PSR Podcast

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!
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In this episode, we welcome back Andrew Arthur, founding partner of Genesis Christian Mediation, to explore the powerful topic of forgiveness. Andrew shares his "four spaces of forgiveness" framework, breaking down the key differences between forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation. 
Drawing from his personal journey through divorce and professional experience, he challenges the transactional forgiveness model many of us grew up with. We discuss how true forgiveness begins internally with God, independent of the other person's response, and how reconciliation requires consistent change from both parties. This is a rich, hope-filled conversation for anyone navigating broken relationships! 
To learn more about Andrew and his resources, visit GenesisChristianMediation.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
The concept of forgiveness in the context of broken or struggling relationships.
The "four spaces of forgiveness" framework developed by Andrew Arthur.
Distinctions between forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation.
The limitations of a transactional model of forgiveness.
The importance of inner work with God before seeking reconciliation with others.
The process of understanding and addressing personal pain in forgiveness.
The role of trust in rebuilding relationships after hurt or trauma.
The significance of consistent actions in the rebuilding of trust.
The challenges and requirements for true reconciliation between individuals.
Resources for further learning about forgiveness and mediation in relationships.

More Resources:
Mediation Services to resolve conflict
Thinking About Separating? 6 Things to Consider
A Lover Repents (A Husband Confesses His Sin)
Related Podcasts:
Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from Betrayal
Best Practices for a Successful Therapeutic Separation
The 7 Steps of Forgiveness

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In this episode, I sit down with Michael Leahy, founder of Bravehearts ministry, to explore how AI is reshaping the landscape of sexual addiction. Michael shares his powerful personal journey from a 30-year pornography addiction to recovery and ministry. 
Together, we trace technology's evolution from print magazines to the internet and now AI, examining how each stage has intensified accessibility and addiction. Michael explains how AI acts as a "designer drug," creating personalized content instantly while blurring reality and fantasy. 
Despite these alarming developments, Michael offers genuine hope, emphasizing that Christ-centered recovery, authentic human connection, and real relationships remain our greatest tools.
To learn more about Michael and the resources he offers, visit BraveHearts.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Impact of AI technology on sexual brokenness and pornography addiction.
Historical progression of technology's influence on sexual addiction.
Personal story of recovery from sexual addiction.
The role of the internet in escalating sexual addiction.
Evolution of pornography access from print to AI-generated content.
Dangers of AI in creating personalized and easily accessible sexual content.
Ethical and legal implications of AI-generated material, including deepfakes.
Challenges in distinguishing reality from fantasy due to AI advancements.
Importance of human connection and "friction" in recovery.
Strategies for addressing the challenges posed by AI in the context of sexual addiction recovery.

More Resources:
AI Survival Kit from BraveHearts
Find a Counselor
10 Lessons for Overcoming Addiction
Related Podcasts:
Helping Families Build Healthy Relationships with Technology
Understanding Human Agency
How the Victory App Can Transform Your Recovery from Porn

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In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dig into why we react so quickly with anger during conflict. We explore how fear often hides beneath our anger — fear of being seen as weak, invisible, or unworthy. Stephen shares practical tools for building self-awareness, like pausing to ask yourself, "What am I really afraid of?" or explore the reasons that certain emotions arise when particular triggers are present.
We also talk about finding peace in God's unconditional love, so we don't need others' approval to feel worthy. This is a truly eye-opening conversation about emotional growth and healthier relationships! 
To get more thoughts and insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Emotional growth in relationships
Handling conflict and anger
The role of fear in emotional responses
Self-awareness and its importance in managing emotions
Understanding personal triggers and emotional patterns
The impact of past experiences on current reactions
The significance of patience and dialogue in emotional transformation
The relationship between anger and care for others
The value of seeking support from counselors or spiritual guides
Encouragement to explore feelings and foster curiosity about emotional responses

More Resources:
Do You Fight (And Argue)? (blog post from DoctorMarriage.org)
Untangling Emotions* by Groves and Smith
Dealing with Conflict Podcast Bundle
Related Podcasts:
How to Turn Emotional Triggers Into Opportunities for Growth
The Harms of Negative Talking
Assumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony

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In this episode, I continue our three-part series "A Parent's Response Matters" with Family Care Director Norma, exploring three powerful letters from the RESPOND acronym. 
We dive into Sincerity over Silence, encouraging parents to stay honest and engaged even without all the answers. Then we explore Patience over Punitive, reminding us that calm correction builds stronger connections. Finally, Opportunity over Obstacle challenges parents to reframe difficult moments as God-given chances to teach and grow. 
Norma's practical wisdom makes these principles feel totally achievable, and her challenge to try just one shift this week is something every parent can do!
*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Navigating the sexualized culture from a Christian perspective
The acronym RESPOND as a framework for parental engagement
Sincerity over Silence in communication with children
The importance of being honest and open about not having all the answers
Patience over Punitive responses when addressing children's mistakes
The role of calmness and empathy in correction
Opportunity over Obstacle for teaching and relationship-building
The significance of reframing interruptions as moments for growth
Practical tools for parents to engage sincerely and patiently
The broader application of these principles in all relationships, not just parenting

Resources for Next Steps:
Critical Conversations Online Course
Processing Exposure with Teens Online Course
Just Between Us Parent-Child Journal*

RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERS
R - Respond over React
E - Engage over Evade
S - Sincerity over Silence
P - Patience over Punitive
O - Opportunity over Obstacle
N - Nearness over Neglect
D - Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth
This episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-D
Download a FREE 1-page PDF with the RESPOND infographic

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In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I sit down to have an honest conversation about something we all face: temptation. We tackle the myth that some people are beyond it and share practical, emotional, and spiritual tools to help resist it. From asking sobering reality-check questions to speaking powerful affirmations out loud, we explore how small daily choices shape our lives. 
We also dive into integrity, discipline, grace, and the pursuit of genuine peace over secret shame — walking alongside our listeners on this ongoing journey toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.
To get more daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Universal experience of temptation and its impact on individuals.
Strategies for resisting temptation, including practical, emotional, and spiritual approaches.
Importance of integrity and making choices aligned with personal values and faith.
Reflective questions to consider during moments of temptation.
Consequences of secret sins on relationships and personal integrity.
The fleeting nature of pleasure from temptation versus long-term pain.
The role of discipline in achieving freedom and a fulfilling life.
The significance of envisioning future impacts of present choices.
The concept of grace and ongoing personal growth in the face of temptation.
The pursuit of peace, rest, and joy over a life marked by shame and secrecy.

More Resources:
Everyone Gets Tempted (blog post on DoctorMarriage.org)
Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
How to Resist Temptation: 7 Practical Ideas
Related Podcasts:
Dealing with Temptation Podcast Bundle
Breaking Free with Russell Willingham
Pure in Heart - So Much More than Just Saying No

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