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• 1297: Emotional Spiral vs. Emotional Sobriety

  We’ve all been there — an emotion hits hard, and before we even realize it, we’ve abandoned our plan, quit on the day, or convinced ourselves that we’re off track. But what if there’s another way? In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between emotional spiral and emotional sobriety — and how emotional leadership is the missing link for so many people struggling with inconsistency. You’ll hear real-life examples, practical reflection questions, and simple steps to start shifting your patterns right now. If you’re ready to stop following your feelings and start leading yourself through them, this one’s for you. 🔑 In this episode: Why emotional spirals feel true (but usually aren’t) Real examples of what emotional sobriety looks like in everyday life How to stop letting your feelings be your decision-making criteria A step-by-step breakdown to get your emotions out of the driver’s seat 🔗 Resources Mentioned: 📘 Free Fat Loss Framework E-Book Get clear on what actually works (and what doesn’t) — without another diet to follow. 👉 Download here 🎯 The Consistency Course If you're tired of knowing what to do but still not doing it — this is where everything changes. Weekly check-ins, unlimited messaging, real-life results. 👉 Explore the course 🥤 My Favorite Protein: Fit20 Clean ingredients, great taste, no bloating. Save $10 on your first order with code BENTON 👉 Order Fit20 here

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• 1296: Hard Isn’t the Headline—How to Reorient and Stay Anchored When Life Gets Chaotic

  We all have moments where everything feels hard—parenting, food choices, work, motivation. But what if the real problem isn’t the hard? What if it’s the headline we keep writing about it? In this episode, we’re talking about how your internal headlines, orientation, and daily anchors shape your progress—or your struggle. Because it’s not just about effort. It’s about direction. And if you’re not tethered to the right things, you will drift. 💥 In this episode, I’ll show you: Why “this is hard” might be the most disempowering headline you can carry How to reorient yourself toward the person you want to become (instead of defaulting to the person you’ve practiced being) The powerful metaphor of the barn rope in a snowstorm—and why you need a tether too How to rewrite your mental headlines to pursue results, not relief 🔁 Core Themes: 📰 1. Hard Doesn’t Have to Be the Headline If you always lead with “this sucks” or “this is hard,” you’re subconsciously anchoring yourself to the need for relief. That’s why you check out, scroll, snack, or quit. But hard doesn’t have to define your day—or your identity. 🧭 2. Reorient Before You React Most of us aren’t stuck—we’re just disoriented. We say we want change but keep facing the direction of comfort, distraction, or fear. Progress starts with a pivot. Reorientation is a practice—not a one-time fix. 🪢 3. Tether Yourself to Prevent Drift Life is a blizzard. Without an intentional tether, you’ll get lost. Whether it’s a weekly check-in, a journaling habit, or a goal review—you need something to hold onto when you’re steps away from quitting. ✨ Quotes Worth Repeating: “When hard is the headline, we start subconsciously looking for relief instead of results.” “You don’t need to try harder. You need to reorient.” “The tether keeps you from drifting when the storm rolls in.” 🧰 Resources Mentioned: 📘 Fat Loss, Simplified – 2025 E-Book: Includes mindset and strategy tools that expand on this episode. 🧭 The Consistency Course: Your full framework for staying anchored, even when life feels chaotic. 📺 YouTube Channel: Free videos and deeper dives beyond the podcast. 💬 Join the Conversation: What’s your current headline? Are you oriented toward possibility, or stuck staring at the past? DM me on Instagram @elizabethbenton or reply to this episode to share your story. Let’s keep the conversation going.

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• 1295: The 3-Minute Rule: Get to Higher Ground Before You Make the Choice

  Ever notice how your hardest decisions—like skipping a workout or reaching for junk food—usually happen when you're tired, stressed, or just done? In today’s episode, I’m sharing a simple but game-changing tool I use in those moments: The 3-Minute Rule. This isn't about forcing willpower or waiting to "feel like it." It's about giving yourself three intentional minutes to shift where you're making the decision from—so you can choose with clarity, not chaos. 🛠️ Resources & Links: Join The Consistency Course – If you want to practice tools like this alongside coaching, community, and structure, TCC is for you. Fat Loss E-Book - Mindset, Nutrition and more, including exclusive Q&As In Today's Episode You’ll hear: Why decisions made at your lowest emotional point often sabotage your goals What it means to “get to higher ground” and how to do it fast Real-life examples from my own week (yes, including kids, cookies, and chaos) How this ties into the advice Olympic gymnast Nastia Liukin got from her coach: “Never quit on a bad day” Whether it's a glass of water, a few deep breaths, or 3 minutes in the sun—this practice is a game-changer for anyone working toward consistency, self-trust, and lasting change. 🔥 What You’ll Learn: What “higher ground” means in real life (and how to reach it fast) A proven way to disrupt emotional spirals without relying on motivation How this simple pause builds discipline faster than pressure ever will 🛠️ Resources & Links: Join The Consistency Course – If you want to practice tools like this alongside coaching, community, and structure, TCC is for you. Fat Loss E-Book - Mindset, Nutrition and more, including exclusive Q&As 📝 Quotes Worth Repeating: “You don’t need to make the perfect choice. You just need to get to higher ground.” “You don’t quit on a bad day. You don’t decide from your lowest ground.” “Motivation might come and go, but this 3-minute rule is available to you every single day.” 💬 Let’s Connect: Loved this episode? Take a screenshot, share it to your IG Stories, and tag me @elizabethbenton—I love hearing how these tools land for you.

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• 1294: 4 Questions to Ask Before You Give Up (Again)

  4 Questions to Ask Before You Give Up (Again) A guide to breaking your pattern and finally moving forward 🔥 Episode Summary: There are millions of people silently drowning in overwhelm, stuck in patterns they desperately want to break — and yet, they keep turning down the life rafts being thrown their way. They say things like: “I start but never finish.” “I know what to do, I just don’t do it.” “I’ve already invested so much and nothing works.” These beliefs feel like truth, but they’re actually traps. In this episode, I’m holding up a mirror — not to call you out, but to call you up. If you’re tired of striving but never arriving, this episode will walk you through: The 3 core beliefs that are keeping you stuck Why your pattern is stronger than your plan — and how to change that 4 powerful questions you can ask to finally break free from your cycle A new way to make decisions that’s rooted in possibility, not fear 🧠 This episode will help you: ✔ Stop using the past as a reason to quit the future ✔ Catch yourself when you're turning down help ✔ Challenge the “I always give up” identity ✔ Take one aligned step — even when it’s uncomfortable 🔗 Mentioned in this episode: 👉 Register for the FREE webinar:  https://event.webinarjam.com/register/13/r1omrt4 April 8 & 9 — two completely different, totally free live trainings to help you go From Stuck to Unstoppable. ✨ Shareable Moments: “You're not afraid of wasting money. You're afraid of wasting hope.” “You’re not doomed to repeat your past — you’re just putting too much stock in it.” “If success was guaranteed… would you still hesitate?” “Stop calling yourself out. Start calling yourself up.” “Sometimes the loudest story isn’t the truest story — it’s just the one you’ve repeated the most.” 🎧 If this episode hit home, share it with a friend. Let’s stop giving power to our patterns — and start walking in possibility.

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• 1293: Before You Start Over Again… Listen to This

  This isn’t another how-to episode. It’s not a checklist. It’s a letter — from my heart to yours — for the woman who’s tired of starting over, but still hasn’t given up. If you feel like you’re already halfway out the door… if you doubt it’ll work because it hasn’t worked before… this one’s for you. In this episode, we unpack: The real reason you’re stuck (hint: it’s not discipline) Why more rules aren’t the answer How to rebuild self-trust, fast What “habit debt” is — and how to pay it off The most powerful shift to finally feel unstoppable This one’s personal — and it just might change everything. 💛 Don’t Miss: I’m teaching a free 2-night live workshop starting April 8th called From Stuck to Unstoppable — and I would love to see you there. 🎟️ Save your spot here 🔗 Links & Resources: Register for the free workshop: Click here to sign up DM me on Instagram if you have questions! http://instagram.com/elizabethbenton/

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