If He Pulls Away, Read This: The Truth About “No Contact” Texts
When someone pulls away, it’s easy to panic and think: “If I try harder, they’ll come back.”In this episode we break down why that instinct can be so dangerous, what “no contact tests” really are, and what someone’s distance is actually telling you about how they see you.We talk about the difference between normal confusion and patterns that start to feel like psychological abuse, and why it’s so important not to romanticize behaviour that makes you feel small, anxious or like you’re going crazy. We also share a raw moment between us on air — and a post-episode clarification — about why saying “he’s a narcissist sometimes” completely misses the point.If you’ve ever chased someone who was half-in, half-out, this one is for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Still Thinking About Your Ex? This Will Break The Cycle
Are you wondering if that person is actually interested in you?In this episode of Love Hacks, we break down the real signals —not the romanticized ones— that show whether someone is emotionally available or if you’re just projecting what you want to believe.Using insights from relationship experts, we explore:•Why we confuse attention with intention•How your mind creates stories when you’re anxious or attached• Clear signs of disinterest (even when they hurt)• Consistent behaviors that DO indicate genuine interest• How to stop obsessing over someone who isn’t choosing youWe also dive into how the “version of yourself with that person” can mislead you, and why reclaiming your energy, identity, and personal power changes everything in your relationships.You’ll walk away with practical steps to make decisions from clarity — not illusion.If you’re tired of misreading signals, this episode will give you freedom, perspective, and peace of mind.Love Hacks — real conversations about love, connection, and everything in between.Now available in English, Español, Français — and coming soon in Português. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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How To Raise Your Standards — He Texts When He's Bored, Not When He Cares
Sometimes we confuse effort with connection. We think that if we give more, they’ll finally see our worth, but all it does is highlight the imbalance.In this episode, we talk about what it means tPortuguêsplaceholder girl: the one who gives, waits, and hopes… while someone else keeps her on pause.And most importantly — how to raise your standards without closing your heart. Because love isn’t about proving your value. It’s about remembering it. 🎙️ Love Hacks — real conversations about love, connection, and everything in between. Now available in English, Español, Français — and coming soon in Português Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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5 Subtle Ways We Destroy Love — Without Realizing It.
What really ends a relationship?In this episode, we uncover the 5 most common ways people unconsciously sabotage their relationships — from lack of emotional safety and communication, to pride, avoidance, and fear of vulnerability.You’ll learn how these patterns show up, how to recognize your own, and what to do to rebuild trust and connection — before it’s too late.🎧 New Love Hacks episode: “Why Relationships Fall Apart — and How to Stop It from Happening.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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When Love Feels Like Manipulation: Life With or After a Narcissist
There’s a kind of love that leaves you empty, because it was never love, it was control disguised as care.Narcissists don’t fall in love with you.They fall in love with how you make them feel, powerful, admired, irreplaceable. And when that mirror breaks… they leave. But healing begins when you stop asking why they did it and start asking why you stayed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What began as two friends sharing late-night talks about love became a multilingual space for emotional reflection.Love Hacks explores love, loss, and healing through honest conversations about what it means to grow — in and after relationships.It’s a journey toward conscious connection, emotional awareness, and the kind of love that starts within.Hosted by Mikala & Renée, Love Hacks now speaks English, Español, Français, and soon Português.Because healing, like love, speaks every language. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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