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• DIDDY TRIAL: If It Was That Bad, Why Didn’t She Leave? The Truth About Coercive Control | Ep 4

  Picking up where we left off, I’m diving into the vital question everyone keeps asking: “If it was that bad, why didn’t she just leave?” With my incredible co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards by my side, we unpack the real mechanics behind coercive control, trauma bonding, and why leaving an abusive relationship is never as simple as it seems. Laura breaks down expert testimony, practical warning signs, and how cultural myths keep victims trapped—while offering tangible ways for women to identify and reclaim their autonomy. In this episode, we spotlight the power of knowledge, advocacy, and why changing the law is crucial for women’s safety. Whether you’re questioning your own relationship or looking to help a friend, this show delivers deeply personal insights and concrete tools for recognizing manipulation and abuse. SHOWNOTES Why victims of abuse can’t “just leave”: The truth behind manipulation and entrapment [00:00:46] Dr. Dawn Hughes’s court testimony—explaining trauma bonding, cycles of abuse, and coping mechanisms Grooming, love bombing, and why abusers alternate between charm and cruelty [00:03:38] Violent resistance and why “fighting back” can be even more dangerous The law’s failure to recognize coercive control—and its real-world impact on survivors Laura’s checklist: Signs you’re in a coercively controlling relationship The isolating power of charm, threats, and double standards in abusive dynamics Economic and sexual abuse as tools to limit agency and sustain dependency [00:25:02] The trauma bond: Why crisis can push victims closer to abusers, not further away Where to get more information and support—including quizzes, resources, and direct expert help CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• You’re Not Too Much: Why Your Confidence Triggers Others & How To Handle It | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)

  This is a Fan Fav episode. What up, my homies! It’s your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome right back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we call out the BS, build our confidence, and go after the life we freaking deserve. If it’s your first time vibing with us, what up, my homie? If you’re a returning OG, I’m SO freaking grateful you’re here—let’s level up together! Today I’m bringing you something raw, real, and probably the kick in the butt you need to drop the fake confidence act and step into your honest, badass self. We’re diving into another electrifying Instagram Live Q&A where I break down how to embrace your confidence without crossing over into cocky territory—and trust me, we get super real about what that means, how to draw the line, and why you never have to dull your shine for anyone. This episode is jam-packed with: Practical confidence-building strategies Setting boundaries (especially when people comment on your body) Navigating the difference between real confidence and bravado (and why sometimes you need to fake it till you make it, guilt-free) Forgiving yourself, letting go of needing anyone else’s validation, and stepping into a whole new version of you—at ANY age. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro—Welcome and Why Confidence Matters 00:53 Free 4-Step Confidence Workshop Announcement 01:42 Why Ratings/Reviews Mean Everything for the Podcast 03:04 Q&A Starts: How to Exude Confidence without Looking Cocky 06:06 Setting Boundaries When Others Comment on Your Body 12:47 The Power of Writing Your Boundary Scripts 13:10 Confidence vs. Competence—How to Tell & the “Fake It” Debate 14:58 When Confidence Looks Like Narcissism 15:20 Loving Yourself Unconditionally & Building Internal Validation 20:18 Validation Through Achievements vs. Internal Worth 21:26 "Be So Good, They Can’t Ignore You"—Best Advice Ever (And Handling Rejection) 26:40 Relationship Qs—“Should I Go Back After a Great Date?” 28:39 How to Know If Ending a Relationship Was Right 31:25 Rebuilding Confidence After Lifelong Self-Loathing 33:46 Habits & Boundaries as Stepping Stones to Self-Worth 37:14 Wrap Up—Stay Tuned, Submit Your Qs, and Build Your Confidence! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• Is It Love or Lies? How to Decode Body Language That Most Women Miss | Scott Rouse

  When a man’s words and actions just don’t add up, your gut kicks in—but is it intuition, or paranoia? I’m Lisa Bilyeu, and in this episode, I sit down with world-renowned interrogator and body language expert Scott Rouse, who’s trained with the FBI, to break down the subtle cues that reveal if someone’s being honest, hiding something, or even manipulating you. From decoding mixed signals and love bombing to learning the red flags of a true psychopath, Scott gives us a toolkit for self-protection and radical self-trust. This is essential wisdom for every woman who wants to feel safe, seen, and strong—whether you’re dating, doing business, or just tuning up your radar for the people in your life. SHOWNOTES Is he being faithful or just hiding it? How details and “qualifiers” in answers give away dishonesty [00:00:29] Why psychopaths don’t show fear—and how to spot them through body language and the “psychopathic stare” [00:01:16, 00:11:19] The dangers of love bombing: How predators mirror your voice & mannerisms to build false connections fast [00:03:09] Matching and mirroring: When is it bonding, when is it manipulative? [00:05:12] Nonverbal red flags in relationships: Closed posture, lingering eye contact, asymmetrical smiles, and self-soothing moves [00:06:52–00:13:30] What your intuition is telling you when someone is “too nice”—and why you must trust it [00:24:20] Does alcohol make people worse liars? Quick-fire myth-busting on deception [00:26:59] How Scott’s FBI interrogation tactics—like “us against them”—can reveal truths in any relationship [00:18:09–00:21:54] Watch for sudden tension, withdrawal, or “stepping back” during key questions—they’re distancing from the lie [00:14:07–00:15:52] Building your confidence: Never let anyone make you doubt what you’re sensing or seeing in your own life [00:27:40] FOLLOW SCOTT ROUSE:Website: https://scottrouse.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BehaviorXThe Behavior Panel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheBehaviorPanel CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• How to Protect Yourself From a Narcissist: The 4 Boundaries Every Woman Needs | Dr. Ramani (Fan Fav)

  This is a Fan Fav episode. Strap in, my friends—because today is a masterclass on navigating conversations with the narcissists in our lives. Whether it’s a parent, a partner, a boss, or a long-time friend, licensed clinical psychologist and viral expert Dr. Ramani is back in the Women of Impact hot seat. She’s breaking down exactly what NOT to do when faced with manipulation—and giving us the practical tools to protect ourselves, set unbreakable boundaries, and finally take back our power. We’re diving deep into the emotional landmines of narcissistic communication, how to break the cycle of defending and explaining, why your psychological “passwords” must be guarded, and how to find support and healing—even if you’re not ready or able to walk away. Get ready for real talk, revolutionary strategies, and the reminder that you never have to serve up your pain to someone who will weaponize it against you. SHOWNOTES The real impact of words: Why “sticks and stones” is a harmful myth 00:06:25 – How to recognize and respond when someone tries to invalidate your reality Dr. Ramani’s DEEP technique: Don’t Defend, Engage, Explain, or Personalize The dangers of sharing your deepest vulnerabilities with a narcissist 00:13:44 – Weaponized vulnerability: When your wounds become someone else’s ammunition Narcissistic parents and partners: Why history repeats itself and how to break free Can you ever be happy in a narcissistic relationship? What joy looks like with limits 00:32:09 – “Hang time” and why breaking away gets harder the longer you stay Top mistakes to avoid: Never call out a narcissist, and always have an exit strategy Practical steps, resources, and daily support from Dr. Ramani’s powerful online community FOLLOW DR. RAMANI: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani Website: https://www.doctor-ramani.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• DIDDY TRIAL: What Diddy Did to Control Women - And the Warning Signs You'll Never Miss Again | Ep 3

  Everything changed when women dared to speak up. This week, with my co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards, and special guest ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante by my side, we’re dissecting the walls of power, money, intimidation, and silence surrounding Diddy’s alleged abuse. We break down Cassie’s mother’s pivotal testimony, explore the mechanics of coercion, sex trafficking and racketeering charges, and lay out practical strategies for any woman feeling trapped by threats and shame. We ask the uncomfortable questions: When the world won’t protect women, what does justice really look like? And—how do we take back our stories, our safety, and our agency, even when going up against the untouchable? SHOWNOTES00:46 – Cassie’s mother’s “prima facie” email: timelines, threats, and intimidation02:33 – Calculated power: How premeditated violence and possession shape an abuser’s profile04:16 – Proving a criminal enterprise: Money wires, business involvement, and racketeering law07:45 – Taking back the narrative: Laura’s & Andrew’s advice for women fearing blackmail or shame10:48 – The double standard: Possession, jealousy, and the “kingdom” of coercive control13:32 – Building a criminal case: Why the prosecution is laying groundwork with subtle, corroborating testimony18:43 – “The Punisher” testimony: Consent, coercion, and the nuance of sexual trafficking charges22:25 – Why RICO/racketeering needs “two acts, two people”—and the legal importance of patterns27:42 – David James’s inside view: Leverage, blackmail, hotel cash bags, and organizational conspiracy32:53 – The bystander effect: Why even celebrities don’t intervene, and what contracts & NDAs protect40:20 – Friendships, fear, and trauma bonds: How isolation fuels repeated abuse FOLLOW LAURA RICHARDS: Website: ⁠https://www.crime-analyst.com⁠ & ⁠https://www.thelaurarichards.com ⁠ Patreon: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst ⁠ DASH Checklist: ⁠https://www.dashriskchecklist.com/ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/laurarichards999/ ⁠& ⁠https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/⁠ YouTube: ⁠http://www.youtube.com/@crimeanalyst⁠ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ FOLLOW ANDREW BUSTAMANTE:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Podcast: https://everydayspy.com/podcast/Website: https://everydayspy.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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