Episode OverviewIn this episode, John Sanei and Erik Kruger dive deep into the essence of charisma, exploring what truly makes someone magnetic and influential beyond surface-level charm.Key TakeawaysCharisma is not about being smooth or charming, but about genuine presence, depth, and internal strength. The hosts break down six critical components of developing true charisma:1. Unshakable ConfidenceConfidence stems from feeling safe internallyPractice internal dialogue that reassures: "No matter what happens, I'll be okay"Build confidence through doing hard things and developing self-respect2. Character Over ReputationFocus on being solid, not looking goodThe truth always outlasts illusionAvoid virtual signaling and stay true to your core valuesDon't feel compelled to defend yourself constantly3. Radical IntegrityDevelop honesty as a power moveBuild trust through consistent behavior over timeMake peace with yourself by being genuineRecognize that long-term relationships are built on consistent character4. Zero Need to ConvinceMagnetic people don't chase approvalState your truth and let it landAvoid getting drawn into unnecessary argumentsUnderstand that not everyone needs to agree with you5. Purpose in ActionFollow your curiosity and excitementCommunicate your mission openly and clearlyStay aligned with your personal geniusRecognize the difference between charm and genuine flow6. Humanize EverythingCompliment freelyEmbrace vulnerabilityUnderstand that perfection is boring, and flaws create connectionBe willing to show your authentic self, including your quirks and insecuritiesNotable Quotes"Charisma is not about charm. It's about presence, depth, and the energy that makes people lean in to listening to you.""When you arrive into a room, are you giving people a remote control or a manual?""The better storyteller you are, the more momentum you'll build around your message."Practical TakeawayCharisma is not a trick but a way of being. It requires:Internal workSelf-awarenessEmpathyCalm energyVulnerability Connect with Us: Subscribe to The Expansive: link.chtbl.com/expansive LinkedIn: Expansive Podcast LinkedIn YouTube: Expansive Podcast Playlist Instagram: @theexpansivepodcast TikTok: @theexpansivepodcast Connect with John Sanei: Instagram: @johnsanei LinkedIn: John Sanei Connect with Erik Kruger: Instagram: @erik_kruger LinkedIn: Erik Kruger Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to rate and review our podcast! Share your thoughts and feedback with us on social media or drop us a message at
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