Love and Abuse

Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
Love and Abuse
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  • Love and Abuse

    They say they love you but they hurt you anyway

    2026/03/24 | 27 mins.
    Some people seem to care but then do awful things. When they do, it's hard not to question if they love you at all.
  • Love and Abuse

    I feel like a bad person for being abusive back

    2026/03/19 | 24 mins.
    Sometimes emotionally abusive people heal and change. Sometimes they just... change. Either way, when the victim of their behavior gets a "break", they might discover a lot of buried emotions that are just itching to come out.
  • Love and Abuse

    The healed emotional abuser is more than just a behavioral change

    2026/03/13 | 51 mins.
    I've seen emotionally abusive people heal and become completely different people. You wouldn't even recognize them! And when you no longer recognize the person who's hurt you over and over again, that might be a very good thing.
  • Love and Abuse

    Do we talk about divorce during the argument or the calm period

    2026/03/03 | 24 mins.
    When you've decided to leave the emotionally abusive relationship, when is the best time to bring it up? During the storm or the calm?
  • Love and Abuse

    Do I accept that this is how theyll be forever

    2026/02/10 | 43 mins.
    Some behaviors are unacceptable. Some people are unacceptable. Just what should you accept and what should you do when you can't? Emotional abuse has a tendency to make you feel completely powerless, unable to make such decisions.

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About Love and Abuse

Helping you identify toxic communication, emotional abuse, manipulation, and other forms of difficult behavior in relationships. Love and Abuse offers the perspective of both the victim and the perpetrator. Full of tips and advice for your friendships, family, love life, and marriage. You'll learn about covert abusive communication that takes away your power. And you'll discover how to pinpoint the specific toxic behaviors, such as narcissistic abuse and verbal abuse, before you are dragged into a psychological game so deep you come out a shell of your former self. Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook, an assessment and healing guide to help you evaluate the emotionally abusive and manipulative patterns in your relationship. Get the guide that will tell you exactly what's happening in your relationship over at loveandabuse.com. https://loveandabuse.com/
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