t do it alone. This project is for the community, funded by the community. We’re 13% funded towards our $30,000 goal, and we need your help to keep going. If you’ve been moved by our work, please consider donating. 💛 How to Support Us: Donate to our GoFundMe to help us reach our $30,000 goal: HERE. Become a member of our Patreon community, Oganihu Collective, where we share exclusive content, behind-the-scenes updates, and offer private discussions: HERE Connect with us on Substack for deep dives into topics we discuss on the podcast, updates on the project, and community conversations: HERE. Follow us on Instagram for daily updates, stories, and behind-the-scenes moments from Ghana: @christabelmintahgalloway Every bit of support matters, whether it’s $20 towards buying a bag of cement or simply sharing this episode with someone who cares about community building. Together, we can create a space where marginalized people can thrive, heal, and build a future rooted in empowerment. If this episode resonated with you, please: Rate and review our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Donate to our GoFundMe and help us reach the next milestone. Join our private community on Patreon to deepen your connection with us and support ongoing projects.

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