Human School

How do you rebuild your life after the crushing wreckage of betrayal? In this powerful episode of Human School, Miles Adcox sits down with Carl and Laura Lentz to explore the raw reality of surviving infidelity, breaking free from codependency, and choosing radical personal ownership when your world falls apart. 

What You'll Learn: 
The profound, isolating loneliness of betrayal trauma and why finding safe, grounded support changes everything. 

How to break the cycle of codependency by choosing your own healing and health, regardless of your partner's choices. 

The critical psychological difference between staying trapped in the comfortable hiding place of shame versus taking total personal accountability. 

Practical emotional tools for managing triggers, shortening repair times after conflict, and navigating gut-wrenching family conversations with your children.
 

Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome Carl & Laura Lentz
00:46 The Reality of Healing After Infidelity
07:05 Choosing Ownership Over Shame
15:47 The Loneliness of Betrayal
21:51 Seeking Help & Finding Hope
37:02 The Decision to Stay and Fight
42:18 Forgiveness vs. Safety
51:00 Eradicating Shame
1:15:58 Navigating Triggers & Practical Tools
1:31:32 Looking Back & Words of Wisdom

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Get your copy of Overcoming Infidelity: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Overcoming-Infidelity/Carl-Lentz/9781668230497  
 
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What is procrastination actually costing you? Turns out, almost everything.

In this episode, Miles Adcox welcomes author and speaker Jon Acuff to Human School for an honest, practical, and deeply encouraging conversation about procrastination, overthinking, and the strange ways our minds block the lives we want to live.  

Jon opens up about his own struggles with anxiety, the danger of old "soundtracks," and why the hardest part of a new goal is often the weight of past failures.

Packed with humor and tactical wisdom, Jon and Miles break down how to retire broken soundtracks and finally give yourself permission to be remarkable.  

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In This Episode, You'll Learn: 
The real psychology behind why we avoid the things we want to do most.  

How to shift your internal soundtrack using the "Retire, Replace, Repeat" method.  

Why optimism is a daily practice, not a personality trait.  

How to separate fear from decision-making so you can finally cross your finish line. 

Learn more about Jon and grab a copy of Procrastination Proof: https://jonacuff.com/

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Episode Chapters:
00:00 - Welcome Jon Acuff – Author of Procrastination Proof
02:00 - The 34-Year Delay
06:00 - Growing Up Anxious and Running Hot
09:30 - Scars as Lighthouses & The Power of Going First
13:30 - Mental Health, Rumination, and Mindset
16:00 - Live Coaching: Unpacking Miles' Book Goals & Resistance
22:00 - High Performers and Changing Your Fuel Source
27:00 - Repetition, Symbols, and Soundtrack Cards
31:00 - Experiential Healing, Empathy, and Feedback Loops
35:40 - Writing for Teenagers and Handle-Making
44:50 - Why We Procrastinate: The Bad Solution
49:30 - Jon's Corporate Exit & The Birth of His Blog
54:30 - The Internet, Online Anger, and Identity Follows Activity
58:45 - Finding Peace in the Storm & Practicing Optimism
01:04:00 - Tactical Tools: Paper Shrinks Fear & Owner's Manuals
01:08:50 - Success Hang-ups & The Fear of Being Remarkable
01:14:00 - Unpacking Money Scripts and Celebrating Wins
01:22:00 - Growth is Non-Linear: The Reality of Healing
01:26:40 - Writing Brave & Jon's Upcoming Book on Optimism
01:30:00 - Counseling, Faith, and Following Overreactions
01:36:30 - Writing vs. Rewriting & Fear Gets a Voice, Not a Vote

"They said, 'We need you to stop.' And I said, 'I need me to stop, too.'" 

Grammy-winning country artist Ashley McBryde joins Miles for a deeply moving, unfiltered conversation as she reflects on her roots in the Ozarks, the complexities of generational trauma, and what it truly means to be seen.  

Ashley opens up about her long relationship with alcohol, the terrifying night that led her to treatment, and how getting sober allowed her to finally hear her own voice and recognize the person in the mirror. This is a powerful discussion on unlearning old programming, re-parenting your younger self, and why true art doesn't require a dark place. 

If you’re ready to begin a new chapter, Onsite offers transformational experiences to help you live the life you deserve. Learn more: https://hubs.la/Q04zdx0K0 

Episode Chapters: 
00:00 – Introducing Ashley McBryde
05:00 – Growing Up in the Ozarks & Early Musical Roots
17:00 – Nervous System Responses, Childhood Trauma, and Inner Child Work
44:00 – Generational Trauma, Religion, and Re-framing Family Dynamics
56:00 – The Reality of "High-Functioning" Addiction & Stepping Into Recovery
1:18:00 – Finding Pure Joy in Sobriety and Making Art Without Suffering
 
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What happens when the mental health expert becomes the one navigating a family crisis?

In this deep and deeply personal conversation, therapist and author Matthias Barker sits down with Miles at the Transform Trauma Conference –– Europe’s largest mental health and wellness conference in Oxford, England –– to open up about his own journey through family estrangement, grief, and reconciliation.  

Together, they break down the real-world stuff we all deal with: why healing must come before forgiveness, the difference between setting a healthy boundary and running away, the traps of modern pop psychology, and what it actually takes to find "peace with what's possible."

Whether you're a mental health professional or just trying to navigate your own family system, this conversation offers real tools for real life.

Learn more about Transform Trauma and other Master’s Events: https://mastersevents.com/ 

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Episode Chapters: 
00:00 - Welcome to Human School... LIVE!
01:45 - Meet Matthias Barker: From drama kid to building a platform
05:00 - The Family Crisis: Addiction, divorce, and estrangement
07:00 - Learning from Grief Expert David Kessler
11:00 - The Intersection of Trauma and Grief in Family Conflict
15:30 - Peace with What’s Possible: Rethinking reconciliation
26:30 - The Research on Contempt and Emotional Abuse
31:30 - Boundaries vs. Avoidance: When to engage and when to step back
39:30 - The Danger of Pop Psychology and Weaponized Therapy Speak
49:30 - The Trap of Rumination vs. True Psychological Healing
55:30 - The Hardest and Most Meaningful Parts of Being a Helper

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What if the secret to improving your own life, health, and happiness had nothing to do with self-care and everything to do with giving back?

In this episode of Human School, host Miles sits down with long-time music industry veteran and philanthropist Rondal Richardson to flip the script on how we think about generosity. Because you don't need millions of dollars or a massive platform to make a real impact.

Today, Rondal shares remarkable behind-the-scenes stories from his 40-year journey in the music business—working alongside legends like The Judds, Garth Brooks, and Naomi Judd—and how an "almost Oprah moment" changed the trajectory of his life.  

You’ll also discover practical ways to get involved in charity, how to know which organizations and causes to align with, and why the best way to heal your own life is often to show up for someone else. 

If you're in middle Tennessee, join the Music Community Foundation for a Give Like Dolly event this weekend: https://www.giving9to5.com/

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In this episode:
00:00 – Introduction to Rondal Richardson and entertainment philanthropy 
00:54 – Meet Rondal Richardson, founder and executive director of the Music Community Foundation 
00:03:00 – The story of meeting Miles through Naomi Judd 
00:15:30 – The Oprah Winfrey connection
00:23:40 – Rondal’s origin story: starting on the road at age 17 
00:32:15 – Touring with Garth Brooks and country music history 
00:40:50 – Making the pivot from the music industry to philanthropy 
00:46:00 – The psychological and physical benefits of service 
01:03:40 – Vetting charities: Charity Navigator, 990s, and finding your cause 
01:17:40 – The impact: Raising $350M+ and the work of the Music Community Foundation 
01:30:30 – Purpose through pain, community support, and looking forward