Live Again with Sibahle

I got divorced at 27.
But this isn’t just a story about divorce. It’s a story about what happens when you pray for God to change your circumstances — and He doesn’t.
In this episode of Live Again with Sibahle, I share my testimony: the breakdown of my marriage, wrestling with God when life didn’t unfold the way I prayed it would, walking through separation and divorce, and eventually discovering that sometimes the testimony isn’t that God restores what you lost.
Sometimes, the testimony is that He keeps you through losing it.
We talk about unanswered prayers, disappointment with God, rebuilding your faith, finding meaning in painful endings, and learning how to build a full and purposeful life again.
If you’re navigating heartbreak, divorce, grief, a painful ending, or simply a season where God seems to be writing a very different story from the one you asked for, I hope this conversation reminds you that there can still be life on the other side.
🤍 Welcome to Live Again.

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Welcome back to another episode of Live Again with Sibahle 💛

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Khulile for a deeply vulnerable and reflective conversation about love, divorce in your twenties, public vulnerability, social media declarations, shame, healing, and what it means to choose yourself when a relationship falls apart.

Both of us got divorced before 30, and this conversation explores the realities people don’t often speak about openly — especially as young women navigating marriage, identity, faith, expectations, and starting over.

We also dive into:
✨ Why women feel shame after divorce
✨ Emotional neglect, anger, and relationship breakdowns
✨ The fear of leaving
✨ Learning to live again after heartbreak
✨ Why vulnerability matters

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What if “what’s meant to be will be” isn’t actually biblical?

In this episode of Live Again with Sibahle, I unpack the dangerous comfort of determinism, the role of obedience and self-development in the Christian life, and why success does not always equal alignment with God’s will.

Using the stories of Moses, Samson, and the Israelites, we explore:
​whether you can miss God’s plan for your life
​ the difference between grace and passivity
​ why your choices matter
how God’s grace still makes room for restoration, even after failure

This episode is for anyone navigating purpose, discipline, healing, faith, and personal growth.

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In this episode, I’m sharing what decentering men has looked like for me in real life.
After divorce, therapy, and a lot of self-reflection, I’ve been learning how often I self-abandoned in relationships — and how necessary it has been to rebuild a life that feels full, grounded, joyful, and centred outside of romantic love.
I talk through the practical steps I’m taking in this season: stepping away from active dating, cultivating hobbies, strengthening my relationship with God, investing in my professional growth, and being intentional about sisterhood and joy.
This is not a “finished product” episode. It’s an honest conversation from the middle of the work. If you’re also trying to choose yourself, heal, and build a life you genuinely love, I hope this gives you language, encouragement, and maybe even a blueprint.
Let me know in the comments: what does building a life you love look like for you?
 
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In this reflective year-end episode, I’m closing the chapter on 27 and stepping into 28.
I reflect on a year that began in one place and ended somewhere completely different — a year marked by purpose, growth, loss, and deep becoming.I touch on pop culture moments that stayed with me — including my thoughts on the P Diddy documentary — and reflect on my recent trip to Zanzibar, a place that reminded me how to dream again, reconnect with wonder, and reimagine what’s possible for my life.
I talk about the milestones that shaped me: finally walking a graduation stage after years of waiting, finding fulfilment in my career, building soul-deep friendships, starting Live Again after years of contemplation (and seeing it recognised by Apple Podcasts), growing Let Live Socials into a space of real community for girls in Cape Town, and receiving affirmation for my creative work.
This episode doesn’t shy away from the harder parts either. I speak candidly about watching my marriage fall apart, navigating divorce, and how — even in heartbreak — my relationship with God deepened in ways I didn’t expect.
If you’re closing out a year that changed you, this one’s for you.You can also find this podcast on:
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