Is your wife saying she doesn’t feel safe with you?Are your kids staying away from you in certain situations?Do your wife and kids shy away from sharing their emotions with you?If so, there’s a lack of emotional safety in your family relationships.And, if you want loving relationships with your kids…And an intimate relationship with your wife…You need to create emotional safety.Learn how in today’s episode.(And, by the way, it doesn’t mean that you have to be “emotionally perfect” to build emotional safety).Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Apply to be a member of our Founder’s Group of Grounded in God in 2026. We’re looking for 5-7 men who are ready to move from pressure and performance to peace, power and purpose. CLICK HERE to apply. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/grounded-in-god
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How To Tend To Emotions (And How Not To)
What do you do when your kid is scared?Tell him not to be scared?What do you do when you’re mad?Yell at the person?Tell yourself you shouldn’t feel that way?The problem with this kind of response is that it doesn’t let the emotion move through and out of you.Emotion means to move out.Step 1 in tending to emotions is to acknowledge it’s there, and that it has a good reason to be there.Do this with yourself and others and your relationships will improve immediately.Step 2 is to let the emotion move you.Learn more in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QpHZWdoEVv0Dr. Mike P.S. Apply to be a member of our Founder’s Group of Grounded in God in 2026. We’re looking for 5-7 men who are ready to move from pressure and performance to peace, power and purpose. CLICK HERE to apply. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/grounded-in-god
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Is It Worth The Cost?
What do you want out of life?Six pack abs?Millions of dollars?A life full of loving relationships?Anything worthwhile also has a cost.Are you willing to pay the price to have those things?Learn how to evaluate that cost…And how to create a community of people to help you keep going when you feel like it’s not worth it…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMlSxHQEuNYDr. MikeP.S. Strong Men Strong Marriages is becoming Grounded in God in 2026. We’ll be starting with a group of 5-7 men as our Founder’s Group. Reply to this email if you’re interested in joining. More details to come. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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Have To Vs Want To
Do you have to do things?Work? Be a good dad? Be a good husband?Do your kids have to do things? Get their jobs done? Go to school?Does your wife have to do things? Give you attention, appreciation, affection and sex?Here’s the thing.When we think we and others HAVE TO do things…It creates BURDEN.And, most people don’t want to be in a relationship that feels like a burden.Instead, what do you WANT to create in your relationships?And how can you align what you want with what the important people in your life want?This question unlocks creativity, freedom and happy relationships.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DMR62z2mgADr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
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How To Get Attention, Appreciation, Affection And Sex From Your Wife
I know. We talk about how you shouldn’t really need these things from your wife.But, we all want them.And, there’re nothing wrong with wanting them.After a tough therapy session this week, God helped me understand how taking care of a wife actually works.So that she freely gives attention, affection, appreciation and sex to her husband.Learn what it is in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkvJVRQj50EDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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