Everyone's Talkin' Money

Most people don’t struggle with money because they’re irresponsible. They struggle because their entire financial life is running on willpower and memory—which are terrible tools for long-term success. In this episode, Shari breaks down why motivation-based money management always collapses by March, and how to build real financial systems that actually stick. Does Your Money System Rely on Willpower or Memory? Get Your Money System here. Inside, we walk through the four core elements of a “sticky” money system—automation, boundaries, visibility, and realism—and why these matter more than discipline. You’ll learn how to design money flows that match your real income timing, energy cycles, and household complexity, instead of trying to fit your life into a one-size-fits-all budget. Shari also shares the Minimum Viable Money System: the lowest-lift, most functional framework for managing money without spreadsheets, shame, or perfection. If you’ve ever felt like you “should” be better with money but can’t seem to make habits stick, this episode will help you shift from trying harder to designing smarter. If you’re ready for money to feel supportive instead of exhausting, this is where it starts. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here.  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most financial advice was built by men, for men — and women have been expected to simply adapt. Spoiler: we haven’t, and we won’t. In this conversation with Lacy Garcia, founder & CEO of Willow, we get real about: Why women are about to control two-thirds of U.S. wealth How the industry talks about money vs. how women actually make financial decisions What women really want from financial advisors (hint: it’s not alpha charts) The messy middle of the industry finally changing What holistic planning really means beyond the buzzword How to know if an advisor is actually for you — or just painting everything pink This is the perfect January reset if you’ve been feeling like financial advice wasn’t built with your life in mind. Because the truth is, women are already reshaping the future of wealth — the industry is just catching up. Learn more about how my firm, GWA Wealth works with women who want to take control of their money. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here.  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Every January, money becomes part of the New Year’s resolution conversation. Paying off debt, saving more, getting better with money. And while those goals are common, they’re usually not the real issue. In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, Shari explains why money keeps showing up on your New Year’s resolution list year after year, and what that pattern is actually telling you about your financial life. This isn’t about discipline, motivation, or willpower. It’s about whether your money systems are designed for the life you’re actually living. If you feel like you’re constantly resetting your finances, starting over every January, or promising yourself that this year will be different, this episode will help you understand what’s really underneath that stress. Shari breaks down the root reasons money feels stuck, why resolutions often create relief without real change, and how outdated money systems can create frustration even when your income has grown. Get Your Three-Question Money Audit here! This episode kicks off our January series, New Money Year: Reset, Systems, Goals, and lays the foundation for building financial systems that actually work. Not for the life you had five years ago, but for the one you’re living now. If you’re tired of making the same money resolutions every year, this episode will help you stop trying harder and start building smarter Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here.  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app!Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever opened your banking app and felt your stomach drop — like the number on the screen said something about who you are — this episode is for you. Many of us have absorbed a quiet but destructive belief: that financial success equals personal value. That debt means you’re irresponsible. That renting means you’re behind. That earning less means you’re not trying hard enough. And that belief doesn’t just hurt emotionally — it shapes how we spend, save, work, and make decisions every day. In this episode, we pull that belief apart and put money back where it belongs. Your net worth is a number. It’s data. It is not a moral scorecard, a personality test, or a measure of your worth as a human being. We talk about where this belief comes from, how it shows up as money shame, avoidance, overspending, comparison, and fear-based decision making, and the real cost of living this way — lost peace, strained relationships, and the constant feeling of never being enough. Then we get practical. I walk you through how to separate the math from the meaning, how to look at your finances without spiraling, how to set boundaries and say no without over-explaining, and how to build a sense of worth that isn’t dependent on your bank balance, income, or credit score. This isn’t about pretending money doesn’t matter. It does. But it was never meant to define you. Money is a tool.You are the treasure. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here.  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shari is back with another Best of 2025 episode. This time we are talking Boring Money Moves, it is one of her 40 Money Moves at 40 episodes she released in September. Mindset matters — but without solid systems, it won’t get you very far. In this episode of 40 Money Lessons at 40, we’re talking about the unglamorous money moves that quietly build real stability. This is the stuff that doesn’t trend on Instagram but actually changes your financial life: paying yourself first, living one month ahead, setting up simple bank systems, and creating routines that remove stress instead of adding it. We’ll walk through why “leftover money” never works, how to stop feeling behind even when you’re earning more, and why boring consistency beats financial chaos every time. You’ll also hear how small structure creates freedom, how to avoid emotional spending traps, and why the right systems make confidence inevitable. If you’re ready to stop starting over and start feeling steady, this episode is your foundation. Catch all of her 40 at 40 episodes here: ⁠40 Money Lessons at 40 - Part 1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠40 Money Lessons at 20 - Part 2⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠40 Money Lessons at 40 - Part 3⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠40 Money Lessons at 40 - Part 4⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠40 Money Lessons at 40 - Part 5⁠ Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here.  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram If this episode hits home, share it with someone who needs a calmer approach to money. Tag me @everyonestalkinmoney and let me know what clicked. Build the foundation. Your future self will thank you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices