PSR Podcast

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore the deepest desires of the human heart — to be fully known, loved, forgiven, enjoyed, and celebrated. We discuss how these beautiful, God-given desires can become problematic when we turn them into demands on other people. 

While humans can love and forgive abundantly, only God can do so fully. We also reflect on how concepts like the Five Love Languages can unintentionally create unrealistic expectations in relationships. Ultimately, we're reminded that true fulfillment comes from delighting in God, who meets our heart's desires perfectly.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:
Exploration of deep human desires: being fully known, loved, forgiven, enjoyed, and celebrated.
Distinction between desires and needs, emphasizing the potential for disappointment when desires are treated as needs.
Discussion on the limitations of human relationships in fulfilling these deep desires.
The spiritual versus earthly realms and how they relate to human experiences of love and forgiveness.
Consequences of placing unrealistic expectations on others based on concepts like the Five Love Languages.
The idea that only God can fully meet these desires, while humans can only offer love and forgiveness abundantly.
The importance of accepting human limitations in relationships to avoid disappointment and anger.
Encouragement to seek fulfillment of desires through God rather than through others.
Recognition of the growth potential in human relationships as individuals learn to love more abundantly.
The role of earthly relationships in reflecting God's love and grace, while acknowledging their inherent limitations.

More Resources:
Resources for Men
Resources for Wives
Resources for Family
Related Podcasts:
Why Jesus?
I Want to Be Known
Knowing Your True Identity Beyond Sexual Brokenness

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In this episode of Family Time, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss the fourth of our six “Critical Conversations” for parents: Dealing with Temptation. We explore how to help kids recognize and respond to temptation without shame, emphasizing grace, honesty, and open communication. 
Norma shares practical tips for building trust, normalizing temptation as a human experience, and equipping children with lifelong skills for integrity. We also talk about common barriers parents face and offer resources to support families on this journey. It’s all about progress, not perfection!
For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Importance of discussing sex and sexuality with children in a sexualized culture.
Overview of the "Critical Conversations" series for parents.
Focus on "Dealing with Temptation" as a key conversation topic.
Understanding temptation as a universal human experience.
Strategies for parents to help children recognize and resist temptation.
The significance of approaching conversations with grace rather than shame.
Common barriers parents face in discussing temptation with their children.
The role of parental honesty and sharing personal experiences in building trust.
Practical exercises for parents to engage children in conversations about temptation.
Resources available for parents to further support these discussions.

Resources for Next Steps:
Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
Father-Son Accountability* by John Fort
Girl Talk by Ashley Jameson

For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.
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In this episode, I sit down with Linda McDonald, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to discuss her personal journey through betrayal, divorce, and healing on her own after her husband’s affair. Linda shares how her experience inspired her new book, “Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce,” and introduces the term “betrandoned” to describe the unique, compounded grief of betrayal and abandonment. 
We explore the stigma, shame, and lack of closure in post-affair divorce, and Linda offers honest, faith-filled advice for finding hope, support, and true forgiveness after deep relational trauma.
To learn more about Linda and get her book, visit LindaJMacDonald.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Personal experiences of betrayal and divorce
The concept of "betrandoned" (betrayal + abandon) and its implications
Compounded grief associated with infidelity and divorce
Differences in societal perceptions of widows versus divorcees
The stigma and shame surrounding divorce due to infidelity
The lack of rituals and support for those experiencing divorce from infidelity
The process of recovery and the importance of brutal honesty
The role of forgiveness in healing from betrayal
The significance of finding supportive communities and resources
The potential for redemption and hope after trauma and loss

More Resources:
Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce* by Linda MacDonald
Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce Workbook*
"Betrandoned" YouTube Playlist
Related Podcasts:
Betrayed and Abandoned on Affair Healing Podcast
Dealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and Hope
Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?

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In this episode, I welcome back Kristin Cary to explore the mind-body connection, especially how our bodies respond to trauma and betrayal. Kristin shares insights from her ministry, Living Truth, explaining how God designed our nervous systems to protect us through natural responses like fight, flight, or freeze. 
We discuss the importance of compassion over shame, practical grounding techniques (like the butterfly hug; even walking or jogging), and the vital role of community in healing. Kristin encourages us to honor our bodies as God’s creation and to approach trauma recovery with patience, curiosity, and faith.
To learn more about Kristin and her ministry, visit Living-Truth.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
The mind-body connection and its relevance to trauma.
Physiological responses to trauma, including the activation of the vagus nerve and the release of stress hormones.
The fight, flight, or freeze responses as natural protective mechanisms.
The impact of betrayal trauma on individuals, particularly betrayed spouses.
The importance of reframing bodily trauma responses as positive warning systems rather than signs of weakness.
The experience of shame among Christians regarding trauma responses and faith.
The significance of understanding the body's signals and their role in emotional and spiritual health.
Grounding techniques and self-soothing methods to regulate the nervous system.
The role of community and relational support in healing from trauma.
The necessity of practicing regulation strategies in calm states to prepare for stressful situations.

More Resources:
Women in the Battle
Wives Care Online Groups
Going Deeper for Betrayed Partners* by Eddie & Teri Capparucci
Related Podcasts:
The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma Healing
Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives
Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma

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In this episode, I sit down with my friend and decades-long colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to explore our shared struggles with seeking approval and what it means to be an “approval junkie.” Together, we reflect on why we crave affirmation—from childhood to adulthood—and how this shapes our sense of belonging and self-worth. 
We discuss the dangers of letting approval define us, the role of leaders in fostering healthy communities, and ultimately, how true acceptance comes from God’s unconditional love. Join us as we unpack these honest, relatable experiences and encourage one another toward deeper healing and authentic connection.
For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. 
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Exploration of the human need for approval and the concept of being an "approval junkie."
Discussion on the origins of approval-seeking behavior rooted in early childhood development.
Examination of the impact of seeking approval on self-worth and identity.
Analysis of the different sources of approval, including peers, leaders, and spiritual figures.
Consideration of the unhealthy aspects of excessive approval-seeking and its potential to become an addiction.
Reflection on the role of leaders in affirming others and fostering healthy community dynamics.
Insights into the emotional struggles associated with conditional approval and feelings of inadequacy.
Discussion of "image building" and the conflict between external validation and internal acceptance.
Emphasis on the importance of belonging and the safety it provides in community settings.
Encouragement for listeners to seek true healing and identity through divine approval rather than human affirmation.

More Resources:
Going Deeper by Dr. Eddie Capparucci
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
Related Podcasts:
Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex Addiction
The Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn
Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity

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