What if what you're calling failure… isn't failure? When your child's life, or your parenting, doesn't look how you thought it would, it can bring up shame, guilt, and that quiet sense of "I got this wrong." But what if you're not wrong… you're just being invited to grow? In this episode, we talk about how to see clearly without making it mean something about your worth (go back to Episode 311 on self-love), why your teen's struggles are actually part of their path, and how faith looks different when you stop needing everything to go your way. Because they're supposed to struggle. And you're supposed to grow too. (It's kind of the whole point) xoxo To more fully understand, embrace and implement what I teach, book a free Discover Your Disconnection Pattern call with me. There is a solid reason you're feeling stuck, broken, or are hurting. I will help you discover it so that you can heal it. I firmly believe that your weaknesses can become your strength. Let me show you how. xoxo
314. Love Comes From Within
2026/04/07 | 21 mins.
They hug you ...They trash talk you in their texts. They confide in you ...They lie to you. They tell you they love you ...They break your rules. It can feel like a roller coaster—loving them deeply while also feeling hurt, confused, or unsure where you stand. In this episode, I talk about why love can feel so elusive when we misunderstand how it's created—and how understanding the dynamics of love changes everything. Spoiler: love isn't something that the universe sprinkles down on us, beyond our control. If you've ever questioned the love between you and your teen, this will help you see it more clearly and create more of it. To more fully understand, embrace and implement what I teach, book a free Discover Your Disconnection Pattern call with me. There is a solid reason you're feeling stuck, broken, or are hurting. I will help you discover it so that you can heal it. I firmly believe that your weaknesses can become your strength. Let me show you how. xoxo
313. Love is Flexible. Bend, Don't Break
2026/03/31 | 26 mins.
What's your favorite TV show? Today I talk about how the stories we love can teach us emotional flexibility—and how that flexibility expands our ability to love our teens well. In this episode, I share the three parts of structured flexibility that help us connect better, find more happiness, and express love more effectively as parents. If you've been feeling stuck, rigid, or unsure how to respond well when things don't go as planned, this conversation will help you bend instead of break. To more fully understand, embrace and implement what I teach, book a free Discover Your Disconnection Pattern call with me. There is a solid reason you're feeling stuck, broken, or are hurting. I will help you discover it so that you can heal it. I firmly believe that your weaknesses can become your strength. Let me show you how. xoxo
312. Love Is Grounded Even When Your Teen Isn't
2026/03/24 | 31 mins.
Our teen is grumpy, we find something we sished didn't exist, we are angry, frustrated and just want to fix it all. What parents may not realize is that they're parenting out of disregulation and that often causes it's own set of problems. While we may not associate LOVE and REGULATION with each other, they go hand in hand- listen in as I explain how.
To more fully understand, embrace and implement what I teach, book a free Discover Your Disconnection Pattern call with me. There is a solid reason you're feeling stuck, broken, or are hurting. I will help you discover it so that you can heal it. I firmly believe that your weaknesses can become your strength. Let me show you how. xoxo
311. Love Yourself Like You Want Your Teen To
2026/03/17 | 28 mins.
If we want our kids to be okay with their imperctions, not beat themselves up, and expect others to treat them with respect, there is a practice we parents need to improve- self love. Our kids learn how to see themselves by how we see ourselves. It is a common misconception that if we think we're awsome, we're proud. Not always so- listen in as I explain the difference between perfectionism and self love- this is a concept that will bless you and your childrens lives forever! I reference one of my favorite presentations on love by Adam Miller at FaithMatters. 10/10 recommend Love is a Law not a Reward To more fully understand, embrace and implement what I teach, book a free Discover Your Disconnection Pattern call with me. There is a solid reason you're feeling stuck, broken, or are hurting. I will help you discover it so that you can heal it. I firmly believe that your weaknesses can become your strength. Let me show you how. xoxo
About Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
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