The Thais Gibson Podcast

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In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode, Thais Gibson shares her long and complex physical health journey from chronic illness in childhood to discovering root causes as an adult through functional and integrative approaches.

This conversation is not about giving medical advice. It’s about sharing lived experience, connecting the dots between nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and physical well-being, and helping others feel less alone if they’ve been struggling with unexplained or chronic symptoms.

Thais opens up about her childhood health challenges, early adulthood, and the physical symptoms that persisted even after deep emotional and psychological healing. She shares what led her to explore functional medicine, advanced testing, and lifestyle changes and how understanding her body transformed her quality of life.

This episode explores:
Growing up with chronic illness and allergies
How early life experiences shaped resilience and self-awareness
The role of functional medicine and root-cause testing
Discoveries around mold exposure, inflammation, and nervous system health
What ultimately supported her healing journey
This is a story about listening to your body, advocating for yourself, and integrating mind–body healing.

 

Key Takeaways
Chronic symptoms can become “normal” when they start early in life
Emotional healing and physical healing often need to happen together
Functional and root-cause approaches helped uncover missing pieces
Regulation, awareness, and self-support play a role in overall well-being
You’re not broken, sometimes your body is asking to be understood

 

Timestamps
00:00 – Intro
00:55 – Thais’ Physical Health Journey
03:46 – Thais’ Childhood and Youth
09:00 – Thais’ Early Adult Life
17:22 – Getting Into Functional Medicine
21:15 – Heal From a Breakup Course Promo
21:51 – Mycotoxin and Organic Acids Test Results
31:39 – Mast Cell Activation Syndrome
34:41 – What Helped Thais Heal
43:38 – Final Takeaways

 

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

 

Helpful Resources:
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If you have a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style, healing doesn’t mean forcing yourself to become someone you’re not — it means learning a new, healthier relationship with vulnerability, emotions, and connection.

In this video, Thais Gibson shares 5 hard but deeply transformative truths that can support dismissive avoidant healing, reduce emotional shutdown, and help you build relationships that feel safe, balanced, and sustainable.

These truths may feel uncomfortable at first, but once integrated, they can fundamentally change how you experience intimacy, self-worth, and connection.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why emotions are not something to avoid, but powerful feedback tools
How vulnerability creates safety, not weakness
Why receiving support is a key part of healthy interdependence
How compromise strengthens connection without self-abandonment
Why being imperfect does not mean you are defective

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – These Truths Can Transform Your Life
00:35 – 1. Your Feelings Are Your Friends
02:03 – 2. Vulnerability Is Healthy and Necessary
03:10 – 3. Leaning on Someone and Receiving Support From Them Is Not Weak
04:34 – Ending Codependency Course Promo
04:55 – 4. It Is Important to Make Concessions in the Form of Compromises
05:37 – 5. It Is Normal and Human to Have Flaws

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
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📚 Read the Learning Love Book
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🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

Let’s Connect on Socials:
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📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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When someone won’t commit, it can trigger anxiety, self-doubt, and the urge to chase or over-explain.

But a securely attached person doesn’t beg, pressure, or abandon themselves.

They respond with clarity, boundaries, and self-trust, and that response changes everything.

🎥 Episode Summary

In today’s video, Thais Gibson breaks down exactly how a securely attached person responds when a dismissive avoidant won’t commit, and how you can reverse engineer that response in your own healing journey.

You’ll learn the key differences in commitment timelines across attachment styles, how secure individuals communicate needs without pressure or ultimatums, and how they protect their time, energy, and emotional well-being when commitment remains unclear.

This episode is essential if you:
Feel stuck waiting for someone to “decide”
Are dating an avoidant partner who won’t commit
Tend to self-silence or people-please to keep connection
Want to respond with confidence instead of anxiety

✨ Key Takeaways

✔ Why attachment styles have different commitment timelines
✔ How secure people express interest without pressure
✔ The difference between clarity and ultimatums
✔ Why secure people don’t take avoidance personally
✔ How to communicate needs while holding empathy
✔ What secure boundaries look like in real conversations
✔ Why ending codependent patterns restores self-trust

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – How A Secure Person Reacts When An Avoidant Won’t Commit
00:36 – Each Attachment Style Has A Different Expectation 
01:16 – The Anxious Preoccupied And Dismissive Avoidant Timelines
 02:01 - The Fearful Avoidant And Secure Timelines
04:07 - Not Everybody Follows the Same Expectations 
04:41 - A Securely Attached Person Would Not Take Differences Personally
05:07 - How A Secure Person Reacts When They Don’t Want To Commit
06:48 - A Secure Person Expresses Their Own Needs
08:22 - Ending Relationship Codependency and Enmeshment Promo
08:51 - How A Secure Person Communicates They Want To Commit
10:22 - A Securely Person Shows the Avoidant That There’s a Natural Consequence For Not Showing Up

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

📚 Read the Learning Love Book
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

Let’s Connect on Socials:
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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After a fight with a Dismissive Avoidant, it can feel like they shut down completely, emotionally unavailable, distant, and unaffected.

But what looks like indifference on the outside is often a complex internal process happening beneath the surface.

Understanding what’s really going on can change everything, especially if you want to stop chasing, over-explaining, or losing yourself in the process.

🎥 Episode Summary

In today’s video, Thais Gibson breaks down the 4 internal stages a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style typically experiences after a conflict or argument.

You’ll learn why dismissive avoidants shut down, distance, and deactivate, not because they don’t care, but because emotional intensity feels unsafe at a nervous system level.

This episode is essential if you:
Are in a relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant
Feel confused by shutdown, stonewalling, or emotional distance after conflict
Want to respond in a way that supports connection without self-betrayal
Or are a dismissive avoidant wanting to understand your own internal process

✨ Key Takeaways

✔ Why shutdown and stonewalling are self-protection strategies
✔ What Dismissive Avoidants are actually trying to escape after conflict
✔ The distancing stage and internal deactivation dialogue
✔ How space (when respected) leads to emotional recovery
✔ Why reconnection happens slowly and why pushing backfires
✔ The curiosity and learning stage, when growth becomes possible
✔ How codependent patterns keep conflict cycles stuck

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – What Happens to Dismissive Avoidants After an Argument?
00:36 – Stage 1: Shutdown or Stonewalling 
01:58 – Stage 2: Distancing 
03:55 – Stage 3: Recovery and Connection 
04:57 – Ending Codependency Course Promo  
05:18 – Stage 4: Curiosity and Learning

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

📚 Read the Learning Love Book
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

Let’s Connect on Socials:
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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You may want love, connection, and intimacy… yet still feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, or suddenly disconnected when relationships get close.

If this resonates, you may have a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style, and it’s not because something is “wrong” with you. These patterns are learned subconscious strategies designed to keep you safe.

In this video, Thais Gibson walks you through 10 powerful signs of Dismissive Avoidant attachment, helping you understand where these patterns come from and how they impact your relationships, so you can begin creating deeper, healthier connections without losing yourself.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Why different attachment styles operate with different subconscious “rules for love”
How emotional neglect shapes dismissive avoidant behaviors
Why vulnerability, conflict, and criticism can feel so threatening
What causes sudden emotional shutdowns or loss of feelings
How healing codependency supports secure attachment and emotional safety

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – The Attachment Styles Have Different Subconscious Rules for Love
01:25 – 1. You’re Afraid of Being Vulnerable
03:01 – 2. You Rely on Escapism as a Strategy to Avoid Your Feelings
06:53 – Ending Codependency Course Promo
07:15 – 3. You Dislike Conflict
08:22 – 4. You Are Sensitive to Criticism
10:46 – 5. You Have a Low Emotional Bandwidth at All Times
12:12 – 6. You Often Feel Misunderstood
14:56 – 7. You Believe That Everyone is Responsible for Themselves
17:54 – 8. You Want a Relationship That Is Simple, Harmonious, and Low-Effort
19:19 – 9. You Lose Feelings Suddenly in Relationships
20:51 – 10. You Believe That You Are Incapable of Giving Other People What They Need

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

📚 Read the Learning Love Book
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

Let’s Connect on Socials:
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/