SummaryIn this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom sits down with Paul Berard to talk about something that quietly affects so many of us—what to do when life has knocked the wind out of your dreams. After going through major disappointments, failures, or betrayals, dreaming again can feel risky. Even foolish. But what if that dream still matters? What if God’s not done with it—or with you? This heartfelt conversation explores how to reclaim hope, rebuild your mindset, and protect those dreams from the voices (inside and outside your head) trying to shut them down. It’s honest, personal, and packed with encouragement for anyone trying to move forward after a major setback.What You’ll LearnWhy dreaming again after failure takes real courageHow to tell the difference between a dream and a God-given visionThe power of mindset and how it shapes your futureHow to guard your heart and protect your dreams from negative influencesWhat to do when other people’s opinions threaten to derail your progressWhy You Should ListenIf you’ve ever thought, “It’s too late for me,” or “I don’t even know how to start over,” this episode is for you. Tom and Paul don’t shy away from the hard stuff—they’ve both walked through it. But what you’ll hear is not just their story—it’s a reminder of your story still being written. If you're in a place where you want to believe again, to dream again, to try again, this conversation might be just what your heart needs.Why This Episode MattersLife has a way of dimming the dreams we once held tightly. But God is the one who brings beauty from ashes. When we dare to dream again, even with shaky hands, we’re stepping into the story God still wants to tell through us. This episode matters because too many people are stuck in regret, self-doubt, or fear—and they need to be reminded that it’s not too late. That there is still more ahead. That dreaming again might just be the most faithful thing you can do right now.If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.
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Ep. 21: Handling Loneliness After a Death or Divorce
SummaryIn today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, we’re getting real about something many people struggle with but don’t always talk about—loneliness after a breakup or divorce. Tom opens up about his own experience with the silence that follows a relationship ending, how it hit harder than expected, and what helped him move through it. This episode isn’t just about the pain—it’s about healing, rebuilding your identity, and finding God in the quiet moments. Whether you're in that space right now or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers hope, encouragement, and practical ways to keep going.What You’ll LearnWhy loneliness can feel so heavy after a relationship endsHow to stop replaying the past and start moving forwardWays to build new connections and communityThe difference between being alone and being in solitudeHow to let God meet you in the quiet when life feels emptyWhy You Should ListenIf you’re feeling like your world just fell apart—or even if it happened a while ago and you're still struggling—this episode is for you. You’ll hear honest talk about what it’s like to start over, why it’s okay to grieve what could’ve been, and how faith can help you rebuild from the inside out. It’s a reminder that you’re not the only one feeling this way, and that healing is possible—one step at a time.Why This Episode MattersAfter a breakup or divorce, it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one going through it. But you’re not. This episode helps break that isolation by offering stories, scripture, and encouragement from someone who’s been there. If you’re in a season of starting over, this is a gentle nudge to keep going, trust God, and believe that something better is still ahead—even if you can’t see it yet.If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.
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Ep. 20: Embracing Uncertainty in Life
Embracing Uncertainty: Trusting God When the Future Is FoggySummaryIn this episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God, we dive into the uncomfortable but inevitable topic of uncertainty. Whether you're navigating a life transition, facing a difficult decision, or just wondering what your next step should be, this conversation will speak to the heart of the struggle. Tom and guest Paul Barard explore how uncertainty isn't just a pause—it can be a place of preparation. From biblical insights to personal stories, this episode encourages you to trade fear for faith, lean into discernment, and trust that God is guiding you even when you can't see the full path ahead.What You’ll LearnWhy uncertainty often reveals our core beliefs and identity strugglesHow taking a small step forward can lead to clarityWhat it looks like to practice active discernment and obedienceHow to balance wisdom and faith during indecisionThe power of surrendering control and trusting God one step at a timeWhy You Should ListenIf you’re facing a season where clarity seems out of reach and the pressure to make the “right” decision feels overwhelming, this episode offers practical encouragement and biblical perspective. You’ll be reminded that you’re not alone—and that God isn’t distant during the unknown. He’s right beside you, holding your hand as you step forward.Why This Episode MattersIn a world filled with options, decisions, and distractions, it’s easy to become paralyzed by indecision. This episode reminds us that uncertainty doesn’t have to be feared—it can be embraced as a sacred space where God does some of His best work. By sharing stories, scriptures, and faith-filled insight, this conversation invites listeners to trust God not just with the destination, but with every uncertain step along the way.If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.
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Ep. 19: How To Have Patience During Transition
Summary:In this episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 with God, we take an honest look at what it means to practice patience in seasons of transition. Whether you're stepping out of a major life crisis, navigating uncertainty, or waiting for God to open the next door, the in-between can feel confusing and discouraging.Joined by my friend Paul Berard, we talk about the emotional and spiritual toll that waiting can take, why delays aren't denials, and how God often does His most refining work in these quiet, unseen moments. This episode is about shifting your mindset from frustration to faith and finding strength in the slow.What You’ll Learn:How to recognize that waiting on God is not the same as doing nothingWhy God’s timing often doesn’t match our sense of urgencyThe connection between emotional frustration and spiritual immaturityHow past seasons of waiting can prepare you for present growthBiblical insights and stories that show how patience leads to purposeWhy You Should Listen:If you’re in a season where nothing seems to be happening fast enough—or at all—this episode will bring clarity and peace. Paul and I share personal stories and scripture-based insights that will help you see that your waiting has meaning. Whether you're waiting for healing, a breakthrough, or direction, this conversation will encourage you to keep trusting and keep moving forward.Why This Episode Matters:Patience is one of the most overlooked and undervalued acts of faith. Yet, it is often in our slowest, most uncertain seasons that God does His deepest work in us. When we learn to surrender our timelines and trust His, we begin to see the true beauty in the process.This episode reminds listeners that the wait is not a waste—and that God is always preparing something greater, even when we can't see it yet.If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.
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Ep. 18: Starting Over WITHOUT Alcohol
Summary:In this episode of Starting Over Life 2.0 with God, Tom sits down with Kari Schwear, founder of GrayTonic, to unpack the often-overlooked space between social drinking and alcoholism—what she calls “gray area drinking.”Kari shares her personal journey of breaking free from that gray zone, how her faith reignited in the process, and why it’s crucial to get honest with ourselves if we want true transformation. Together, they explore how to start over without alcohol, how to build a support system rooted in truth, and how God meets us in the middle of our mess with clarity, purpose, and healing.What You’ll Learn:What gray area drinking is and how it affects far more people than we realizeHow honesty and self-awareness are key to lasting transformationWhy addressing the deeper “gray areas” of life—marriage, faith, health, purpose—is criticalHow community, boundaries, and prayer help support a sober and faith-filled lifePractical tools like Kari's SABER method and the “Engines and Anchors” exerciseWhy You Should Listen:If you’ve struggled with drinking—or know someone who has—but don’t quite relate to the label “alcoholic,” this episode is for you. Kerry shares how God used her gray area drinking as a catalyst for purpose and calling. You’ll learn how to reframe the role of alcohol in your life, how to rebuild your identity, and how faith, honesty, and community can become your lifelines when starting over. It’s a powerful conversation full of grace, truth, and hope for real change. Episode Matters:Many people wrestle silently in the space between social drinking and dependence, unsure of where they stand or how to move forward. This episode brings light to that hidden struggle and equips listeners with faith-based insights and tools to break free.More than just giving something up, Kerry’s story is about discovering what you’re truly meant for—and letting God reshape your life from the inside out.Kari Schwear Contact Info:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karischwear/Website: https://www.graytonic.com/If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.
The Podcast for those that have had their world turned upside down.Life has a way of throwing us curveballs—divorce, job loss, unexpected heartbreak, or even just the nagging feeling that we’re stuck. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “What’s next for me?” or “How do I rebuild when everything feels like it’s fallen apart?”—this podcast is for you.Life 2.0 With God is a space where we tackle those tough, raw, and real questions head-on. Drawing from personal experiences, biblical truths, and practical wisdom, I’ll walk with you through the challenges of starting over and creating a fresh start filled with hope and purpose.This isn’t about having all the answers or sugarcoating the struggles—it’s about being honest with where we are and leaning on God to guide us forward. You’ll hear relatable stories, powerful lessons, and even conversations with people who’ve faced their own “starting over” moments and found the courage to rebuild.Whether you’re picking up the pieces of a broken relationship, navigating a career setback, or simply trying to figure out who you are in this next season of life, Life 2.0 With God is here to remind you that you’re not alone. Together, we’ll embrace the beauty of second chances and discover what it means to live a life full of hope, faith, and purpose.If this Podcast encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources, stories, and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.
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