The hidden crisis destroying modern men isn't what you might expect. From overworking to addiction, men are silently suffering behind carefully crafted masks of success. In this powerful conversation, we explore why men are struggling to find genuine connection and love in today's world, and how the absence of safe spaces is creating a generation of men who feel forced to shoulder their burdens alone.Discover why addiction isn't just about substances, but often stems from a deeper void that many men are desperate to fill. We uncover how societal expectations, cultural pressures, and the breakdown of traditional support systems have left men without proper outlets for emotional expression.This raw and honest discussion delves into personal experiences with addiction, healing, and the transformative power of authentic connection. Learn why creating safe spaces for men isn't just important - it's essential for the wellbeing of our entire community.Whether you're struggling yourself or know someone who is, this conversation offers insight into the hidden pain many men carry and reveals potential pathways toward healing and genuine connection.#howtomatureasabeliever #spiritualawakening #substanceabuse #substanceabusecounseling #co-occurringdisordersCHAPTERS:00:00 - Pre-Cap01:06 - Younis' Bio02:32 - The Love of a Father08:46 - Men and Self-Development Challenges10:36 - Interacting with other modern men12:18 - Navigating Identity Crisis16:14 - Absence of a Father Figure18:19 - Complaining to Allah20:40 - The Power of Dua25:25 - Discovering Your Gift27:40 - Men and Emotional Love28:50 - The Impact of Overworking29:33 - Understanding Submarining32:40 - Women's Microaggressions Explained38:30 - Why Women Lack Awareness of Men41:00 - Creating Safe Spaces for Discussion46:50 - How to Create Safe Spaces48:45 - The Danger of Judging Outcomes50:00 - You Never Lose with Allah52:05 - The Peak of a Man's Life54:27 - Characteristics of a Safe Space01:01:57 - Final WordsJoin us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/khurammalik
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Effort vs Luck: Why "Just Work Harder" Is a Dangerous Myth
It's the age old question of why some people succeed over others despite the efforts being equal. Why does Allah choose success for some and not for others, and how much does willpower and His leave play a part in all of this?The notion of "just work harder" as a recipe for success is not just misleading—it's dangerous. In this video, we delve into why this mantra oversimplifies reality and overlooks the crucial role of divine will in our achievements. Maybe it's the time we stopped measuring success solely by worldly accomplishments. Reflect on how every slice of bread involves a chain of events far beyond our control, pointing to a greater power at play. It's time we stopped judging others for their perceived lack of success and began recognizing the profound wisdom of surrendering to a higher will, as shown by teachings from Sufi scholars. Join me as I challenge the capitalistic mindset and advocate for a spiritual understanding of true success. Ready to rethink what it means to achieve? Dive into this conversation on spirituality, personal growth, and societal values.CHAPTERS:00:00 - The Power of the Creator02:48 - Personal Responsibility08:35 - Success as Allah Defines It09:18 - Success in the Eyes of Allah09:33 - The Impact of Judging Others09:45 - Bringing Allah Back into the ConversationThat's the question.Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/khurammalik
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Travel's Lost Wisdom: What You're Missing Now
They say travel is supposed to make you wiser, and perhaps that was true for hundreds if not thousands of years, but is it true anymore?In this video, I offer an alternative perspective as to what may have been the true crux of why travel used to make people wiser and why that is not the case anymore, as well as perhaps a new kind of travel experience that we should all consider that can hopefully achieve the same.In a world where every city seems like a carbon copy of the last, the transformative power of travel seems to have faded. Once, travel was a journey into the unknown, offering stark contrasts and fresh perspectives. But now, with global monoculture on the rise, we're left with familiar brands and routines, no matter where we roam. Maybe it's the corporations we should question, as they define our travel experiences and limit our cultural exposure. It's time we stopped and considered if we're truly connecting with the world or just moving through it. Maybe it's the personal stories and shared human experiences that hold the key to wisdom we seek. Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: [Patreon Link]. Let's explore these ideas together and redefine what it means to truly travel.#HumanBehavior #SelfImprovement #CulturalExchange #ModernTravelWisdom #CulturalUnderstandingCHAPTERS:00:00 - Travel Makes You Wiser01:20 - Travel's Impact on Wisdom06:10 - Strategies for Gaining Wisdom08:20 - Personal Development TechniquesJoin us in Discord by signing up via Patreon:   / khurammalik Â
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The Surprising Impact of Food on Your Personality
We have come to know the effect of food on our physiological state but have we ever considered how food affects our emotions and even our spiritual state?That is what I explore in this video based on an interesting interaction with a friend at an iftar one day.I delve into the surprising connection between diet and behavior, exploring how certain foods can trigger emotions and alter our personality. Through personal stories and insights into spiritual and traditional medicine, discover how our eating habits might be fueling our stress, anxiety, and even social interactions. Maybe it's the processed, spice-laden meals that dull our perceptions and heat up our tempers. This isn't just about food—it's about reclaiming control over our mental and spiritual well-being. I share my journey towards understanding this shocking diet-behavior connection, emphasizing the need for simpler, more mindful eating practices. Join the discussion and explore how we can all strive for peak performance while embracing a lifestyle that's both enriching and spiritually fulfilling.CHAPTERS:00:00 - How What We Eat Affects Our Personality01:26 - Personal Story06:05 - Ibn Khaldun’s Diet & Environment Insights09:53 - Diet's Impact on Perception and Emotions11:25 - Holding Onto Truth and Wisdom11:46 - Simple Diet for Spiritual Well-BeingJoin us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/khurammalik
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A British Muslim Revert Story ft. Kevin Turton [Part 2]
It was nothing glamorous said brother Kevin Turton about his reversion to Islam in the early 2000s at the ripe age of 18 years old.Therapeutic is how I would describe this episode in a conversation about how brother Kevin came to Islam and what were the events that led up to it, but also how that ties back to our self-identity and self-esteem and what he has learned and observed along the way.Very timely with regards to the events that are going on in the world right now.Kevin embraced Islam in the most unexpected way—in the back of a car. From a typical British upbringing to finding a new self-identity within the Muslim Ummah, this video delves deep into the trials and triumphs of being a Muslim revert.Navigating self-esteem and religious manipulation can be a challenge. Maybe it's the moments of sheer vulnerability or the encounters that shape us. This story isn't just about converting; it's about the journey of finding one's place, battling internal conflicts, and ultimately embracing a new faith that saved him.Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: [Patreon Link]#MyJourney #CatholicismToIslam #MuslimRevert #SelfEsteem #SelfIdentity #Ummah #BritishMuslims #PeakPerformance #ReligiousManipulation #DrAsifMunaf#AuthenticSelf #LifechangingStory #EmbracingIslam #JourneyToIslam #IdentityExplorationCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro02:29 - Your Journey to Islam09:11 - Meeting Yusuf Pauls10:38 - Becoming Muslim17:48 - Parents' Reaction to Conversion21:09 - Importance of Love in Islam21:40 - The Adhan encounter22:55 - Learning from the Local Sheikh24:20 - Owning the Room with Confidence25:22 - Building Self-Esteem as a Muslim27:30 - Mindset Transformations28:14 - Embracing Authenticity31:18 - Keeping Doors Open for Others34:50 - The Story of Dave's Journey38:55 - The Best of People in the Ummah41:05 - Importance of Cheerfulness43:17 - Positive Outcomes in Life44:54 - Living in a Fear-Driven Society46:07 - Understanding the Fear of God47:05 - Allowing Allah to Guide YouJoin us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/khurammalik
Talking Money, Masculinity and Medicine.An alternative but non-controversial and informed perspective.Video versions are available on my youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@KhuramMalikmeSign up to my Discord at: www.patreon.com/KhuramMalik
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