Blessed + Bossed Up

• The Joy You’ve Been Missing Starts with the Holy Spirit

  If you're tired of "just doing your best" and still coming up empty — this episode is for you.Tatum opens up about how her passion for business, once ignited by God, slowly became routine... heavy... even burdensome. Sound familiar? Whether it’s your faith, your work, or your purpose — if you've ever wondered why the fire doesn’t feel the same anymore, this episode will meet you where you are.This week kicks off our new Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley, a deeply personal and theologically grounded guide to rediscovering the joy, peace, and power that comes from truly living led by the Holy Spirit.Through honest reflection and raw storytelling, Tatum explores what it means to surrender again — not just your business goals, but your heart, your weariness, your routine, your emotions — all of it. She shares how the Holy Spirit met her right where she was, not in perfection, but in her honesty.This episode is a permission slip to stop striving and start abiding.You’ll Hear About:Why May is a personal turning point for Tatum in faith, family, and entrepreneurshipHow The Spirit-Filled Life meets you in dry, discouraged seasonsThe truth about burnout in faith and business—and how the Holy Spirit revivesWhat makes the Christian walk different from striving in your own strengthPractical ways to assess if you’re truly living Spirit-ledHow to prepare your heart to journey with us through this bookDiscussion Questions (from the book’s “Think About It” section):Is there a vast difference between what you experienced as a new believer and what you're experiencing now?Do you know Christians who just seem to have something or know something that you don't?What makes you different from friends who aren't believers?Peace, joy, and love—are they evident in your life?What can you currently attribute to the power of the Holy Spirit in your life?How would you explain what it means to be filled with the Holy Spirit?Call to Action:Grab a physical copy of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. This one isn’t just for reading—it’s for highlighting, journaling, and letting God speak to you in the margins: https://amzn.to/43ahrnjournal through the questions in this episode. Write honestly. Cry if you need to. The goal is not performance—it’s surrender.🎧 Listen and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you tune in. Share this episode with a friend who feels like they’re running on empty.Our Sponsors:* Check out Effecty and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• Don’t Be Spiritually Scammed: Qualify Wise Counsel

  In this special replay episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum revisits one of the most crucial conversations for today’s believer: how to qualify wise counsel. Following her recent teaching on Spirit-led business decisions from Acts 13:1–4, this episode builds upon that foundation by emphasizing the importance of discerning who we allow to pour into us—especially in an era where spiritual influence can be bought, marketed, and misused.Using 2 Kings 4:1–7 as the anchor text, Tatum unpacks the story of a desperate widow, divine instruction, and miraculous provision. Through this narrative, she walks listeners through how wise counsel played a key role in this woman’s breakthrough—and how we can discern and apply the same principles in our own lives and businesses.This conversation isn’t just about avoiding deception—it’s about equipping you to hear from God clearly in a noisy world and ensuring that those you go to for advice are truly led by the Spirit.Main Points Covered:Why this episode is being reposted: Tatum shares the intention behind revisiting this message—to reinforce the importance of spiritual discernment, especially as believers are often influenced by online voices and virtual leaders.Biblical Foundation: 2 Kings 4:1–7 is explored in-depth as a model for how God uses wise counsel to deliver strategy and provision.Discerning Influence: The difference between godly counsel and well-meaning but misaligned advice.Spiritual Maturity: Why humility, biblical grounding, and discernment are non-negotiables for those we allow to guide us.Five Characteristics of Wise Counsel:God-Centered: They fear the Lord and submit their advice to what God is saying—not just what works.Biblically Sound: Their guidance aligns with scripture in full context and is rooted in truth.Discerning: They are able to perceive beyond surface issues and speak to the root.Humble and Teachable: They don’t lead with ego or accolades, but with a heart postured toward serving and hearing from God.Experienced and Spiritually Mature: Their track record is submitted to God, and their insight is seasoned by both time and obedience.Examples of Wise and Unwise Counsel in Scripture:Moses and Jethro – Exodus 18:13–24Paul and Timothy – 2 Timothy 1:6–7Rehoboam and His Advisors – 1 Kings 12:6–15 (a case study in ignoring wise counsel)Tatum’s Encouragement:You don’t always have time to vet people when crisis hits. That’s why building relationships with biblically sound, Spirit-led leaders before you’re in need is essential. Don’t wait until you're overwhelmed to figure out who you can trust. Use this episode as a guide to start evaluating your circle now.Our Sponsors:* Check out Effecty and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions pt. 2

  In this continuation of our Bible on Business series, we dive deeper into the process of making Holy Spirit-led business decisions. Picking up from Part 1 (based on Acts 8), today’s discussion focuses on Acts 13:1-4 and how divine strategy and clarity are birthed from a lifestyle of worship, fasting, and consistent submission to God. Tatum also shares critical biblical principles for discerning the spirit behind those who claim to be sent by God, offering practical steps to avoid deception and remain anchored in the truth.Key Points:Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s.Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting:Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps.Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service.Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership:Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception.Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions.Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership:Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3).Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20).Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20).Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13).Practical Application:Ask key questions:Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves?Does their life consistently produce holy fruit?Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture?Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct?Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions.Personal Story:Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission.Resources Mentioned:The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuEBible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13Call to Action:Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first?Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences.Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues.Listen to Part 1 of this series here: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3c5c4d42/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-1Our Sponsors:* Check out Effecty and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• Introducing: The Get Back Chat

  This week, we’re shining a light on something incredibly special: the launch of a brand new podcast, The Get Back Chat with Hope Marchella.About The Get Back ChatThe Get Back Chat is not your typical teaching-style podcast. It’s a testimony-driven audio journal where real stories meet raw faith. Each episode offers a safe, honest space for listeners to reflect, relate, and ultimately return to God. Inspired by Revelation 12:11, Hope shares her journey of falling away and finding her way back—one moment of obedience, surrender, and sanctification at a time.If you've ever felt unseen, stuck, or unsure about your next step, this podcast will meet you there.If you’ve ever whispered “God knows my heart” while running from His call, if you've ever wondered how to get your life back, or if you’re walking through a season of rediscovery—this podcast is for you.Hope’s honesty, humor, and humility make her stories feel like conversations with a trusted friend. It’s not about perfection, but pursuit.🔗 Subscribe, rate, and review The Get Back Chat wherever you listen to podcasts. New episodes drop every Thursday. Don’t miss what God is doing through this powerful new voice: https://redcircle.com/shows/the-get-back-chatOur Sponsors:* Check out Effecty and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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• A Legacy of Faithfulness

  In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum wraps up the Leadership as an Identity book club series with a deep dive into the final chapter—The Legacy of Faithfulness. Drawing on biblical figures like David, Solomon, and Daniel, and historical leader William Wilberforce, she explores how true leadership isn’t defined by talent or popularity, but by consistency, obedience, and spiritual discipline. Tatum also shares a recent testimony that highlights how God rewards faithfulness in ways we can't always predict. If you've ever wondered whether the mundane moments matter or questioned your ability to carry the weight of your calling, this episode is a must-listen.Key Takeaways:Faithfulness, not just gifting, is what sustains legacy-driven leadershipObedience and focus are non-negotiables for fulfilling God’s assignmentsSmall daily decisions compound into long-term spiritual impactDistractions often appear as good opportunities but can derail divine purposeFaithfulness in unseen moments often produces the greatest rewardsLeadership requires submission to God’s process, even when it’s inconvenientGod uses faithful people to shift culture and history, just as He did with WilberforceNext Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley Start reading Chapter 1 for next week’s discussion.Our Sponsors:* Check out Effecty and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSED* Check out Netsuite: https://netsuite.com/BLESSED* Check out Revolve: https://revolve.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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