S18E12 - Weddings, tipsy truths & America’s audacity — from G20 drama to SA realities
From the cost (and joy) of weddings to the fine line between “nice and light” and drunk, the crew gets candid. Then it’s a hard pivot into geopolitics and culture: the G20 no-show saga, America’s brash confidence, guns, the military, capitalism vs. our social leanings, Sun City vs. Vegas, crime, tenderpreneurship, and why SA athletes’ money doesn’t stretch like the NBA’s. Chapters00:00 – Cold open: Dojo vibes, lunch banter01:10 – Wedding season: fun, costs, travel, outfits03:20 – Why some love weddings (and some don’t)05:55 – Drinking talk: chasing tipsy vs. getting drunk09:45 – Day drinking strategies that (sometimes) work11:18 – Vodka, tequila, Jäger: what still “agrees” with us14:56 – Dry January, regret hangovers, resetting in the new year16:50 – All-white day parties, mature crowd, summer groove17:57 – Second location rule: why nothing good happens there20:58 – Current affairs pivot: G20 in SA, U.S. boycott claims22:40 – Diplomatic jabs, visas, and protocol spats24:30 – Has the U.S. lost its shine? Social media reality check27:20 – Public schools, ignorance online, and the “American dream”30:10 – Blue-collar comfort vs. SA grind; food stamps chat33:35 – Homelessness contrasts: U.S. winter vs. SA street reality35:24 – Audacity as a national culture (Reagan, Trump, celebs to leaders)41:50 – Guns, bravado, and the Marines mindset46:10 – Why SA can’t (and shouldn’t) mirror U.S. extremes49:30 – Vegas built by the mob; Sun City’s inspiration52:55 – Illicit routes to wealth then vs. tendering now56:40 – SA football salaries vs. U.S. guaranteed mega-contracts1:02:20 – Capitalism, ceilings, and why America defends it1:06:45 – Arts & culture as export; what SA should double down onHighlightsReal talk on enjoying the event but hating the admin and spend.The science of stopping at “pleasantly tipsy” (and why it fails).A blunt look at G20 optics and U.S.–SA tensions.Audacity, scale, and safety nets: why the U.S. plays a different game.SA realities: social leanings, tender culture, and athlete finances.
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