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• Helping Parents Respond in Truth and Love to their LGBTQ Child

  In today’s episode, our guest is author and speaker Melinda Patrick. She transparently shares about her journey as a mother navigating her daughter's revelation of same-sex attraction. Melinda opens up about her initial reaction, driven by a desire to "fix" her daughter, and how this response strained their relationship. She shares the struggles, shame, and guilt she faced, and the redemptive work God has done in their lives over time, even though they are very much in the “messy middle” of the journey. Melinda emphasizes the importance of love, listening, and understanding, offering valuable insights for parents in similar situations. Her story is a testament to the power of compassion and faith in overcoming challenges.To learn more about Melinda and her resources, visit MelindaPatrick.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Melinda Patrick's journey as a mother dealing with her daughter's same-sex attraction revelation.Initial reactions of parents when faced with their child's LGBTQ identity.The impact of a "fix it" mentality on parent-child relationships.Feelings of shame, guilt, and isolation experienced by parents.The importance of love, listening, and understanding in difficult family situations.The role of faith and spiritual growth in navigating personal struggles.The significance of authentic faith and modeling forgiveness in relationships.Common pitfalls for parents, such as the urge to control or manipulate situations.The power of prayer and seeking God's guidance in parenting.Resources for parents, including Melinda's book and podcast focused on supporting LGBTQ children.More Resources:The Daring Rescue* bookThe Bridge Between Us podcast with Melinda PatrickHisWonderfulWorks.comRelated Podcasts:Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?How to Support Without EndorsingLoving Your LGBTQ-Identified Child with Grace and Truth*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

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• The Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn

  In today’s episode, our guest is Noah Filipiak, a pastor, author, and podcaster who is passionate about applying the reality of the gospel to the real struggles and challenges of life, especially struggles with porn and sexual brokenness. Noah opens up about his personal struggles with pornography addiction, which began in his teenage years despite growing up in a Christian home. He shares how vulnerability, community, and a deeper relationship with Christ were key to his recovery. We discuss the importance of addressing these issues of sexual brokenness openly within the church and fostering supportive communities. A big part of the conversation is helping men understand what the true bullseye is for recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors. Noah emphasizes that true healing comes from understanding one's identity in Christ, not just behavior modification. The good news is that there is hope for truly overcoming any unwanted sexual behaviors through the power of God’s grace and vulnerable community.To learn more about Noah and his resources, visit BeyondtheBattle.net.Topics Covered in this Episode:Men's sexual integrity journeysPersonal experiences with pornography addictionChallenges faced growing up in a Christian environmentThe role of vulnerability and community in recoveryThe impact of marriage on sexual desires and relationshipsUnderstanding identity in Christ as a foundation for healingThe importance of addressing sexual integrity within the churchOvercoming shame and fear of vulnerability in discussionsThe significance of community support in the recovery processPractical steps for engaging in deeper transformation and discipleshipMore Resources:Beyond the Battle Online GroupsNeeded Navigation Teen GuideGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Porn Addiction Recovery for Men Podcast BundleRecovery Discovery 002: IdentityHow Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

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• Working Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage

  In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the ongoing struggles of emotional disconnection in marriage, sparked by one man’s agonizing question: How does a man live a good life while feeling alone and disconnect in his marriage? We explore the pain of feeling isolated from a spouse and the importance of personal growth, faith, and community support. Stephen shares wisdom on enduring suffering, finding joy beyond one’s spouse, and the necessity of a supportive network. We emphasize that personal transformation often happens through discomfort and that God's presence provides comfort and guidance. This episode is a hopeful reminder that growth and resilience can lead to deeper connections and fulfillment, even in challenging times.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional disconnection in marriagePersonal growth through discomfort and sufferingThe role of faith in navigating relationship challengesImportance of community support and accountabilityStrategies for coping with loneliness and isolationTransforming perspectives on love and relationshipsFinding contentment and peace in solitudeEngaging in practices that foster connection with GodThe significance of ongoing dialogue with GodEncouragement to take actionable steps toward personal transformationMore Resources:God is Growing YouIs Grace Really Enough?Dealing with Conflict - Marriage Podcast BundleRelated Podcasts:What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?Living More than a Love StoryGrieving to Grow a Great Marriage----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

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• How Can Mothers Heal and Thrive After Betrayal Trauma?

  In this episode, our guest is Casey Allison, an expert in supporting mothers through betrayal trauma. Casey, a mother of nine, shares her personal journey of navigating betrayal in her marriage and its impact on her family. She emphasizes the importance of healing for both mothers and their children, and the need for safety, support, and faith during these challenging times. Casey’s candid reflections on anger, authenticity, and revisiting her faith offer valuable insights and encouragement. She invites listeners to engage in support, reminding us that healing is possible through Christ and connection.To learn more about Casey and her coaching resources, visit ComeAwakeCoach.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Mothering through betrayal traumaPersonal experiences of a mother of nine dealing with betrayalImpact of betrayal on family dynamicsImportance of healing for mothers and childrenEmotional complexities of motherhood in the context of betrayalNeed for safety and healthy boundariesCommunication strategies with children during difficult timesNavigating anger and authenticity in motherhoodRevisiting faith and theological beliefs during strugglesOffering hope and support for mothers facing betrayal traumaMore Resources:Wives Care Online Groups40 Days of Healing for Wives Online CourseCome Awake Support GroupsRelated Podcasts:Betrayal Trauma Healing Podcast BundleIdentifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed WifeEmotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

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• Reflecting on 1000 Episodes: The Power of Grace, Community, and Personal Transformation

  In this special 1000th episode, we take a heartfelt trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey since the podcast got started way back in 2005. We share personal stories, discuss the evolution of the show, and emphasize the importance of grace and kindness in this challenging work. We celebrate you, the community we’ve built together, and encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and the transformative power of God's grace. This episode is both a celebration of a huge milestone and an invitation for you to share your stories and engage deeply with the mission of transformation.Please share your podcast stories with me directly at [email protected]. To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Celebration of the 1000th episode milestone of the podcast.Reflection on the podcast's history and evolution since its inception in 2005.Importance of grace and kindness in personal and professional lives.Encouragement for listeners to share their own stories and experiences.Discussion on the transformative power of God's grace.Emphasis on community building and support among listeners.Exploration of personal messages and purpose in life.The significance of peace, rest, and joy in emotional and spiritual well-being.Recognition of the role of pain in discovering purpose and growth.Commitment to providing practical information and inspiring action for listeners.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day IntensiveGrace-Based Recovery 8-Week Online Study GroupsFREE Men's Integrity WebinarRelated Podcasts:How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?Back to the Basics of Sexual IntegrityThree Purposes in Life----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

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