The Pocket with Chris Griffin

Sarah Perl went from a scarcity mindset to millions of followers and a thriving business, she says the shift happened the moment she changed her identity, not her hustle. She unpacks detachment, manifestation, and why your subconscious mind cares more about keeping you safe than getting you what you want, while also opening up about reprogramming her childhood scarcity beliefs, the fear of losing control that comes with wanting a family, and what it really takes to trust another person with your heart.

Key discussion points

Embodying the version of you that already has what you want, not suppressing the desire for it

Chasing pushes people and outcomes away; magnetism comes from not needing something

The subconscious mind's only job is to keep you safe, not to help you get what you consciously want

Everything in life is a mirror: you change your reality by changing yourself, not by trying to change others

Burning the boats and removing your own exit unlocks a level of drive most people never access

Spite and pain, reframed correctly, can become one of the most powerful sources of spiritual motivation

Feminine energy is surrender and trust

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00:00 Detachment is the real secret to manifestation

00:41 Why chasing anything makes it run away

02:29 Surrendering control lets things fall into place

03:23 Everything in life is a mirror

04:12 The water analogy: same substance, different state

06:07 You see your subconscious in your outcomes, not your thoughts

07:20 The operating system running your life on autopilot

09:54 Belief, not talent, is what separates people who have what they want

10:21 The law of assumption

11:14 Orbits: how changing identity changes your reality

15:32 Burning the boats: removing your own exit

17:00 Manifestation as laser focus and intuition

18:12 The 1 percent survival instinct hiding in you

19:44 How childhood scarcity shapes identity

22:23 Spite as the greatest spiritual motivation

25:54 Building faith through evidence of what you have survived

26:50 Confidence built through doing hard things

27:40 Confidence versus faith versus ego

29:41 Manifestation as feminine energy, control as false safety

32:16 Turning point: adopting a new identity to escape scarcity

33:28 The alter ego experiment that changed everything

34:48 Letting go of how and trusting divine timing

39:28 Why proximity to people who have done it makes it feel possible

50:39 Denying yourself because you never believed it was possible

52:00 What billionaires and old people both teach about desire

55:04 The game of life: wanting to experience everything

56:33 Challenges of being a woman in business

59:21 Working through subconscious resentment toward men

1:01:09 Love and business both require faith and surrender

1:04:07 Love as action, not just a feeling

1:07:31 The leg of the table versus the plate on the table

1:12:16 Reframing feminine energy and pregnancy as power, not sacrifice

1:17:01 A story about meeting the woman he wants to marry

1:21:35 What a man wants: a helper, not a competitor

1:26:04 Fear of abandonment and the risk of wanting a family
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Most people think the fix for stress is another biohack: an ice bath, a supplement, a $150K hyperbaric chamber. Jules Horn says the real fix has been sitting in your chest the whole time.

Former model, now breathwork and nervous system coach, Jules Horn unpacks why most people are stuck in fight or flight without even knowing it, why "what's possible isn't always optimal," and why chasing more, money, validation, relationships, never actually fills the void.

Key discussion points

Chronic stress and nervous system disregulation as the hidden default state of modern life

The "stress cup": auditing what adds vs. removes stress from your day

What's possible isn't the same as what's optimal

Chasing achievement, money, or love never fills an internal void

How trauma stays stored in the body until it's processed

The "perfect breath" and why breath cadence is the lowest hanging fruit for regulation

Why biohacks like ice baths and fasting can backfire without a regulated nervous system first

Jules' burnout story: modelling career collapse, chronic back pain, and a family health history tied to suppressed emotion

Belief and self-imposed limits

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Timestamps

00:00 The hidden cost of chronic stress
00:47 Why medication treats symptoms, not root causes
02:54 The stress cup: what adds vs. takes away
03:29 What's possible isn't always optimal
05:22 High achievers using busyness to avoid facing stress
06:43 Jules' male modeling career and burnout
07:44 The "Happiness" rat race video
08:47 Ego, intellect, and finding the middle path
11:07 The two voices: ego vs. God (intuition)
13:11 Unpacking ego vs. God further
16:08 Why self-love is the bottomless pit nothing else can fill
19:58 Look the monster in the face to release trauma
22:23 Where trauma lives in the body (root chakra breathwork)
27:23 Breath cadence and longevity (turtles vs. humans)
28:33 The perfect breath: 4s in, 6s out
32:11 The book on belly breathing exercise (20 day reset)
35:11 Why ice baths aren't bad, but not first
47:29 Growing up poor in Germany and breaking money scarcity
52:01 Chronic back pain and his family's health history
55:20 Self-love as the root of every optimization habit
58:23 Fixing relationships by healing the inner child first
1:00:48 Why we outsource the free stuff
1:04:07 The 80/20 rule: parasympathetic vs. sympathetic living
1:06:25 Root cause vs. Band-Aid (TRT, laxatives, biohacks)
1:20:53 Belief and breaking self-imposed limits
1:22:34 Collective consciousness and the ant in a circle story
1:24:38 Faith, energy, and spontaneous healing stories
1:28:00 Wrestling with faith: structured religion vs. spirituality
1:36:27 Everyone's gift is service, closing thoughts
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GOOOOOOD MORNINGGGGG. Jack Nauseef joins me on the show and we dove deep.

Absolutely loved this chat. A deep dive on transformation, God, surrender, kindness and how you can’t be grateful and have a bad day at the same time.

Key Discussion Points:

Why doing hard things makes you happier

Having the guts to try

Discipline is how you rebuild yourself

The difference between confidence and ego

Finding something bigger than success (God)

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Chapters:

00:00 The importance of having guts

05:16 Faith, morality and thinking less about yourself

08:51 Why Christianity is starting to make sense

10:27 Ego, success and staying humble

13:05 “I met my wife” — the relationship that changed everything

15:03 How podcasting changed my life

16:04 Gratitude is a way of life

17:25 Bullied, underestimated and finding basketball

19:47 From basketball manager to walk-on

23:11 The underdog mentality and the danger of ego

25:24 Why empathy matters more than taking things personally

31:22 Jesus, ego and learning to walk through the heart

34:43 Losing faith, temptation and searching for answers

37:24 The moment we met: “We have to lock in”

40:13 Rock bottom and feeling God’s disappointment

43:05 Work without knowing where you're going

45:17 There is no finish line in life

52:00 Why heartbreak can completely change a man

01:15:37 The values Jack learned from his father

01:36:10 Love, finding the right woman & why Jesus started making sense
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Every rule was broken in this episode and I couldn't be happier. Today's episode is with Fraser Grut, my good friend and what better way to do it in his style.

Fraser is on a mission to film 10,000 dreams (a 50 year mission) and he does it in such a cool, raw, authentic style. I let him steer the ship creatively with this one and I love how it turned out.

We deep dive on God, having a mission, the importance of dreams and everything in between.

Fraser is a ball of life and has the most contagious energy. I hope you can feel it through the screen. Enjoy
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Drew Lynch went viral initially for his Americas Got Talent success. He started becoming known as the comedian that stuttered, which lead him down a massive journey of self discovery deep diving into faith, god, the human brain and body, to get to the bottom of how to "return back to normal"

We had a deep chat filled with laughs and cries. Enjoy.

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