Konnected Minds Podcast with Derrick Abaitey

What if the biggest difference between people who build wealth and those who stay poor isn't how much education they have or how many degrees they collect, but understanding that the entire school system was designed not to make you successful but to make you employable, that spending hours watching football and celebrity lifestyles while claiming you don't have data for life changing conversations is the exact programming keeping you trapped, and that the young person who depends on their carpenter father for chop money two years after university graduation has invested years learning something that isn't even designed to prepare them for the life they're now expected to live?
In this raw and unfiltered conversation on Konnected Minds, we sit down with someone who reveals why this whole school thing is not working anymore and we shouldn't deceive ourselves, why you are expecting something from something that is not designed to give, why it's just like finishing primary school and knowing how to pronounce ABCD but they say you're going to face life because you can write ABCD when we are talking about life not basic literacy, and why there are many young minds who have finished university and still don't know what to do with their lives because we expect too much from this particular entity.
He breaks down why school is okay somewhere but if you don't go somewhere you can still give yourself that training for life, why we are putting so much importance on this and when you have it and you cannot succeed then you feel like you're a failure when in the first place you didn't have what it would take you to build this life, why it's just like training a carpenter and then expecting that carpenter to do surgery on you because the training is different, and why we are talking of succeeding in life but school trains you to be able to read academically.
But he also confronts the brutal origins of our education system. Why we didn't design this current education ourselves, why some British and Europeans came and said they have to put us through school to civilize us to think and behave like them but not as the best of them but as their servants, why you are speaking your own language but they say you will not use that language to be taught in that school that they brought, and why today if a young person wants to become a doctor they know they have to go to medical school for between four to seven years but if somebody wants to prepare themselves for life where is the curriculum for that.
He reveals why the answer is personal education, why you don't need that structured system because life does not give you a structured program, why school people when they come out ask questions wanting a template an example mentorship wanting you to give them the exact procedures because that is the regimen they went through, why life is not like that and that's why when you have come out of school you are afraid to take risk because life is full of uncertainties, and why now it's easy because that smartphone that laptop everything is there and you can go to ChatGPT and ask how can I do this and step by step it will give you everything.
But he also exposes what's really stopping people from accessing this information. Why if people are not doing it then what is stopping them is they don't know they are not aware that such information exists, why 90 percent of people when they go on social media watch things that will not add value to them, why you go to TikTok and see oh this lady was in China and 50,000 people watching listening to something that will not benefit them, and why if someone teaching about money and life is on live can they have 10K people watching when the conversation about money can feel very uncomfortable because there's responsibility involved and many people don't want responsibility they want magic.
He explains why the things that will not put the work in their hands are what people consume because they are waiting for something supernatural to happen to them, why if you're watching football you're just enjoying not thinking, why if you're dancing to music you're not thinking, why we shouldn't take that out of life but it should not be the main thing, and why these guys who are using their data and Wi-Fi to watch Neymar they don't have money but they know everything about Neymar they know everything about celebrities their lifestyle their girlfriends but can they spend those same hours to invest in themselves consuming information that will add value to them.
But he also confronts the tragedy of misplaced priorities. Why people will sit down watching football happy happy happy for what when at a certain point in life you need to understand that without money or without certain basic things you need in life you are suffering and those things you can acquire are just around you, why our people are not ready to look for it, why someone spends four years in school and after school their mother who was a...

What if the biggest difference between people who build real wealth and those who chase degrees isn't how many certificates they collect or how well they speak English, but understanding that the entire education system was designed not to make you successful but to make you employable, that the young lady on a flight to China holding $200,000 without a professor's credentials discovered something universities will never teach you, and that the mechanic who fixes your car the contractor who builds your house and the shoemaker who crafts your shoes are all educated people who never needed a classroom to create value and earn money in a world that worships certificates while the certificate holders struggle to pay their children's school fees? In this raw and unfiltered conversation on Konnected Minds, we sit down with someone who reveals why there's this wholesale information they give us to make you feel you've been given an education to face life when really it's just like somebody going to learn trade, why if you go to the websites of a lot of our investors and see who they are trading and where they are trading them to it's to go and look for a job, why the main import of especially university education is so that you can come out and somebody should give you a job, and why when schools are having anniversaries the people they hail are those who have been employed in multinational positions and government positions more than somebody who has a provision shop somewhere. He breaks down why education doesn't mean you need to sit in the classroom, why that mechanic who has been fixing your car is educated even though he's not a graduate, why the contractor is educated even though he may not have a degree, why we need to let people who are going through that system understand that they are not necessarily going to get a job after and that they should look at business as an alternative or maybe even the main thing, and why this system has been there for so many years to keep people poor especially in Africa. But he also confronts the brutal reality of what certificates actually mean. Why how many professors in this country can confidently say they have $500,000 or $200,000, why he's been going to China and was in a flight with one young lady sitting by him holding $200,000 from her collar going to China, why this whole thing about go to school you have to be educated means you don't have to sit in a classroom before you can be educated, why knowledge you can acquire and he believes in self education not this whole thing about go to school and after school, and why we need to have trade schools here in Africa in Ghana so that if you complete secondary school you can say okay I want to be a shoemaker and go to a vocational school for that. He reveals why the only vocational schools we have here are for cooking and bread making, why we don't have trade schools but we need them if we want to succeed as a country, why everybody wants to go to university and become a lawyer because they can argue and speak good English, why you don't have to speak good English to succeed in life, why you don't need that certificate to succeed in life, and why you need education but you don't need certificates. But he also shares his personal journey of discovering this truth. Why about 15 years ago life was so difficult for him and he decided to study successful people, why he realized those successful people know something the ordinary poor person doesn't know, why he studied why is this guy successful and realized all the successful people have something in common, why they all have a certain skill or a business because in this life there are only two ways to make money through a product or service, why all the successful people in our world have it, and why it wasn't about certificate. He explains why education is different from school, why the one we have is the boxers to go to school where the knowledge is contained, why what you need in life to succeed is education and especially personal education where you teach yourself for life, why you can't become successful in life holistically just because you have an engineering degree, why there are so many engineers who don't understand life, and why critical things in life like character advantage over money family health and influence in society are not taught in any particular course in the university. But he also reveals the sophisticated understanding that separates life education from school education. Why those who didn't sit in any particular classroom to study physics or chemistry may not necessarily be disadvantaged because they still are open to learn the basis you need for life, why there's life education and there is school kind of education, why many of us think that once we have the school kind it means we are equipped enough when he will not place it more than 10% of the information you need, why the school one is what many of us were pushed through and they..

What if the biggest difference between people who build wealth in Africa and those who spend their lives searching for opportunities abroad isn't how much money they can raise or how many degrees they have, but understanding that your mental programming determines everything you see and everything you miss, that a people who cannot accept their own names their own skin their own language will always struggle to see value in their own land, and that the young man who raised over $10,000 to become a second class citizen changing diapers for four months straight in a foreign country could have used that same money to build something generational right here where 30 million people wake up every morning exchanging money from the trotro driver to the pharmacist while opportunities announce themselves through every closed provision shop and every roadside yam seller?
In this powerful and unfiltered conversation on Konnected Minds, we sit down with someone who reveals why we are only reflecting our thinking anyway and even the chair you chose and the decor you see is based on your mental processes and the training you have had, why our most critical duty as a people is to change the software because you can give people millions but if they don't know what to do they will destroy it, why pouring money into people with wrong mental processes is like pouring water in a leaky basket, and why the duty as an African as a young man is to make sure you don't grow or continue this wrong thinking because we were born into an environment where the thinking makes you so likely to have wrong thinking.
He breaks down why even through our universities when you watch our TV even from the pulpit sometimes when our leaders are talking on TV you know that this information will make people poor, why if you don't give yourself different information then you become just like them, why Africa's problem is that one where a people cannot have right self image so everything else you present will be wrong, and why which people talk so negatively about themselves and are trying to look or become like any other people besides themselves and hardly accept who they are.
But he also confronts the brutal reality of our conditioning. Why look at our names look at our skin color even our language we fight it, why other people are so ready to sell to us because they know that we are ready to buy from them more than from ourselves, why the African who succeeds here will be an African who has worked on self image at a certain level and is proud, why if you take that success from that person they will still be able to build it because those Africans are very different the software is different the primary process data is different, and why they are consistent in their language consistent in their action because they have given themselves different kind of education.
He reveals why if you don't have that kind of education the default setting will work where you wait for the government you wait for God you're looking for visa you're waiting for somebody to give you funding you're looking for political connection, why visa is something that fascinates you and if you marry a white girl it means you're blessed and you worship white Jesus and wearing a suit means you are civilized, why there are so many of our people here who are doing well who you can still trick, and why these things persist because we were born into it.
But he also shares the sophisticated understanding of how identity is destroyed from childhood. Why once you get to primary one they start to teach you English but you were speaking your mother's language so why would you not continue with that and what was wrong with your language, why you go to school and they have to add another English name when there was nothing wrong with your original name, why if you put somebody through these processes and they grow up it's easy for them to lose their identity, and why when they bring the contract that says sign the gold for them it will not be difficult because already you are broken.
He explains why anytime you watch our TV and see any investor do they look like you, why the young man is just reflecting the programming, why if you want to deal with that you must give yourself different kind of education not the one they are giving you in school, why if that education were enough you would not be less self confident but education is supposed to make you see yourself like I can do it no matter what wherever I am, and why that's what it means to become who you are wherever you are.
But he also confronts the tragedy of Africans who cannot see what they have. Why in your village if you're properly trained you will see opportunities and will never see that there's nothing in this village, why you look around and there's big land and you still can't see opportunity until some Chinese man comes and builds a business that employs you and gives you a thousand and you're very happy even though...

How can you make money online in Africa? And do you really need a university degree to build a successful career?
On this episode of Konnected Minds Podcast, Derrick Abaitey sits down with Nigerian entrepreneur and digital skills educator Uzoma Oranebo to discuss his journey from earning ₦15,000 a month at Yaba Market to making his first million through e-commerce.
Uzoma shares how he spent eight years completing a four-year university course, discovered online business during COVID, made his first six figures selling an e-book, and learned how to sell products online.
Chapters

00:00:00 Introduction: From Anger to Opportunity
00:02:59 The Power of Mindset and Environment
00:03:12 The COVID Turning Point: First Ebook Success
00:09:39 From 15K Naira Salary to E-Commerce Success
00:11:58 University Struggles: 8 Years for a 4-Year Degree
00:22:21 Learning E-Commerce: The Mentor Connection
00:33:01 The Reality of Life for Young Nigerians
00:35:15 Top 5 High-Income Skills Breakdown
00:37:50 Copywriting: The Art of Persuasive Selling
00:45:11 Four Business Models Using One Skill
00:50:46 The Mentor Debate: Why Courses Matter
00:55:24 Discipline Over Motivation: Final Wisdom

Guest: Uzoma Oranebo
Web: https://bossuhziconsult.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/uzoma-oranebo-480b24149
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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Derrick Abaitey is a Ghanaian entrepreneur, podcast host, and personal development advocate.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/derrick.abaitey
Web: https://www.abaitey.com/

What if the biggest difference between people who live authentically and those who constantly struggle with external pressure isn't how much they achieve, but understanding that living without friends doesn't mean living without connection, that authenticity isn't something you develop over time but something you protect from the very beginning, and that the woman who throws legendary birthday parties for politicians while running multiple businesses and raising children might actually be protecting something more valuable than friendship itself?
In this raw and deeply personal conversation, we sit down with a woman who has lived her entire life on her own terms. From celebrating birthdays like wedding receptions with big politicians in attendance, to running a bar, restaurant, and Fugu supply business while writing books and raising children who demand her undivided attention, she reveals why she has never lived under pressure in any situation or circumstance, why if she keeps five clothes and those five clothes please her she doesn't bother herself no matter how many clothes you have, and why her authenticity started way back before most people even begin their journey of self discovery.
She breaks down why growing up as a Jehovah's Witness while simultaneously celebrating birthdays that her faith discouraged might have been the first sign that her mind of her own was operating early, why living in a house full of brothers with no sisters meant she never saw that competitive vibe where two ladies fight over one man or this person wants that makeup bag or that hairstyle, and why this absence of female competition around her probably shaped her into someone who has never lived in envy of what you have more than she does.
But she also confronts the brutal reality of what people mistake for friendship. Why anywhere she has worked except multimedia when it's time for her to move to the next chapter everybody cries like somebody is dead because she has very fine human relations, why she relates to you like you are her brother or sister but they don't become friends because it doesn't go beyond that, why some people on social media assumed and made claims but the way she relates to industry colleagues is just that industry colleagues who meet at events and awards programs, and why when you say somebody is your friend the person knows the inside of you but she doesn't allow that.
She reveals why she has done this to avoid troubles so there will be no issue that comes up, why she could live with you at a place for years and wouldn't know your name because she's so focused on what matters to her which is her life and how to survive the next day, and why as one woman doing a whole lot running multiple business units managing workers picking orders writing books reviewing chapters catching mistakes that even the people who made them would never notice and raising a daughter who loves attention and insists it must be you that does this for me she simply cannot make time to be checking what somebody is wearing and be having friends.
But she also shares the sophisticated understanding that separates vibing from friendship. Why the moment you have friends and you have an issue you'll be compelled to confide in that friend but humans switch at different times, why for the fact that she cannot trust anybody because we are friends today tomorrow will not be friends means she doesn't need a friend in the first place, why she needs a colleague a mate a person at the same church a neighbor who will say Emma is a nice person when she sees me she greets me, and why when people see them sitting together sleeping together drinking together laughing together at parties they call it friendship but there's a real meaning to friendship and she doesn't do friends as far as she is concerned.
She explains why she vibes with good people so when she does a party all the people she vibes with come around, why if you call her she'll be there and if you are bereaved she comes and pays her dues and does what she has to do as what you would call a friend, but why this is not friendship in the truest sense because friendship requires a level of vulnerability and access to the inside of you that she has deliberately chosen not to give to anyone in order to protect what matters most which is her ability to remain authentic constant and consistent without the drama and switching that comes when humans get too close.

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🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST
Derrick Abaitey is a Ghanaian entrepreneur, podcast host, and personal development advocate.
IG: https://www.instagram.com/derrick.abaitey
Web: https://www.abaitey.com/