BeThatHealingGirl Podcast

You know when your partner's energy feels just a LITTLE different and suddenly you're convinced your entire relationship is falling apart? 😭

They send a shorter text. They're quieter than usual. They don't seem quite as affectionate.

And your brain is like, “WELL. IT WAS NICE WHILE IT LASTED.” 🙃

Babe. WHAT ARE WE DOING?!

In this episode, we're talking about the lies your overthinking tells you when the vibe feels “off”, why anxious attachment can turn the tiniest shift in your partner's behavior into a five-alarm relationship emergency, and how to start questioning the stories your brain makes up when you're feeling triggered.

Because sometimes your partner is just having a day.

And sometimes there really IS something worth talking about.

The trick is learning not to automatically treat every uncomfortable feeling as proof that something terrible is happening.

If you've ever analyzed a text like it was evidence in a murder investigation, convinced yourself your partner was losing feelings because they seemed a little quiet, or spent an entire evening trying to figure out what you did wrong…

This one's for YOU. 😂💗

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In this episode, we're talking about that awful feeling that your anxious attachment is going to push someone away, and what happens when you're so afraid of being "too much" that you start making yourself smaller.

Because there's a difference between having needs, experiencing relationship anxiety, and letting your fear decide how you show up in love.

And babe, you don't have to become the world's chillest, lowest-maintenance girlfriend to have a secure relationship. 🫶🏽

Not sure if it's your anxiety or something actually wrong in your relationship?

I made you a 2-minute quiz to help you start figuring that out.

Take it here: https://secure-love-quiz.vercel.app 💗

You know that feeling when your partner takes a little longer to text back, seems slightly less affectionate, or doesn't send the usual goodnight emoji and suddenly your brain is screaming SOMETHING IS WRONG?! 😭

Babe. I've BEEN there.

In this episode, we're talking about what to do when your partner feels distant, why even perfectly normal space can feel like rejection when you have anxious attachment, and how our desperate attempts to feel closer can actually push connection further away.

I'm sharing what dating my husband Craig taught me about navigating distance, why trying to keep every text conversation going isn't necessarily creating intimacy, and the difference between being proactive in your relationship and straight-up micromanaging it. 🙃

Because here's the thing:

Zero distance isn't intimacy. And giving someone space isn't the same as playing hard to get.

You don't need to pretend you don't care, ignore their texts, or become the world's chillest girlfriend.

But you CAN learn to stop treating every little bit of distance like a five-alarm relationship emergency.

Sometimes your relationship doesn't need fixing. It just needs a little room to BREATHE. 🫶🏽

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Have you ever worried that you're just... TOO MUCH in your relationship? 😭

Too needy. Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too many questions. Too much reassurance.

Meanwhile, you're a fully functioning, independent, successful woman in literally every other area of your life.

MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.

In this episode, we're talking about that awful feeling that your anxious attachment is going to push someone away, and what happens when you're so afraid of being "too much" that you start making yourself smaller.

Because there's a difference between having needs, experiencing relationship anxiety, and letting your fear decide how you show up in love.

And babe, you don't have to become the world's chillest, lowest-maintenance girlfriend to have a secure relationship. 🫶🏽

Not sure if it's your anxiety or something actually wrong in your relationship?

I made you a 2-minute quiz to help you start figuring that out.

Take it here:

https://secure-love-quiz.vercel.app 

✨🧪💚 GET ACCESS TO THE SECURE LOVE LAB 🧪💚✨

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You rearrange your schedule. Keep your weekends open. Make sure there’s time to see them.

And somehow you’re STILL sitting there thinking… why don’t I feel like a priority?! 😭

In this episode, we’re talking about what can actually be happening when you feel unimportant or unchosen in your relationship, even when your partner is kind, considerate, and showing up for you.

Because sometimes the problem isn’t that they stopped prioritizing you.

It’s that somewhere along the way, you stopped prioritizing yourself.

I’m getting into why anxious attachment can make us completely merge with our relationships, the “cool chill girlfriend” trap, why knowing you self-abandon isn’t the same as knowing how to STOP doing it when the stakes feel high, and what my own relationship with Craig taught me about keeping your own damn life.

Because secure attachment isn’t caring less about your relationship.

It’s realizing you don’t have to abandon yourself to feel chosen by someone else. 🫶🏽

✨🧪💚 GET ACCESS TO THE SECURE LOVE LAB 🧪💚✨

SECURE LOVE LAB  

FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube

WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session