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  • Transforming Your Recovery: Overcoming Perfectionism's Grip
    Dr. Vanessa Klugman shares her powerful 10-year recovery story, revealing how perfectionism and people-pleasing led to prescription drug addiction that cost her medical license. Discover the evidence-based tools she used to transform her inner critic into self-compassion and build a thriving life coaching practice.What You'll Learn• Why perfectionism can be a dangerous form of self-sabotage • The connection between achievement-based love and addiction • Three powerful tools to quiet your inner critic: CBT, meditation, and self-compassion • How to practice the life-changing "self-compassion break" technique • Why struggling is part of the human experience (and how to embrace it) • The difference between mindfulness meditation and other types • How to rebuild your identity after losing everythingKey Takeaways"Addiction is the solution, not the problem" - Vanessa explains how substances become coping mechanisms for deeper issues like perfectionism, poor boundaries, and people-pleasing.The self-compassion break has three parts:Mindfulness - Notice you're strugglingSelf-kindness - Offer yourself compassionCommon humanity - Remember you're not aloneGuest BioDr. Vanessa Klugman is a physician turned recovery coach who specializes in helping people overcome self-sabotaging habits, including perfectionism, procrastination, and addiction. After losing her medical license due to prescription drug addiction, she rebuilt her life using evidence-based practices and now coaches clients nationwide.Resources Mentioned• Tara Brach - Radical Acceptance podcast and books • Kristin Neff - Self-Compassion research and practices • RAIN meditation technique • 12-step recovery programs • Mindfulness-based self-compassion coursesConnect with Dr. Vanessa KlugmanWebsite: resiliencerecoverycoaching.com Instagram: @resiliencerecoverycoaching Facebook: Resilience Recovery CoachingSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, my remote Neurofeedback Therapy program is up and running. Learn more here! If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerable so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
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  • Spirit-Led Recovery: Finding Freedom Through Faith
    Episode Highlights: Paulette Kengg, 67, shares her powerful transformation from a "take it or leave it" drinker to alcohol addiction in her mid-50s, and her ultimate freedom through faith-based recovery. After battling chronic insomnia for 8.5 years and following and old friend's advice to drink wine as a sleep aid, Paulette found herself addicted to alcohol—keeping a wine bottle by her bedside instead of sleeping pills.Key Topics Discussed:How chronic insomnia led to alcohol dependencyWhy AA and traditional recovery programs didn't work for PaulaThe role of trauma in addiction (Paulette's father was murdered when she was 14)Combining neuroscience with biblical principles for lasting sobrietyThe Heart of Addiction Bible study by Mark ShawOvercoming shame around addiction in Christian communitiesEMDR therapy and trauma healingNeuroplasticity and brain recovery in sobrietyDaily spiritual practices for maintaining sobrietyPaula's Sobriety Tools:Daily Bible study, prayer, and meditationJournaling (she's kept journals since age 14)Exercise and proper nutritionSelf-compassion and reparenting workServing others in recovery communityNear-Death Experience: Paulette shares her harrowing story of nearly bleeding to death after mixing Jack Daniels with Ambien, emphasizing how addiction progressed despite life-threatening consequences.Resources Mentioned:Spirit-Led Sobriety book by Paulette KenggThis Naked Mind by Annie GraceAndrew Huberman Podcast Episode 86Heart of Addiction Bible studyEMDR therapyCognitive Behavioral TherapyConnect with Paulette:Newsletter: spiritledsobriety.comInstagram: @spiritledsobriety2Facebook: Spirit-Led Sobriety (private group)Email: spiritledsobriety@gmail.comEpisode Takeaways: Recovery isn't one-size-fits-all. Paulette's journey shows that combining scientific understanding of addiction with spiritual transformation can create lasting change. Her story demonstrates the importance of not giving up on yourself, even after years of failed attempts.Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, my remote Neurofeedback Therapy program is up and running. Learn more here! If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerable so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
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  • Emotional Regulation: The Missing Piece in Your Recovery Journey
    Feeling Drained Even in Sobriety? Here's Why (And What to Do About It)You got sober. You did the hard work. So why do you still feel completely emotionally exhausted?In this powerful episode of Confident Sober Women, host Shelby John dives deep into the silent struggle many sober women face—emotional dysregulation and nervous system burnout. If you're walking through life in a fog of overwhelm or feeling like you’re doing everything “right” but still running on empty, this one’s for you.Sobriety gets you out of the chaos, but it doesn’t automatically heal trauma or reset your nervous system. That’s the work of emotional sobriety—and it’s what this episode is all about.💡 Here’s what you’ll learn today:✅ Why emotional exhaustion in sobriety is not a sign of failure ✅ The difference between sobriety and emotional sobriety ✅ How to regulate your nervous system before trying to “solve” anything ✅ A 3-step roadmap to rebuild your emotional energy from the inside out ✅ Practical tools to ground your body and process emotions without judgmentShelby also shares the proven healing tools she uses in her practice like EMDR therapy, EMDR intensives, and remote neurofeedback—and how they can support deeper emotional healing, even years into sobriety.🛠️ Three Steps to Begin Rebuilding TodayRegulate First, Reflect Later – Calm your nervous system before diving into “why.” Use grounding tools like deep nasal breathing, 5-4-3-2-1, or a quick barefoot walk.Name the Emotion Without Judgment – Practice saying, “Right now, I’m noticing…” to acknowledge and release your feelings safely.Rebuild from the Root – Go deeper than symptoms. Address unresolved trauma and dysregulation with effective tools like EMDR or neurofeedback.If you're ready to stop white-knuckling your emotions and start truly healing, this episode offers compassionate insight and doable steps to start feeling better now.🎧 Don’t forget to hit subscribe and share this episode with a sober sister or any woman you know who’s navigating emotional overwhelm—even if she’s not in recovery.📍 Want deeper support? 👉 Learn about EMDR Intensives 👉 Explore Remote Neurofeedback Programs✨ Emotional exhaustion doesn't mean you're not strong. It means your body is asking for deeper care—and you absolutely deserve that.Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, my remote Neurofeedback Therapy program is up and running. Learn more here! If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerable so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
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  • Slender for Good: Sustainable Nutrition Over Dieting
    In this transformative episode of the Confident Sober Women podcast, Dr. Ginny Trierweiler unveils a deeply personal and scientifically-backed journey of health transformation that will challenge everything you thought you knew about dieting, nutrition, and wellness.Dr. Trierweiler shares her powerful personal story of hitting rock bottom at 55 - struggling with chronic pain, pre-diabetes, and feeling trapped in a body that was rapidly deteriorating. Her pivotal moment came while working in nursing homes, witnessing individuals in their 60s and 70s losing their independence.Breaking the Dieting CycleWhy traditional calorie-cutting approaches are actually making metabolic health WORSEHow 70% of food in our environment is processed and destructive to our healthThe critical difference between calories and nutrientsWhy intuitive eating can be dangerous for those struggling with health challengesEmotional and Physical TransformationDr. Trierweiler candidly discusses:Overcoming alcohol dependencyDealing with chronic pain through nutritionReconnecting with her body's true needsThe emotional journey of healing beyond just physical symptomsRevolutionary Nutrition PrinciplesDr. Trierweiler breaks down her evidence-based approach to nutrition, revealing:Abundant Nutritious Eating: Contrary to restrictive diets, she advocates eating MORE of the right foodsNutrient Density Over Calorie Counting: Understanding how what you eat matters more than how muchHolistic Healing: Addressing gut health, hormones, and cellular nutritionSustainable Lifestyle Changes: Creating a approach that feels liberating, not restrictiveMindset Shifts for Lasting ChangeBreaking free from food and alcohol addictionUnderstanding the dopamine vs. serotonin response to foodCreating positive emotions around healthy habitsTreating nutrition as self-care, not punishmentConnect:Book Waitlist: Slender for Good Book WaitlistWebsite: Slender for GoodFacebook: Ginny TrierweilerLinkedIn: Ginny TrierweilerInstagram: @drginnytrierweilerSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, my remote Neurofeedback Therapy program is up and running. Learn more here! If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerable so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
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  • Master Your Emotions: Unlock Calmness in Sobriety Today
    In this powerful episode of Confident Sober Women, host Shelby welcomes Julie Bloom, a recovery coach and mental health trainer who shares her inspiring 7-year sobriety journey that began with an unexpected "gift of illness."Episode Highlights:Julie reveals how severe burnout, PTSD, and vertigo became catalysts for her sobriety journey after 20 years as a college Spanish teacher. As a former "well-caffeinated and chardonnay working mom," Julie describes how her alcohol dependence developed while balancing career demands with raising a young daughter.The conversation explores how serious health challenges—including debilitating vertigo—forced Julie to stop drinking and began her recovery, initially through audiobooks and podcasts like The Bubble Hour while isolated "in the corner of her sectional."Key Insights on Recovery:Identity Transformation: Julie discusses how sobriety required creating a new identity after leaving her tenured teaching position, leading to certification as both a professional and recovery coach.Emotional Regulation: Learn practical techniques for managing emotions, including mindfulness, journaling, and "adaptive thinking"—giving the appropriate amount of time, space, and energy to situations.Creativity in Recovery: Discover how breaking free from addiction cycles unleashes creative potential, providing the "clarity, bandwidth, and energy" needed to envision and build a fulfilling life.Midlife Challenges: The episode addresses how perimenopause, career dissatisfaction, and relationship issues often intersect with recovery journeys, creating what Julie calls a "shitty planet alignment."Julie shares her journey of professional reinvention, becoming a mental health trainer and speaker who helps others develop resilience and adaptability. She emphasizes the importance of community and altruism in recovery, including her work with SheRecovers.Shelby and Julie discuss how ADHD symptoms can intensify during perimenopause due to decreasing estrogen levels, highlighting the need for neurological approaches to healing beyond traditional talk therapy.This episode provides valuable insights for women seeking sobriety and emotional well-being, particularly during significant life transitions. For more information, follow Julie at juliebloomworld on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn, or email julie@juliebloomworld.com.Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, my remote Neurofeedback Therapy program is up and running. Learn more here! If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerable so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
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Join Shelby John, sober since July 1, 2002, for empowering conversations on the Confident Sober Women podcast with women who've found joy and confidence in their alcohol and drug-free lives. This show is a rally cry for empathetic, resilient, and wisdom-seeking women dedicated to building a life you don't want to escape from after that crucial first year of a sober lifestyle.Discover how to:· Build unshakable confidence in your sober life· Break free from societal drinking norms· Overcome the shame cycle and emotional numbing· Resist the glamorized, over-hyped social influences around alcohol· Create a pure and joyful life beyond recoveryHear inspiring stories and practical advice on:· Healing trauma· Mindful parenting in recovery· Optimizing physical and mental health· Building a new, empowered identity· Transforming your life beyond substance abuse recoveryWe dive deep into questions like "Who am I now?" and "How do I pursue my heart's desires?", taking the intimidation out of sobriety and showcasing how to thrive in long-term recovery. This is truly a space for women supporting women in this modern recovery era.New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now for weekly inspiration on your journey to becoming one of the happiest sober women, free from the cool crowd's pressure to drink. Please leave a review if you love the show, it helps us on the mission to make the Confident Sober Women community a household name.
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