In this deeply personal session, Martin explores how to maintain "unshakable peace" when life puts us in the waiting room—whether for medical news, big appointments, or personal change. Drawing from his own recent experience with deteriorating vision and upcoming surgery, Martin shares the 333 Method to anchor yourself to the present and provide "surgical level focus" when thoughts begin to close in.
Time Chapters00:00 – Welcome: Finding focus in uncertain times
00:46 – Introduction: Martin, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Former Paramedic
01:15 – The 333 Method: Anchoring to the physical world
02:30 – Breathing into the "Knot": Deep belly relaxation
04:44 – Visualization: The Camera Lens – Sharpening your life's edges
05:47 – Affirmations for Healing and Clarity
07:41 – 3 Daily Caring Tips for a Happier Life
08:55 – Personal Update: Martin’s journey with vision and upcoming surgery
09:47 – Reframing the Curveballs: Adapting and Bouncing Back
The 333 Method (Grounding Technique)When anxiety feels overwhelming, use this discreet tool to return to the "what is":
See: Acknowledge 3 things you can see (textures, light, colors).
Hear: Acknowledge 3 things you can hear (ambient sounds, your breath).
Move: Gently move 3 parts of your body (toes, ankles, shoulders).
Affirmations for Inner PeaceRepeat these internally to allow them to drift into your subconscious heart space:
"I trust the process of my healing."
"My vision for my future is clear and bright."
"I am calm, I am capable, and I am in good hands."
3 Daily Caring TipsThe Pre-Appointment Ritual: Drink a full glass of water before big meetings; dehydration can mimic anxiety symptoms.
Externalize Your Stress: Write your worry on paper and leave it in a drawer. You don't need to carry it into the clinic with you.
The Micro Rest: Give your mind and eyes a 60-second break every hour. Just close them and breathe.
A Note from Martin & Call to ActionWe all face curveballs, and sometimes the world gets blurry—literally and figuratively. Whether you are waiting for news or navigating a health challenge, remember that we adapt, we improve, and we bounce back.
If you’re ready to take the next step in your recovery and want more structured support, please visit calminganxiety.fm to explore the Anxiety Breaker Course.
Be kind to yourself today. You are worth the effort.
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Ready for More Calm?Thank you for listening to the Calming Anxiety Podcast, featuring guided meditation, mindfulness, and sleep hypnosis sessions with Martin Hewlett. Our mission is to provide you with proven tools for anxiety relief, stress reduction, and a path toward deep relaxation. Use this episode anytime you need to calm your mind and feel more at ease.
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