These Five Habits Are Ruining Your Life (And How to Fix Them)
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Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or drained? These hidden habits might be the reason.
In this transformational episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down five common habits that quietly sabotage your emotional well-being—and shows you exactly how to replace them with empowering strategies that fuel your growth.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ How resisting reality (instead of accepting and problem-solving) wastes emotional energy
✔️ Why disconnecting from yourself leads to burnout, self-abandonment, and anxiety
✔️ How unprocessed emotions and painful internal stories accumulate emotional “residue”
✔️ Why indirect communication creates resentment—and how to communicate clearly and vulnerably
✔️ How perfectionism paralyzes progress and erodes self-worth
✔️ Simple mindset shifts and reprogramming techniques to rebuild emotional resilience and inner peace
Each habit is explained with real-life examples and actionable tools you can start applying today to take back your energy, build self-trust, and create a healthier, happier life.
Meet Your Host:
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an internationally respected expert on attachment theory, emotional healing, and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people globally transform their lives from the inside out.
Helpful Resources:
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Healthy Habits for Fearful Avoidant Attachment (Relationships & Life)
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Fearful avoidant attachment doesn’t have to define your relationships or your life. You can rewire old patterns—and it starts with healthier habits.
In this transformative episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais dives deep into essential daily habits that help fearful avoidants heal emotional wounds, reclaim healthy boundaries, and rebuild a secure relationship with themselves and others.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ Why repetition plus emotion reprograms your subconscious attachment patterns
✔️ How to practice true assertiveness without anger, blame, or emotional volatility
✔️ The importance of spending intentional time alone while in relationships
✔️ How journaling helps connect you to real-time emotional needs and self-validation
✔️ How to replace chronic self-criticism with compassionate self-correction
✔️ The power of substituting "thank you" for constant apologizing to rewire guilt and shame
✔️ How consistent small shifts lead to emotional resilience, connection, and empowerment
Whether you're a fearful avoidant yourself or love someone who is, this episode offers practical, powerful, and deeply compassionate steps for long-term emotional transformation.
Meet Your Host:
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an internationally respected expert on attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and reclaim secure relationships.
Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
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How to Integrate Healthier Habits Into Your Life | Anxious Preoccupied Attachment Style
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Struggling to break unhealthy patterns and create lasting change? Healing anxious attachment starts with the habits you build today.
In this empowering episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais shares practical strategies to rebuild your relationship with yourself, meet your own needs, and create healthier emotional habits. Designed especially for those with anxious preoccupied attachment styles, this episode offers a powerful blueprint for transformation and long-term emotional well-being.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ Why anxious attachments form from inconsistent emotional caregiving
✔️ How unmet needs create emotional “addiction” to relationships—and how to break free
✔️ The importance of creating daily rituals for self-connection
✔️ How building a strong internal relationship reduces anxiety and external dependency
✔️ Practical habits to stop self-abandonment and build authentic self-worth
✔️ How to balance developing all areas of life—career, financial, emotional, mental, and spiritual
✔️ Why purpose, meaning, and emotional self-soothing are critical to long-term healing
By shifting your habits at the subconscious and behavioral levels, you can move from emotional survival to emotional empowerment—and create the safe, nurturing life you deserve.
Meet Your Host:
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a globally recognized expert in attachment theory and subconscious healing. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, she’s helped over 70,000 students create profound emotional transformations.
Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
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📚 Explore the Learning Love Book
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Narcissist vs. Dismissive Avoidant: 9 Crucial Differences You Must Know
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Is your partner emotionally unavailable—or emotionally manipulative?
In this in-depth episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais is joined by co-host Mike DiZio to unpack the 9 diagnostic criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and explain how these traits differ from what you see in someone with dismissive avoidant attachment.
This episode goes far beyond the surface, giving you practical tools to differentiate between personality disorders and attachment wounds, understand confusing behaviors, and protect yourself from staying in toxic relationships under the wrong assumptions.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ The 9 clinical traits of narcissism (based on DSM criteria)
✔️ Why dismissive avoidants may appear cold—but aren't manipulative
✔️ The root causes of narcissism vs. avoidant attachment
✔️ How each style relates to vulnerability, attention, and accountability
✔️ How dismissive avoidants can empathize and change—and why narcissists often don’t
✔️ Why NPD healing is rare—and how shame avoidance blocks growth
✔️ Practical examples and red flags to look for in your relationships
Whether you're confused about a past partner, navigating a current dynamic, or exploring your own behavior, this episode delivers eye-opening clarity and practical insight.
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz
00:42 – Intro: Why This Distinction Matters
05:15 – 1: Grandiose Sense of Self
07:57 – 2: Requires Excessive Admiration
21:33 – 3: Fantasies of Unlimited Power, Beauty, Success
29:18 – PDS Membership Program
30:12 – 4: Entitlement
39:32 – 5: Believes They're Special & Unique
43:23 – 6: Interpersonally Exploitative
48:50 – 7: Arrogant or Haughty Attitude
52:18 – 8: Jealousy of Others
53:25 – 9: Lack of Empathy
59:05 – Conclusion
Meet Your Host:
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a global leader in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and build secure, thriving relationships.
Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
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📚 Read the Learning Love Book
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🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1
📝 Read the PDS Blog
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