PSR Podcast

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In this episode of Pure Sex Radio, I sit down with Jim Burns, founder of HomeWord and author of A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity. Jim shares why open, ongoing conversations with our kids about sexuality are far more effective than one big "talk." 
We explore how parents can present sexuality as God's good design, set healthy boundaries, and address tough topics like pornography, gender identity, and shame — all without being preachy. Jim also emphasizes the power of authenticity, encouraging parents to be real with their kids to build trust and keep the dialogue going.
To learn more about Jim and get this latest book, visit HomeWord.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Importance of discussing sexuality with children and teenagers
Challenges of addressing sexuality in contemporary culture
The shift from a single "talk" to ongoing conversations about sexuality
Role of parents in providing a positive narrative about sexuality
Addressing boundaries, pornography, and gender identity in discussions
The impact of social media on youth sexuality and education
Strategies for discussing healthy sexuality and pornography with kids
The significance of authenticity and sharing personal experiences
Understanding and addressing shame in conversations about sexuality
Encouraging a foundation of sexual integrity based on biblical principles

More Resources:
A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity* by Jim Burns
DIGITAL COURSE: A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity
FREE Online Course: Critical Conversations
Related Podcasts:
Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design
Critical Conversations Podcast Bundle (6 episodes)
Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex

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In this episode, I sit down with Matt Wenger to explore his powerful concept, the "Wheel of Destruction." Matt breaks down the five interconnected factors that fuel sex and porn addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes. He explains how these elements feed into each other, creating a destructive cycle that impacts every area of life. 
Matt also shares practical pathways to healing through therapy, community, and sobriety. Most importantly, he reminds us that recovery is absolutely possible—your brain, heart, and body are capable of healing, and you don't have to face this journey alone.
Get more info on Matt and resources to help your recovery journey at BeginAgainInstitute.com. 
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Understanding sex and porn addiction recovery
Introduction of the "Wheel of Destruction" concept
Interconnected factors contributing to addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, autonomic nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes
The impact of trauma on addiction and recovery
The role of attachment wounds in shaping addictive behaviors
The relationship between shame and attachment wounds
Importance of community and authentic relationships in recovery
The effects of autonomic nervous system dysregulation on behavior and recovery
Brain plasticity and the potential for healing in recovery
Messages of hope and support for individuals struggling with addiction

More Resources:
Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
Begin Again Institute 14-Day Christian Men's Intensive
How Sex Addiction Creates False Intimacy
Related Podcast:
The Importance of "Whole Man" Recovery
Reframing Recovery as Emotional Regulation
Porn and Sex Addiction Recovery as Mental Health Issues

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In this episode, I talk with Lyschel Burket about something every betrayed spouse needs to think about: what happens if there’s a relapse? We get honest about how deeply destabilizing that can be, especially for wives who have already been through the pain of betrayal and are trying to rebuild a sense of safety.
Lyschel helps us understand why a relapse can feel like another trauma. It can knock a wife’s body and mind right back into survival mode, making it hard to think clearly, make decisions, or even know what to do next. That’s why we spend time talking about the value of a relapse safety plan, which is really a practical way to prepare before a crisis hits.
We walk through the important pieces of that plan, including how to define the difference between a slip and a relapse, why it matters to think ahead about your physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and relational needs, and how a plan can actually reduce panic when life feels chaotic. We also talk about the unfairness many wives feel in having to create this kind of plan, and why it still can be an act of wisdom and self-care.
At the heart of it all, Lyschel reminds us that a woman’s safety is not ultimately dependent on her husband’s choices. God is the true source of her provision, protection, and hope.
To learn more about Lyschel and the resources she offers to wives, visit HopeRedefined.org.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Relapse and betrayal trauma.
How relapse destabilizes a spouse.
Slip vs. relapse.
Why a relapse safety plan matters.
Preparing before crisis hits.
Fire escape plan analogy.
Key safety plan categories.
Hope and stability in God.

More Resources:
Relapse Safety Plan Workshop
Redeemed Hope intensive
Online Wives Care Groups
Related Podcasts:
Helping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in Marriage
Identifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed Wife
The Need for Boundaries After Betrayal

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore intimacy and sexuality for single Christians—a topic the church often overlooks. Drawing from her own journey through 40+ years of singleness, marriage, and widowhood, Carol unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, how Jesus modeled deep connection without sexual activity, and how singles can honor God with their desires. 
We also tackle harmful church misconceptions, the importance of healthy touch, and practical wisdom for navigating boundaries. Carol leaves us with three powerful principles: stay clean, stay connected, stay consecrated.
To learn more about Carol and her ministry, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Discussion on intimacy and sexuality for single Christians.
Distinction between sex and intimacy.
Emotional and physical intimacy needs beyond sexual activity.
Challenges faced by single Christians regarding intimacy and sexuality.
Misconceptions within church culture about singleness and sexuality.
The role of the church in supporting single adults.
Practical advice for singles to steward their sexuality and intimacy.
Importance of non-sexual physical touch and healthy friendships.
Addressing shame and regret over past sexual choices.
Encouragement for singles to find purpose and connection beyond sexual relationships.

More Resources:
Sexpectations online course
Sexpectations* (book) by Dr. Carol Tanksley
Sex & Anxiety online course
Related Podcasts:
Being a Single, Sexual Man
Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol Tanksley
What Are Your Sexpectations?

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In this episode of the Family Time segment,* I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, Director of our Family Care ministry to explore the sixth critical conversation in our series: "Leveraging Your Story." Norma and I discuss how parents can wisely and humbly share their personal testimonies with their children to build trust and connection around sexuality.
We cover practical tips on age-appropriate sharing, avoiding oversharing, and keeping God's redemptive power at the center of the conversation. Norma also shares eye-opening survey results revealing how fear keeps both parents and teens from opening up with each other.
To enroll in our free Critical Conversations online course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.
For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.
*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
Importance of discussing sexuality from a Christian perspective with children.
Navigating a hyper-sexualized culture and its impact on children.
Overview of the six critical conversations in family care ministry.
Focus on the sixth conversation: "Leveraging Your Story."
Encouragement for parents to share personal stories and testimonies with their children.
Building trust, connection, and credibility through vulnerability.
Importance of age-appropriate sharing and maintaining boundaries.
Addressing the fear and isolation that can exist between parents and teens regarding discussions about sex.
Emphasizing God's redemptive power in personal stories.
Resources and practical tips for parents to facilitate these conversations effectively.

Resources for Next Steps:
Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
Father-Son Accountability* by John Fort
Girl Talk by Ashley Jameson

For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.
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