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In 100 days, it will be 2027. And in case that sounds like plenty of time, 2016 was ten years ago.
In this episode, I’m sharing the commitment I’ve made for the final 100 days of the year: to stop casually participating in the erosion of my own potential.
This isn’t another rigid challenge. I’ve identified four parts of my life I’m no longer willing to leave exposed: my space, my money, my body, and my joy, and I’ll take one specific action to protect each of them every day.
Because the life you want is rarely lost in one dramatic decision. It is usually surrendered an inch at a time.
What part of your future are you leaving unprotected, and what could you do today to guard it?
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What if every discretionary purchase became a choice between the thing and the money?
In this episode, I’m sharing a spending experiment I’ve started after realizing something simple and slightly painful:
Everything you see used to be money.
The clothes. The furniture. The random Amazon purchase. The thing you bought because it was on sale. The thing you barely use.
So now, before I buy something, I’m asking a different question:
Would I rather have the thing, or the money?
And when I choose the money, I’m moving part of it into savings so the decision actually becomes visible.
In this episode, I’m talking about:
the $40 jacket that sparked the idea
why “I can afford it” is often the wrong question
the difference between not spending and actually redirecting the money
why the tiny purchases may be the most interesting part
how I’m tracking this experiment as it unfolds
how you can do it with me

I’m sharing the full experiment, the running total, the individual decisions, and what I’m learning over on Substack.
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Give me the ONE thing you’re sick of starting over with. Give me four weeks.
The Four-Week DEFENSE Build starts September 8, and I’m keeping this group intentionally small because this isn’t about spending four weeks learning DEFENSE.
It’s about implementing it around your specific problem, with my eyes on it with you.
Bring me the thing you know how to do, have probably done successfully many times, but somehow keep finding yourself starting over with.
Over four weeks, we’re going to get specific about what keeps happening around that problem, identify where you actually need DEFENSE, build something you can use, let your real life test it, and use what happens to make it stronger.
This is hands-on. This is personalized. And this is for the person who is tired of assuming the answer is another plan, another fresh start, or another promise to try harder.
We start September 8.
Your enrollment is also backed by my 100% money-back guarantee. Do the work and submit it as requested. If, at the end of our four weeks, you don’t feel you have a valuable, personalized DEFENSE for the specific problem you brought in, I’ll refund what you paid.
If you do the work and I don’t deliver, I don’t want you to pay for it.
Join the Four-Week DEFENSE Build
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In today’s episode
I spent all of my childhood, adolescence and young adult years severely obese. At just 5'5", I weighed over 350 pounds. I had a degree in nutrition and was still a chronic binge eater.
After decades of struggling, I stopped binge eating and went on to lose 130 pounds long before GLP-1s were a thing.
People often ask me what finally clicked.
There is one breakthrough I can trace so much of my personal transformation back to, and it started with a question I couldn’t answer:
How could I demonstrate so much discipline in other areas of my life and struggle so profoundly to do it with food?
The answer changed the problem I thought I needed to solve.
In this episode, I’m sharing that breakthrough, what it taught me about perspective and permission, and why I eventually realized:
I kept trying to solve the start when I needed to study the stop.
If you recognize your own stubborn problem somewhere in this conversation, don’t just listen to this one.
Bring it to me.
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What if the reason you keep starting over is because you’ve been focused on the wrong part of the problem?
For years, every time I stopped doing what I said I was going to do, I treated it like a starting problem.
When should I start again?
What should I do this time?
What’s the new plan?
Except starting was never the part I needed help with.
I needed to understand why I kept stopping.
This pattern showed up most painfully for me with weight loss, but it isn't a weight-loss problem. It can happen with your fitness, your finances, your business—anything you genuinely want, know how to pursue, and somehow keep finding yourself starting again.
In this episode, we're talking about what changes when you stop putting all your attention on the next start and finally investigate the stops themselves.
GIVE ME ONE THING. GIVE ME FOUR WEEKS.
If you already know the thing you're sick of starting over with, I want to help you build your DEFENSE around it.
I'm taking just 20 people through the Four-Week DEFENSE Build beginning September 8th.
You’ll get immediate access to the complete DEFENSE Workshop and 80+ page Master Playbook. Then we’ll spend four weeks doing the work that cannot be done generically:
Building your DEFENSE around the way you stop.
We'll build it. Put it into your actual life. Find the holes. Fix them. Test it again. Make it stronger.
You already know how to start.
Let's work on why you keep having to.
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20 people. One thing. Four weeks. We start September 8th.

You really did mean it when you made the plan.
You were motivated. The goal felt urgent. You were clear about what you wanted and what you were willing to do to get there.
But the person who makes the plan and the person who has to negotiate with that plan later often have very different priorities.
In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when the version of you who wants the long-term outcome runs into the version of you who wants something else right now—the extra hour of sleep, the thing that’s on sale, the relief, the exception.
I’ll share a real example of how I use DEFENSE with my own financial goals, why “permission logic” can be so convincing even when you know exactly what you want, and why some of our most important work happens before we ever reach the moment where we’re tempted to change the plan.
Your plan isn’t finished when you decide what you’re going to do. You need a defense for the person who’s going to negotiate with it.
Tomorrow night, September 1st, I’m teaching a live two-hour DEFENSE workshop where we’ll work on exactly this: where your gaps open, the permission patterns that make moving the target feel reasonable, how to respond to them, and how to change some of the conditions upstream so those moments happen less often. The workshop is $47 and includes the complete 80+ page DEFENSE Master Playbook. There is no replay.
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