Equestrian Performance Mindset

• The Real Reason You Never Feel “Caught Up” - #214

  If you’re an ambitious rider trying to juggle horses, work, family, goals, money, fitness, and your sanity… this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale. Today, I and Lorna dive into one of the biggest struggles riders face: How do you manage everything without feeling overwhelmed, guilty, or constantly behind? And the honest answer? You don’t “balance” it. Because balance is a myth, an illusion we keep chasing, then beating ourselves up for not catching. Inside this episode, we explore: Why riders don’t actually have a time problem, they have a thinking problem How overwhelm isn’t failure… it’s the abundance of everything you once wished for The link between your to-do list and your limiting beliefs Why your mind becomes a “washing machine” of pressure, and how to stop feeding it The REAL reason you procrastinate (hint: it’s not laziness) How to recognize when your subconscious is trying to protect you Why some days you glide through 80 tasks and others you can’t handle five The secret difference between an “incapable rider” and an “incapable state” This episode gives you the awareness, the metaphors, and the mental models to finally understand: why you feel overwhelmed why your brain spirals why you keep recreating the same stress patterns and how to start shifting out of them with compassion instead of criticism Whether you’re riding six horses a day or squeezing in one evening ride after work, this conversation will help you stop fighting your mind and start working with it. Resources Mentioned: 🧠 Learn more about the Mindeq Community: https://www.mindeq.eu/offers/djg9H2Bf Follow Jocelin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau Follow Lorna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lornahogarth_coaching/

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• Dressage Mindset Secrets with Sara Van Gool - #213

  In this inspiring and deeply honest conversation, we sit down with Sara, a dressage coach who blends technical training with mindset work to help riders show up with confidence, clarity, and calm. Sara shares how her own struggles with pressure, frustration, and self-doubt led her into mental performance work, and how she now teaches riders to overcome the exact challenges she once faced herself. We dive into: Why dressage riders struggle more than they realize How to build confidence as a rider (the real way) Creating a warm-up that actually works Her unusual secret to staying present Why fun and relaxation must come before results You’ll learn how self-talk: Reduces tension Keeps you in the moment Helps you respond to your horse Stops the “little men running around in your head Resources Mentioned: 🧠 Receive our weekly mindset & performance hacks: https://www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Follow Jocelin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau Follow Lorna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lornahogarth_coaching/ Sara's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saravangool_dressuurcoach/

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• Releasing Old Judgments So You Can Ride Freely - #212

  In today’s episode, I and Lorna take a deep dive into one of the most emotionally charged struggles riders face: caring too much about what other people, especially trainers, think. A listener asks how to move on from a negative trainer experience in the past that still affects her riding years later. And that’s where this episode gets powerful. I and Lorna unpack: Why your mind holds onto old memories How past criticism can shape your confidence today And most importantly, how to change the emotional impact of those memories so they stop controlling you You’ll learn the exact process Lorna uses with clients to release old judgments, shift the “submodalities” of a memory, and take back control of how you feel. This episode isn’t just helpful, it’s transformational. If old comments, past trainers, or past mistakes still hold space in your mind… this one is for you. Tools & Techniques You’ll Learn: How to alter visual “sub-modalities” (size, color, distance, speed) How to reduce the emotional charge of a memory Auditory techniques to silence or soften a trainer’s voice Kinesthetic tools to remove unwanted tension from the body The simple but powerful act of disassociating to reduce overwhelm Anchoring a new emotional state to replace the old one (And yes, I literally walk through an example with my own memory; you’ll learn a lot just listening to the process.) Quotes Worth Remembering: “You created the memory, that means you can also change it.” “You’re not changing the past. You’re changing the emotional meaning of it.” “Disassociate, change the picture, remove the feeling, and suddenly the memory loses its power.” “The moment you shift the sub-modalities, the memory cannot stay the same.” Resources Mentioned: 🧠 Receive our weekly mindset & performance hacks: https://www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks 🧠 Apply for coaching/discovery call: https://www.mindeq.eu/coaching Follow Jocelin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau Follow Lorna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lornahogarth_coaching/

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• Conquering Fear, Expectations, and the 'What If' Chatter with Maeve Foley - #211

  How do you find your way back when intense fear and self-doubt take over your riding? In this deeply moving episode, Maeve Foley opens up about her journey, from being the fearless amateur who’d sneak off to jump bigger tracks, to facing crippling nerves after years away from the sport. She shares how a single bad stride changed everything, how grief shaped her riding, and how she slowly found her way back to courage, confidence, and joy. Together with I and Lorna, Maeve explores what it really takes to overcome fear, build true mental resilience, and learn to trust yourself, and your horse again. You’ll Learn: The hidden fears that can derail even the most experienced riders How one “bad stride” can anchor deep-seated fear, and how to rewire it The real reason nerves take over (and how to stop them from controlling you) Why bravery isn’t the absence of fear, it’s acting in spite of it How to move past setbacks, grief, and self-doubt to rediscover your love of riding Maeve’s powerful mantra: “I never want to leave anything on the table.” Key Quotes: “You haven’t lost your confidence, it’s still there, waiting for you to rebuild trust.” “Fear doesn’t mean stop. It means you’re stretching your comfort zone.” “Do the thing you’re scared of, that’s how you prove your thoughts wrong.” “When you stop fighting yourself, that’s when the progress starts.” Resources Mentioned: 🧠 Receive our weekly mindset & performance hacks: https://www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks 🧠 Be a part of the Mindeq Community: https://www.mindeq.eu/offers/djg9H2Bf Follow Jocelin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau Follow Lorna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lornahogarth_coaching/ Maeve's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/foleymaeve/

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• Riding Under Pressure, and Rising Above It - #210

  "Pressure". Every rider feels it, whether it’s from expectations, money, owners, parents, or the quiet voice inside saying “you have to prove yourself.” In this powerful and honest conversation, I and Lorna unpack where that pressure really comes from and how much of it is self-created. We explore how fears of failure, financial strain, self-worth, and identity all tie into the invisible weight riders carry, and how to start letting it go. You’ll learn to recognize when pressure is helping you perform and when it’s holding you back, how to find your own “ideal pressure zone,” and how to reconnect with the real reason you ride: because you love it. You’ll Learn: Why pressure isn’t real, and how you’re actually creating it The difference between healthy pressure and destructive pressure How your self-worth and identity fuel performance anxiety Why “doing your horse justice” often adds emotional pressure, and how to reframe it How to find your optimal mindset state for peak performance The secret to enjoying the sport again, even when stakes feel high Key Quotes: “Pressure isn’t something you can touch, it’s something you create in your own mind. “You are a worthy, good human being right now, success is just a bonus.” “Pressure is a privilege, but only when you learn to manage it.” “Challenge the story you’re telling yourself, it’s often not reality.” Resources Mentioned: 🧠 Receive our weekly mindset & performance hacks: https://www.mindeq.eu/weeklyhacks Follow Jocelin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jocelinlillienau Follow Lorna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lornahogarth_coaching/

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