Episode 105: 5 Toxic Ways Families Deal with Addiction
When someone you love is addicted, it's easy to fall into survival mode—doing whatever it takes to keep the peace, manage the chaos, or fix the problem. But many of the strategies families use, though well-intentioned, actually cause more harm than good.
In this episode, Danny breaks down 5 of the most common toxic patterns families fall into when dealing with addiction—and why these responses only fuel the cycle. From enabling and denial to blame and over-functioning, you'll hear real-life examples and learn healthier, more effective ways to respond.
Whether you're a parent, spouse, or sibling of someone struggling with addiction, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical next steps to start breaking free from the dysfunction.
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Episode 104:Surviving Summer: How to Navigate Family Events with an Addicted Loved One
Already dreading the family reunion? Wondering if it's possible not to invite them to the wedding? Summer is supposed to be a time for fun, and family—but when you love someone who’s battling addiction, these gatherings can quickly become stressful, chaotic, or even painful. In this episode, we are sharing practical, compassionate strategies to help you show up for summer vacations, weddings, family reunions, and other big events without losing yourself in the process.
Whether you’re dreading the next family trip or simply wondering how to handle hard conversations around the dinner table, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence you need to navigate it well.
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Episode 103: Counterfeit Recovery: When "Healing" Becomes The New "High".
In this episode, Danny and Emily take a hard look at the growing trend of so-called "natural" and "non-addictive" alternatives to real recovery and healing — think microdosing mushrooms, ketamine therapy, kratom, psychedelics, and more.
These substances are marketed as healing tools for trauma, anxiety, and addiction. They're often labeled as safe, non-habit-forming, and even therapeutic — but the truth is, they’re becoming modern-day counterfeits for true healing and long term recovery. Many people turn to these as replacements for actual treatment, unknowingly trading one false solution for another.
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Episode 102: Is it Addiction? Or a Mental Health Crisis?
One of the biggest reasons families stay stuck when a loved one is spiraling is this paralyzing question: "Is this addiction... or is it a mental health crisis?" That uncertainty can stop parents, spouses, and siblings from taking action—afraid of labeling it wrong, of pushing too hard, or making things worse. In this episode, we unpack why this question is so common, why it keeps families on the sidelines, and how to move forward even when you don’t have all the answers.
Danny and Emily answer this question loud and clear—bringing truth, experience, and hope to the heart of the struggle.
If you've ever felt torn between compassion and fear, this episode is for you.
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Episode 101: 18 Years RECOVERED : What Made It Possible.
In this special episode, Danny celebrates 18 years of sobriety and sits down with his wife and co-host, EJ, to reflect on the powerful journey of recovery — from the darkest days of addiction to the deeply fulfilling life they live now.
But this conversation goes far beyond Danny’s story.
Together, they explore how the addiction recovery industry has radically changed over the last two decades — and not always for the better. They discuss the heartbreaking truth about how families have been pushed out of the recovery process, why that’s contributing to lower success rates, and what it actually takes to create lasting transformation.
Whether you're walking through addiction yourself or love someone who is, this episode is a raw and real reminder that healing *is* possible — but it takes more than just the addict getting help.
Because recovery doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens together.
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Danny Deaton, a Family Addiction Recovery expert, and his wife Emily offer a raw, honest, and deeply personal perspective on addiction, marriage, faith, and family life. Drawing from their own journeys through teenage pregnancy, adoption, drug addiction, and incarceration, they bring an authentic voice to these challenging topics. Together, they founded Living Proof Recovery Service, a program dedicated to supporting families affected by addiction, and The Living Proof Family Foundation, a nonprofit focused on providing crucial support and education to those struggling with addiction. They’ve built these organizations from the ground up, all while raising their three children together, which they consider their greatest success. This dynamic couple welcomes you into their world, sharing the highs, lows, and everything in between with open hearts and unwavering transparency. Tune in for a conversation that feels like family, where you’ll find hope, strength, and authenticity in every episode.
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