The Pocket with Chris Griffin

Jack Goldberg built Jack's Dining Room and Yes Chef Group from nothing. This conversation is a masterclass in why hospitality, not hustle, is what actually separates people who win long term. I sat down with him to unpack what real hospitality looks like, why culture is shifting away from drinking, and how he went from a tech consultant at PwC to leading a growing team and a massive online audience.

We also get into why action beats information every time, why chasing success without passion leaves you feeling like a shell of yourself, and why studying who someone became matters more than studying what they did to get there.

Key discussion points

Hospitality is in the small details, not just the product

Culture is shifting away from drinking toward health and connection

Action beats information, you learn by doing, not researching

Chasing something fake eventually burns out

Study who people became, not what they did

Supportive parents build internal confidence to take risks

Redefining success beyond the traditional college to job path

Build without chasing revenue, the money follows

There's never a finish line in entrepreneurship

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00:00 What hospitality actually means

01:22 Great staff vs great food, what makes people come back

03:04 The truth about New York's pace and reputation

03:55 How culture is shifting away from drinking

04:51 Sydney's active lifestyle vs New York's hustle culture

05:34 Yes Chef Group and the run club bringing people together

08:09 Drinking as an escape, not a form of fun

09:44 Rethinking why we actually drink in the first place

11:05 From a guy in college to building an empire

11:32 Meeting his co-founder and starting Jack's Dining Room

12:24 Why chasing something fake eventually burns out

13:09 From a tech consultant at PwC to a 15 person team

15:07 You never know what you're doing until you do it

15:45 Why there's no shortcut, just patience and reps

17:00 Just start, nothing is ever perfect

18:04 Tunnel vision and not caring what people think

19:08 Immediate suffering vs the long term suffering of a life you hate

19:27 Why it's an action problem, not an information problem

21:03 Fail enough and you're guaranteed to grow

21:38 Shorten the gap between thinking and doing

24:33 Shifting priorities as life gets more exciting

25:51 Why every single day matters

26:06 Tom Brady's advice: show up like it's the Super Bowl

27:10 Growth through iteration, from the first dinner to the fourth

28:40 Do something you love and do it every day

29:45 The one exception for chasing something you don't love yet

30:29 Finding passion by first figuring out what you hate

32:55 Helping clients grow their podcasts, and why it lights him up

36:07 Giving back and why that's the most rewarding part

36:54 Why he never posts negative reviews

38:25 The win-win mindset behind his content

40:01 "What did you do" vs "who did you become"

41:14 Study the man, not the money

42:21 His mom's entrepreneurial influence growing up

43:15 "Say yes and figure it out" as a core philosophy

45:47 Why he still went to college despite supportive parents

47:01 Getting the dream job, then realizing he hated it

49:23 Redefining what success actually looks like

50:03 The traditional path problem: a job that can't afford a home

52:07 Being conscious and clear on why you're doing something

54:00 Launching Yes Chef Studios, the next generation Food Network

55:12 Yes Chef Tailgates and bringing food festivals to colleges

56:18 Why there's never a moment you've "got it" as a founder

58:33 Chasing things only to realize they don't matter once you have them

1:00:04 "A goose chase to find out what's already here"

1:01:33 Reinvesting profits into experiences instead of extracting money

1:05:24 What's next: the food festival, the studio, and the tailgates
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Dr. Shefali has helped millions of parents rethink what it actually means to raise a child, and in this episode she breaks down why most parenting struggles trace straight back to the parent's own unhealed childhood. Se unpacks conscious parenting, the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity, why boys today are growing up with no real blueprint for manhood, and why every trigger you feel as a parent is really an invitation to look at yourself first.

We also get into raising sons versus daughters differently, why physical challenge matters for boys, and why a parent's own consciousness, not the child's behavior, is what actually shapes how a kid turns out.

Key discussion points

Heal your inner child first

Kids trigger your own wounds

Masculinity isn't the problem, toxicity is

Boys lack a real blueprint for manhood

Toxic femininity exists too, just hidden

Sons and daughters need different parenting

Triggers are invitations to look inward

Boys need older men to guide them

Your consciousness shapes your kid, not your methods

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00:00 What conscious parenting actually means

00:32 Why we blame the child instead of looking at ourselves

01:31 Real child vs inner child, explained

02:04 Why she wrote Raising Conscious Sons before Raising Conscious Daughters

03:38 What the "problems men create" actually look like

04:28 What masculinity looks like without the toxicity

06:17 Are "man up" and the alpha caricature really opposites?

08:47 How to define toxic masculinity

11:11 Are women seen as lesser in this framework?

12:21 Why lumping all men into "toxic masculine" backfires

14:02 The toxic femininity nobody talks about

20:29 Raising kids to combine, not divide

21:00 Honoring differences instead of competing with them

23:07 Do kids even know who they are yet?

25:08 You can't control the world, but you can control your home

26:33 Why two separate books for sons and daughters

27:55 How algorithms already treat boys and girls differently

29:13 The real goal behind conscious parenting

30:01 What sons specifically need from their parents

31:41 Why boys need older men to initiate them into manhood

34:20 Parenting the child in front of you, not the fantasy child

35:30 Why removing challenge and friction is dangerous for kids

37:06 Why physical challenge matters more for boys

41:09 Why censorship is a precursor to people losing themselves

43:22 Every trigger is an invitation to look at yourself

48:02 "Parenting is not for them, it's for you"

49:00 Her 60 second answer on how to help kids in today's world
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Grayson's back on the show for round two, and honestly this might be my favourite conversation we've had. He unpacks why right and wrong are just judgment, why every relationship in his past served him exactly as it needed to, and why you have to find home within yourself before you can build a real one with someone else.

We get into presence, the difference between fear and love, how Grayson is preparing himself to become a father, and why the most powerful thing a high achieving man can do is surrender rather than control.

Key discussion points

Right and wrong are judgment, not fact, every relationship served a purpose.

You need to feel whole within yourself before you can show up for a partner.

Everything is a mirror, one message lands differently depending on who's hearing it.

Only two real emotions exist, love and fear, everything else stems from them.

Judgment is a feeling inside you, not something being done to you.

Surrender beats control, especially for high achievers used to forcing outcomes.

Masculine and feminine energy live in everyone, alignment is the goal, not suppression.

Fatherhood is teaching him to regulate his nervous system in real time.

His shoe brand grew directly out of his own journey toward alignment.

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00:00 The wrong intentions with the wrong women

00:58 Why past relationships were never wrong, they served a purpose

02:21 Falling into societal conditioning around marriage

06:27 Intention over right and wrong

07:21 Self-awareness, cowardice, and the courage to move on

08:26 Why you have to be whole within yourself first

10:12 Feeling love and belonging from within, not from a partner

13:02 True love is not seeking, it is already whole

15:11 Everything in a relationship is optional

24:40 Is truth subjective or universal

25:16 Truth is being; thought and feeling arise from presence

28:37 How society clouds us from presence

29:12 Nature has no mistakes

53:04 Jesus, love, and "I am the way, the truth and the light"

56:05 The utility of believing in Jesus as the Son of God

1:00:07 Grayson's personal, non-religious relationship with Jesus

1:13:20 Interpreting scripture without getting lost in the words

1:18:01 Team dynamics, rugby, and the masculine feminine union

1:20:37 The Gandhi story: exploring other faiths to deepen his own

1:35:14 One message, a hundred interpretations: the mirror effect

1:37:11 Two human expressions: service to your highest good or victimhood

1:39:27 Regulating himself while his partner is six months pregnant

1:44:17 Creating space to actually feel your feelings

1:57:42 Surrender as the word that defines his biggest life shifts

2:00:48 Masculine and feminine energy inside every person

2:02:43 Why surrender is the greatest move for high achievers

2:39:23 Judgment lives inside you, not in the other person

2:41:02 Love is fierce too, not just soft

2:43:33 The origin story of his barefoot shoe brand


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Sarah Perl went from a scarcity mindset to millions of followers and a thriving business, she says the shift happened the moment she changed her identity, not her hustle. She unpacks detachment, manifestation, and why your subconscious mind cares more about keeping you safe than getting you what you want, while also opening up about reprogramming her childhood scarcity beliefs, the fear of losing control that comes with wanting a family, and what it really takes to trust another person with your heart.

Key discussion points

Embodying the version of you that already has what you want, not suppressing the desire for it

Chasing pushes people and outcomes away; magnetism comes from not needing something

The subconscious mind's only job is to keep you safe, not to help you get what you consciously want

Everything in life is a mirror: you change your reality by changing yourself, not by trying to change others

Burning the boats and removing your own exit unlocks a level of drive most people never access

Spite and pain, reframed correctly, can become one of the most powerful sources of spiritual motivation

Feminine energy is surrender and trust

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00:00 Detachment is the real secret to manifestation

00:41 Why chasing anything makes it run away

02:29 Surrendering control lets things fall into place

03:23 Everything in life is a mirror

04:12 The water analogy: same substance, different state

06:07 You see your subconscious in your outcomes, not your thoughts

07:20 The operating system running your life on autopilot

09:54 Belief, not talent, is what separates people who have what they want

10:21 The law of assumption

11:14 Orbits: how changing identity changes your reality

15:32 Burning the boats: removing your own exit

17:00 Manifestation as laser focus and intuition

18:12 The 1 percent survival instinct hiding in you

19:44 How childhood scarcity shapes identity

22:23 Spite as the greatest spiritual motivation

25:54 Building faith through evidence of what you have survived

26:50 Confidence built through doing hard things

27:40 Confidence versus faith versus ego

29:41 Manifestation as feminine energy, control as false safety

32:16 Turning point: adopting a new identity to escape scarcity

33:28 The alter ego experiment that changed everything

34:48 Letting go of how and trusting divine timing

39:28 Why proximity to people who have done it makes it feel possible

50:39 Denying yourself because you never believed it was possible

52:00 What billionaires and old people both teach about desire

55:04 The game of life: wanting to experience everything

56:33 Challenges of being a woman in business

59:21 Working through subconscious resentment toward men

1:01:09 Love and business both require faith and surrender

1:04:07 Love as action, not just a feeling

1:07:31 The leg of the table versus the plate on the table

1:12:16 Reframing feminine energy and pregnancy as power, not sacrifice

1:17:01 A story about meeting the woman he wants to marry

1:21:35 What a man wants: a helper, not a competitor

1:26:04 Fear of abandonment and the risk of wanting a family
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