Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

What if growth isn’t about pushing harder, but about letting go more skillfully?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with coach and author Suzy Ashworth for a grounded, activating conversation about identity shifts, pivots, and what it actually takes to receive more in life and business.

Together, they explore why true transformation doesn’t come from strategy alone, but from who you’re willing to become in your body, your nervous system, and your sense of self. Suzy shares how the most powerful pivots in her life and work didn’t come from forcing outcomes, but from releasing attachment to timelines, outcomes, and the need to prove.

They unpack the difference between desire and striving, why pleasure and joy create magnetism, and how detachment becomes a superpower when it comes to manifestation and receiving. This conversation reframes success as an internal orientation first, and an external result second.

This episode is for anyone standing at the edge of a change, sensing that the next level requires less effort and more trust, and learning how to open themselves to receive what’s already available.

KEY MOMENTS:
00:00:00 — Identity as the starting point of transformation
00:03:15 — Setting the energetic field: invocation, coherence, intention
00:07:00 — Why the pivot matters more than the plan
00:11:20 — Joy and pleasure as stabilizers for growth
00:18:10 — Choosing who you become when life forces a reckoning
00:24:30 — Resilience, failure, and expanding emotional capacity
00:27:00 — Detachment as a manifestation superpower
00:31:00 — Faith plus action: alignment without exhaustion
00:34:00 — Identity before income and external results
00:46:00 — Integration: when the work becomes how you live

About Suzy Ashworth

Suzy Ashworth is a coach, speaker, and bestselling author of Infinite Receiving. She is the founder of the Quantum Leap Your Life & Business certification and works with leaders and entrepreneurs who are ready to shift identity, expand capacity, and build success that is both profitable and sustainable.

Suzy’s work focuses on embodiment, nervous system alignment, and redefining success as something that is lived, not chased.

Learn more about Suzy and explore her work:https://suzyashworth.com

Follow Suzy on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/suzy_ashworth

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By working at the level of the nervous system, state of consciousness, and capacity to hold more, Level 3 supports the kind of embodied leadership Suzy speaks to in this episode, abundance that lasts without exhaustion.

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What if spiritual growth isn’t about belief, manifestation, or bypassing reality — but about understanding how reality actually works?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with Sarah Elkhaldy, mystic, teacher, and host of Mystery Teachings on Gaia, for a clear, rigorous conversation about free will, karma, destiny, and spiritual evolution.

Sarah explains how ancient mystery teachings were designed to initiate real changes in consciousness, not to comfort or inspire. Together, they explore how free will operates between fate and karma, what sovereignty truly requires, and why responsibility is central to spiritual growth. This conversation bridges mysticism and natural law, offering a grounded framework for understanding evolution beyond spiritual aesthetics.

They also discuss the concept of homo luminous, the next stage of human evolution, and why presence in the simplest moments can become a profound initiation when awareness is fully engaged. Throughout the episode, Emily and Sarah examine discernment, embodiment, and why not all spiritual paths lead to the same outcomes.

This episode is for anyone who feels called to move beyond inspiration and into a deeper understanding of how consciousness evolves through choice, presence, and responsibility.

Key Moments

00:00:00 — Free will, fate, and karma explained through natural law
00:03:40 — What mystery teachings were actually designed to do
00:07:14 — Free will as the space between destiny and karma
00:12:50 — Childhood mysticism, imagination, and early initiation
00:16:04 — Presence as spiritual practice (the tea teaching)
00:19:22 — Human evolution and the concept of homo luminous
00:24:58 — Why not all spiritual paths lead to the same outcome
00:31:10 — Discernment, responsibility, and conscious initiation
00:38:40 — What sovereignty actually requires in daily life
00:46:15 — Integrating mystery teachings in the modern world
00:54:30 — Embodiment, service, and living the teachings
01:01:40 — Closing reflections on evolution, choice, and awareness

Where This Work Continues

If this conversation resonated, especially around sovereignty, discernment, and embodied awareness, this is the kind of inquiry explored inside Ziva Level 3.

Level 3 is an advanced mastermind focused on integration, responsibility, and living these teachings in real life, with immersive experiences and pilgrimage work in Greece.

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About Sarah Elkhaldy

Sarah Elkhaldy is a mystic, teacher, and host of Mystery Teachings on Gaia. Her work explores esoteric wisdom, spiritual initiation, free will, and the mechanics of consciousness through the lens of natural law. She is known for her precise, no-nonsense approach to mysticism and her ability to translate ancient teachings into lived understanding.

Learn more about Sarah and explore her work:https://www.sarahelkhaldy.com

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What does it actually mean to work with the divine feminine as a lived force?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with Alana Fairchild, spiritual teacher and oracle creator, for a grounded, illuminating conversation about Isis, feminine power, truth, and rebirth.

Together, they explore the divine feminine as a source of creative intelligence, spiritual authority, and radical honesty. Not something symbolic or abstract, but something that requires courage, embodiment, and responsibility. Alana shares how archetypes like Isis and Kuan Yin carry distinct medicines for our time, and why real transformation asks us to love what is being revealed rather than bypass it.

The conversation moves through sacred sexuality, shadow, initiation, and the difference between power that dominates and power that restores. Midway through the episode, Emily and Alana open a shared prayer and oracle transmission, inviting listeners into a direct experience of reflection and remembrance.

This episode offers a deeper understanding of how feminine wisdom works, both personally and collectively, and how to stay rooted in love as truth surfaces.

If you are navigating change, revelation, or a sense that something ancient is returning, this conversation will help you meet it with clarity and steadiness.

Key Moments:
00:00:00 — Opening devotion & how Alana’s work became a living teacher
00:07:12 — The origin of Alana’s oracle work & feminine transmission
00:15:42 — Isis as power, rebirth, and uncompromising truth
00:24:30 — Sacred sexuality, wholeness, and feminine authority
00:33:10 — Shadow, initiation, and remembering who you are
00:45:10 — Live prayer & oracle transmission for listeners
00:54:12 — Truth being revealed — personally and collectively
01:05:40 — Loving what’s unveiled instead of bypassing it
01:17:10 — Closing reflections on devotion, resilience, and rebirth

About Alana Fairchild

Alana Fairchild is an internationally acclaimed spiritual teacher, writer, and creator of over 20 oracle decks, including the Isis Oracle, Kuan Yin Oracle, and Sacred Rebels Oracle. Her work bridges mysticism, psychology, and embodied spirituality, offering pathways of healing, empowerment, and remembrance rooted in the divine feminine.

Discover Alana’s oracle decks and teachings:https://www.alanafairchild.com

Follow her work on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/alanafairchild

Where This Work Continues

The themes in this episode: embodiment, devotion, feminine power, and living initiation, are central to Ziva Level 3, an advanced container for integration and embodied leadership that includes initiatory experiences and pilgrimage work in Greece.

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What if your purpose isn’t something you need to find, but something you remember by letting go of who you thought you were supposed to be?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with Sadhvi Bhagawati, spiritual leader, humanitarian, and longtime resident of Rishikesh, India, for a conversation that spans identity, dharma, devotion, service, and the quiet joy of surrender.

Sadhviji shares her journey from a successful Western life to answering an inner call that led her to the banks of the Ganges more than three decades ago, not as an escape from the world, but as a deeper way of being in it. Together, they explore what dharma really means beyond career or calling, why success so often leaves people feeling empty, and how purpose emerges naturally when we stop striving and start listening.

The conversation moves into the profound collective experience of the Maha Kumbh Mela, where hundreds of millions of people gather not around identity, politics, or achievement, but shared remembrance. Sadhviji explains how these ancient gatherings dissolve the illusion of separation and offer a lived experience of unity that can’t be understood intellectually, only felt.

Emily and Sadhviji also explore the Vedic understanding of immortality, not as something physical, but as the wisdom of knowing yourself beyond the body, the story, and the personal narrative. They talk about releasing identity without abandoning responsibility, how service becomes effortless when it’s aligned, and why happiness isn’t something we earn, it’s what remains when we stop resisting life.

This episode is not about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you already are.

In This Episode, We Explore:
• What dharma really means beyond career or productivity
• Why success often fails to deliver fulfillment
• Surrender as strength, not passivity
• The Maha Kumbh Mela and collective remembrance
• Identity, ego, and the freedom of letting go
• Immortality as consciousness, not the body
• Service as a natural expression of alignment
• Finding peace without bypassing responsibility

About Sadhvi Bhagawati:
Sadhvi Bhagawati is a spiritual leader, author, and humanitarian based in Rishikesh, India. She is President of the Divine Shakti Foundation, Secretary-General of the Global Interfaith WASH Alliance, and a key organizer of the Kumbh Mela. She is the author of Hollywood to the Himalayas and Come Home to Yourself, and is known worldwide for bridging Eastern wisdom with modern life through service, devotion, and interfaith leadership.

Where This Work Continues
The themes in this episode — dharma, embodiment, service, and lived wisdom — are central to the work we do inside Level 3, an advanced mastermind designed to support deep integration, regulation, and spiritual leadership, with initiatory experiences that include pilgrimage in Greece.

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What if the missing ingredient in healing isn’t effort, insight, or intensity — but safety?

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with psychiatrist, neuroscientist, and stress researcher Dr. Dave Rabin for a deep, grounding conversation about trauma, healing, psychedelics, and the nervous system.

Dr. Dave explains why the body must feel safe before real transformation can occur, how vulnerability is not a weakness but a biological gateway to healing, and why many modern approaches to growth fail because they bypass the nervous system entirely. Together, they explore the science behind touch, oxytocin, the vagus nerve, and the body’s innate pharmacy — and why regulation, not catharsis, is what allows change to last.

This conversation bridges cutting-edge neuroscience with ancient wisdom, reframing healing as a process of listening, softening, and restoring trust in the body. If you’ve been doing the work — meditating, journaling, therapy, breathwork — but still feel tense, guarded, or dysregulated, this episode offers a radically compassionate reframe.

In This Episode, We Explore:
•Why safety is the foundation of all healing
•How the nervous system responds to touch and presence
•What “psychedelic” really means (beyond substances)
•Why vulnerability is biologically necessary for change
•The role of oxytocin, the vagus nerve, and regulation
•Ancient medicine meeting modern neuroscience
•Learning to trust the body over external metrics

Key Moments:
00:00:00 — Why vulnerability is the gateway to healing
00:04:18 — Redefining “psychedelic” through neuroscience
00:09:42 — Why safety must come before transformation
00:15:36 — Touch as the fastest language of the nervous system
00:22:14 — Oxytocin, trust, and the biology of calm
00:29:08 — Why willpower doesn’t heal trauma
00:36:41 — Eastern wisdom finally validated by Western science
00:43:27 — Self-touch, co-regulation, and restoring agency
00:50:12 — Listening to the body vs. outsourcing intuition to devices
00:57:19 — Building safety as a daily practice
01:04:03 — What real integration actually looks like
01:11:22 — Healing as remembering how to feel safe again

About Dr. Dave Rabin
Dr. Dave Rabin is a board-certified psychiatrist, neuroscientist, and co-founder of Apollo Neuroscience. He has spent over 15 years researching chronic stress, trauma, and non-invasive healing modalities, including MDMA-assisted therapy, touch-based regulation, and nervous system resilience.
Website: www.drdave.io
Instagram: @drdaverabin

Where This Work Continues
Level 3 is where regulation becomes lived practice — a mastermind with advanced training, integration, and initiatory work, including a sacred pilgrimage through Greece.

Explore Level 3 here:
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